Some of my favorite BJ Moore colors
Great neutrals
lancaster white HC-174
edgecomb gray HC-173
revere pewter HC-172 <---- my # fav
tan to coffee w/ milk colors
manchester tan HC-81
grant beige HC-83
davenport tan HC-76
alexandria beige HC-77
whitu
all brown HC-69
Very chocolate colors
clinton brown HC-67
middlebury brown HC-68
van buren brown HC-70
Don't be afraid of a little color on the lighter walls.
Like manchester or grant with alexandria or davenport accent.
Or Lancaster with an accent of whitall.
I just saw this house with high gloss wainscoting and OMG it looked so hot with the softest light cool grey walls. GRRRRRRR yummy
Nah - carpeted stairs are fine.
Have you ever considered cork floors?
www.naturalcork.com
easy install.
I'd love to come over - I love this stuff.
I'm painting the spare room today a warm light grey color that my painter friend gave me from a job.
Behr paint has some nice colors too.
BJ Moore has the little sample buckets that you can paint a 24" x 24" sample on your wall if you can't decide.
Donald Kaufman and Farrow Ball or my favorite paints but they are more $$ (40-80 per gallon rather then 20-30) and a pain to get out here in the boonies.