Trying to cut down on porn consumption is impossible

[ceo]

shit I missed it to Brian!

I am going to be pissed if she was talking about va-jay-jay again and I missed it!!!!!!!#!@!

CM likes to talk about the va-jay-jay! Wonder what else she likes to do with it???!?@?!??!!!!@#

 

[Spartacus]

i think a lot of dudes in relationships, who have sex regularly, still masturbate. sometimes you're home alone, or it's the middle of the night, or you like looking at images of perfect women that your significant other can't compare to.

more than one study has concluded that men in relationships masterbate more than those single

I can't remember if they were "satisfying" relationships
that's the rub

 

[all the whey]

CM likes to talk about the va-jay-jay! Wonder what else she likes to do with it???!?@?!??!!!!@#

I don't know?

But, there is 2 things I find unusual.

She only uses it with her DH, and doesn't use it for attention!!!?!??!?!omgwtfbbq???@@@

 

[all the whey]

edited to say... if you are married or at least in a great relationship PM me if you really want to know how to quit.

I had a big lengthy response and hopefully you already read it but I deleted it cause honestly it was TMI.

 

[KD1]

more than one study has concluded that men in relationships masterbate more than those single

No way, I jerked off every day when I was single. Now, maybe 2x weekly at most.

 

[curvymommy]

I missed it! Bet it had something to do with JC!

OMgawsh!!! How did you know about me and JC? That's IT. someone's been reading our steamy PM's!!! I am so mad.














JK! If you meant Jesus Christ then...there was not mention of him in my original post but in a round about way he influences a lot for me.

 

[curvymommy]

Ok, ok, now that this post has been moved I feel more comfortable sharing this.

Here are my thoughts. This whole post is exactly why we have a very busy sex life. To my DH, porn is somewhat of a gateway activity that can lead to divorce if it gets outta control.

It starts innocently enough. Right? It's what guys do afterall, right? Then after while it becomes more and more compulsive. The free stuff no longer satisfies. You start paying porn, hiding things from your signifigant other. Then starts the downward spiral of shame because you are hiding it and paying for it. One thing leads to another and then BAM! All the sudden you are out of control and porn can become a very bad thing.

All of this is why we do not believe in quickies, sex with the lights out, boring vanilla stuff (it has it's place), ect. I know that a bunch of the EF women (who I love!) read this they will think I am not cool at all but hey, i gotta be me, right?

We schedule sex. Not random hardly ever. We "re-get ready" for the day. I get dolled up for him and try to be his own personal porn star. We fulfill little fantasies, and it's a really big ordeal. Lots of fun. We laugh so hard, he flicks a bunch of freakin sweat on me and tells me now I know what it feels like to be a treadmill and I crack up. Anyway we both always achieve orgasm. I try not to ever turn him down but it's not easy but I love this man and am committed to him.



My husband has mentored me in the area of what pleases him (and me, ha). We have been married for almost all our adult lives. Five years of that we were room mates and he jerked off all the time to porn.

Anyway, if more than two days goes by without any lovin' I can guarantee you that he will be tempted to look at porn. If three days goes by we are both getting bitchy and are in a real danger zone. Especially if he is stressed and deals are not coming together for him like they should (professionally). He NEEDS hot sex or he will go to porn. While this is not the worst thing in the world for everyone it is for US.

Sorry so lengthy, but I am very convicted about this subject.

Basically, if you're not married you can disregard everything I just said because it would not even be in the realm of possibility for one nighters. LOL!

 

[curvymommy]

I don't know?

But, there is 2 things I find unusual.

She only uses it with her DH, and doesn't use it for attention!!!?!??!?!omgwtfbbq???@@@

I'm not perfect and I have a vivid imagination, I do flirt but have to do so at times to keep my sex drive stoked up to where it needs to be. I hope that doesn't mean I'm using it for attention.

 

[all the whey]

Ok, ok, now that this post has been moved I feel more comfortable sharing this.

Here are my thoughts. This whole post is exactly why we have a very busy sex life. To my DH, porn is somewhat of a gateway activity that can lead to divorce if it gets outta control.

It starts innocently enough. Right? It's what guys do afterall, right? Then after while it becomes more and more compulsive. The free stuff no longer satisfies. You start paying porn, hiding things from your signifigant other. Then starts the downward spiral of shame because you are hiding it and paying for it. One thing leads to another and then BAM! All the sudden you are out of control and porn can become a very bad thing.

All of this is why we do not believe in quickies, sex with the lights out, boring vanilla stuff (it has it's place), ect. I know that a bunch of the EF women (who I love!) read this they will think I am not cool at all but hey, i gotta be me, right?

We schedule sex. Not random hardly ever. We "re-get ready" for the day. I get dolled up for him and try to be his own personal porn star. We fulfill little fantasies, and it's a really big ordeal. Lots of fun. We laugh so hard, he flicks a bunch of freakin sweat on me and tells me now I know what it feels like to be a treadmill and I crack up. Anyway we both always achieve orgasm. I try not to ever turn him down but it's not easy but I love this man and am committed to him.



My husband has mentored me in the area of what pleases him (and me, ha). We have been married for almost all our adult lives. Five years of that we were room mates and he jerked off all the time to porn.

Anyway, if more than two days goes by without any lovin' I can guarantee you that he will be tempted to look at porn. If three days goes by we are both getting bitchy and are in a real danger zone. Especially if he is stressed and deals are not coming together for him like they should (professionally). He NEEDS hot sex or he will go to porn. While this is not the worst thing in the world for everyone it is for US.

Sorry so lengthy, but I am very convicted about this subject.

Basically, if you're not married you can disregard everything I just said because it would not even be in the realm of possibility for one nighters. LOL!

DH says this was the best money he ever spent!

 

[all the whey]

I'm not perfect and I have a vivid imagination, I do flirt but have to do so at times to keep my sex drive stoked up to where it needs to be. I hope that doesn't mean I'm using it for attention.

Oh I know your flirting is harmless fun.


You don't have to tell me again how you are not like the rest of the women here who shamelessly thow themeselves at me.