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Ughh... I experienced the hook up and then the rejection.

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Waka

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I thought I would let this out here cause I'm not sure where else I can let this out.

I did... what probably 9 out of 10 girls my age have done. I hooked up with a guy I hardly knew. and saw him for a few weeks quite frequently... Kinda not so much now... its been three weeks and I only see him every once in awhile. He still tells me to call though after work, so I do. and I havent been with him for awhile now.... this must be the typical rejection you get from hooking up with a guy you don't know. The weird part is I'm not really into this guy, now that I'm starting to feel rejected, a lot of my attention has been on this...

He told me to call after work today and no one picked up. I called later... about 9 pm and he picks up.. he's with his buddies, and he said to call him tomarrow and I go "But i can never get ahold of you.." and I'm starting to get unhappy.. and then he says I'll talk to you tomarrow. Ok. So I'm going guess that this was him telling me he doesn't want to see me anymore. What do you guys think?

I'm an idiot. :( Whats sad, is on the other hand, the first thought I had after I got off the phone with him, was that now I'd have a lot more time to focus on the gym. Oh geeez...
 
Aww,I'm sorry hon.It does sound like he's giving you the shine-on.He was probably just in it for fun with no commitment,and once he got his fill,moved on.Makes me sad to hear he's hurt your heart,but you'll find someone to treat you a thousand times better than that.Trust me.Hit that gym hard and before you know it you'll have guys at your beckon call.
 
Waka said:
Lol. Thank ya for your input Huckster. the last part kinda cheered me up.. :)
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It's true!When you least EXPECT to be dating and are just doing your own thing and really working on being your best,that's when all of the sudden you start seeing everyone taking notice of you.Keep your chin up,and hit that gym hard girl.In no time this guy will be a distant(and easily forgotten)memory. :)
 
Why, he can't take the effort and call you? If he won't call you, they you know. I rather not call but won't hang on anybody.

I can't stand these kind of guys, and the other one is the shy type.
 
what's goin' on here.............you give up your "pearl of great sacrifice" for a one night stand and now you want the guy to be at your beck and call?

get real and grow up gal.....you weren't THAT great!!!!
 
Happens to most people our age -- even some guys believe it or not. Keep hitting the gym and it will pay dividends. That's what I do.

I saw some people from High School that treated me like shit, they saw me now and were in awe.
 
Gymgurl said:
Move on he isn't worth you time and there are thousands of men to pick from out there
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I agree....if he's going to treat you like that now then do you really want a relationship with him??
 
StickFigure said:
Listen to these women Waka, they know what they're talking about. After all, they are pushing 40. :chomp:
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:finger:

I will break you! :chomp:
 
yeah, listen to these women, they have been thru hundreds, no, thousands of men. they know. *giggles*
 
but then again, i'd prolly of done the same thing to you. if you're gonna sit around and wait for me while i'm out carousing, how perfect. who wouldn't want a slave?
 
HumanTarget said:
but then again, i'd prolly of done the same thing to you. if you're gonna sit around and wait for me while i'm out carousing, how perfect. who wouldn't want a slave?
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Oooohhh and the ref takes a point away! lol!
 
StickFigure said:
I feel ya bro.....not like AAP but you know
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if she's got a brain rattling around in that skull somewhere, she'll learn. hopefully before she has 5 kids from 4 dads. good luck, kiddo. stay away from the guys you are attracted to, go find a fucking nerd who'll have a great paying job in a few years. (but you'll prolly go for the guy who'll wind up being a roofer).
 
HumanTarget said:
if she's got a brain rattling around in that skull somewhere, she'll learn. hopefully before she has 5 kids from 4 dads. good luck, kiddo. stay away from the guys you are attracted to, go find a fucking nerd who'll have a great paying job in a few years. (but you'll prolly go for the guy who'll wind up being a roofer).
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i made damn good money as a roofer, lol
 
StickFigure said:
I made $40 a square and I could put down about 3 square an hour.
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maybe all the roofers on my street are spending their money on college tuition.
 
Dunno how we got onto the topic of roofers, but damn! :chomp: that's good money... I'd be too embarassed to say what i do for a living. I have the same job I had in highschool, still.

Oh and as far as this post, I called him up and asked him straight forward.. he said he didn't know what he wanted. and I go uhhh for a moment, and he asked if we could hang out sometime, but by then I was in bitch mode and said "Uh no thanks :( ", asked if I was ok, momentarily pause of sadness, I say Yea, he says I'm really sorry, there was some more awkward silence, and I say K well ive got things to do, he says I'll talk to you later... Then I hung up on him. Being straightforward was the way to go I think.. And I'm actually somewhat excited to have all this free time to train in the gym now. ;) For the two weeks we actually did hang out...consistently, he was somewhat of a time hog and constantly asked why couldnt I have gotten home sooner. :worried: What a lame experience...
 
Waka said:
Dunno how we got onto the topic of roofers, but damn! :chomp: that's good money... I'd be too embarassed to say what i do for a living. I have the same job I had in highschool, still.

Oh and as far as this post, I called him up and asked him straight forward.. he said he didn't know what he wanted. and I go uhhh for a moment, and he asked if we could hang out sometime, but by then I was in bitch mode and said "Uh no thanks :( ", asked if I was ok, momentarily pause of sadness, I say Yea, he says I'm really sorry, there was some more awkward silence, and I say K well ive got things to do, he says I'll talk to you later... Then I hung up on him. Being straightforward was the way to go I think.. And I'm actually somewhat excited to have all this free time to train in the gym now. ;) For the two weeks we actually did hang out...consistently, he was somewhat of a time hog and constantly asked why couldnt I have gotten home sooner. :worried: What a lame experience...
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Good, sounds like you did the right thing.

