Threesome has got me BAFFLED!!

[Zerxes]

I would also have to wonder WHY she would want to watch you fuck her room mate.......There is NO gratification in that and obviously already some emotional turmoil. It makes more sense to me that perhaps she wants to fuck her room mate and is using you as a way to do it.

They have already been intimate, so I doubt it. She says that she just wants to watch because she isn't attracted to Sue like that anymore, but would still like to watch us fuck cause that gets her off. So in effect, she wouldn't even be involved other than just sitting there masturbating while she watches, but yet she still has her little set of rules that I'm supposed to know to follow. Like "ya you can fuck her, but don't talk to her while I'm not there, cause I'll be jealous & mad"! Dude I have no clue. Like I said before though, I doubt I will do it because she is the kind of whackjob that would sit there & watch me fuck the roomy, and then hate me for it later thinking I was a pig. It's kinda like(again, like I said) she just wants to see if I'll do it, and if I do, then I'm the wrong guy for her or whatever. I told her that if it would fuck things up between her & I, then Im not going to do it.

 

[Ceebs]

I told her that if it would fuck things up between her & I, then Im not going to do it.

Your heart is in the right place, and evidently so is your penis.

The best (and IMHO only) reason to have a threesome is because both of the two primary "partners" want it, feel it will improve their sex life, and trust each other implicitly.

Kronk put it perfectly on the chat board in this thread - http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=171735 - if you don't want to read the whole thing, I'll paraphrase and say that "love" is something they reserve only for one another, and if either of them sleeps with someone else, it's just sex. It sounds cheesy, but they set an example for me of what a really good relationship could be. I hope you and your girl get things sorted out... again, you seem like you're being really understanding about the whole thing. Don't doubt that for a second.