Oh, and that "I don't know what I want" excuse is pretty cliche and lame. It basically means he didn't really want you but he was too cowardly to tell you. You've moved onto bigger and better things.
 
Waka said:
Dunno how we got onto the topic of roofers, but damn! :chomp: that's good money... I'd be too embarassed to say what i do for a living. I have the same job I had in highschool, still.

Oh and as far as this post, I called him up and asked him straight forward.. he said he didn't know what he wanted. and I go uhhh for a moment, and he asked if we could hang out sometime, but by then I was in bitch mode and said "Uh no thanks :( ", asked if I was ok, momentarily pause of sadness, I say Yea, he says I'm really sorry, there was some more awkward silence, and I say K well ive got things to do, he says I'll talk to you later... Then I hung up on him. Being straightforward was the way to go I think.. And I'm actually somewhat excited to have all this free time to train in the gym now. ;) For the two weeks we actually did hang out...consistently, he was somewhat of a time hog and constantly asked why couldnt I have gotten home sooner. :worried: What a lame experience...
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if you look back, you will turn into a pillar of salt. don't be anyones fucking doormat. 50 bucks he calls you within 3 days.
 
Waka said:
Dunno how we got onto the topic of roofers, but damn! :chomp: that's good money... I'd be too embarassed to say what i do for a living. I have the same job I had in highschool, still.

Oh and as far as this post, I called him up and asked him straight forward.. he said he didn't know what he wanted. and I go uhhh for a moment, and he asked if we could hang out sometime, but by then I was in bitch mode and said "Uh no thanks :( ", asked if I was ok, momentarily pause of sadness, I say Yea, he says I'm really sorry, there was some more awkward silence, and I say K well ive got things to do, he says I'll talk to you later... Then I hung up on him. Being straightforward was the way to go I think.. And I'm actually somewhat excited to have all this free time to train in the gym now. ;) For the two weeks we actually did hang out...consistently, he was somewhat of a time hog and constantly asked why couldnt I have gotten home sooner. :worried: What a lame experience...
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Atta girl! Good for you!! I'm glad to hear there are people who can stand up for themselves. YOu don't need BS like that, there are alot of great guys out there that will show you the respect you deserve!

Good going!! :)
 
StickFigure said:
I made $40 a square and I could put down about 3 square an hour.
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roofers in post-Katrina new orleans are all driving brand new tundra trucks....i WISH i made the bucks they are pullin' in!
 
rnch said:
roofers in post-Katrina new orleans are all driving brand new tundra trucks....i WISH i made the bucks they are pullin' in!
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i can't believe you guys are meritting roofing. the world needs ditch diggers, too.....
 
Waka said:
Dunno how we got onto the topic of roofers, but damn! :chomp: that's good money... I'd be too embarassed to say what i do for a living. I have the same job I had in highschool, still.

Oh and as far as this post, I called him up and asked him straight forward.. he said he didn't know what he wanted. and I go uhhh for a moment, and he asked if we could hang out sometime, but by then I was in bitch mode and said "Uh no thanks :( ", asked if I was ok, momentarily pause of sadness, I say Yea, he says I'm really sorry, there was some more awkward silence, and I say K well ive got things to do, he says I'll talk to you later... Then I hung up on him. Being straightforward was the way to go I think.. And I'm actually somewhat excited to have all this free time to train in the gym now. ;) For the two weeks we actually did hang out...consistently, he was somewhat of a time hog and constantly asked why couldnt I have gotten home sooner. :worried: What a lame experience...
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He doen't know what he wants because he does not want you but still wants a piece of ass and 2 it means someone else is doing him when your not

MOVE ON.....HE IS MESSING WITH YOU FOR SOME ASS!
 
Gymgurl said:
He doen't know what he wants because he does not want you but still wants a piece of ass and 2 it means someone else is doing him when your not

MOVE ON.....HE IS MESSING WITH YOU FOR SOME ASS!
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We would all appreciate it if you would just open up and not hold back you feelings. Shoot us str8 GG! :chomp: :chomp:
 
Yeah he was gettin some and not about to jump in....I will be honest I have done exactly the same thing to a handful of good girls and was always worried about hurting their feelings so I had to phase the poontang out......
A. Either your a titty dancer and he likes to fuck you but knows that titty dancers make lousy GF's

B. Your not a titty dancer and he just wanted to hit it and had no intentions of making you a GF.

I will go out on a limb and tell me if I am wrong.....he just broke up with a GF within the last 2 months or so right?

Kaz
 
Gymgurl said:
Hey being "OLD" has some advantages and after "thousands" of men you learn something....
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Im getting a vision of throwing a hot dog down a hallway...


and honestly, I can say i literally have probably had sex with about 80 women

I remember 3 of thier names....go figure
 
mkazzbmf said:
Yeah he was gettin some and not about to jump in....I will be honest I have done exactly the same thing to a handful of good girls and was always worried about hurting their feelings so I had to phase the poontang out......
A. Either your a titty dancer and he likes to fuck you but knows that titty dancers make lousy GF's

B. Your not a titty dancer and he just wanted to hit it and had no intentions of making you a GF.

I will go out on a limb and tell me if I am wrong.....he just broke up with a GF within the last 2 months or so right?

Kaz
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Haha wow..... and yea, but she dumped him. 2 -3 months ago.. still a huge blow to the confidence. Meeting new people where I live is really hard to do.
 
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