WERD
The "court appointed guardian ad litem" in my custody case was best buds with my ex's then attorney. Surprize, surprize his report (though if you read between the bullshit) actually said I was the better parent, yet he recommended I get no physical or legal custody but only very limited visitation with NO OVERNGIHTS because I was:
poor
and
slept in the same bed with my female children when they wanted me to.
Interestingly enough the court appointed psych evaluator (that came from the phonebook - both attorneys agreed upon) took into consideration BOTH of the reports from the guardian ad litem and evidence from both of our attorneys - wrote TWO in depth evaluations of my entire family. Both reports said sole physical custody should come to me remanding only limited visitation to the father... and chillingly enough the last report actually PREDICTED how badly my ex would fuck up with my kids based on his own inability to deal with HIS OWN ISSUES... that he would surely fail as the children's development became more difficult with the onset of puberty.
BOTH OF THESE COURT ORDERED REPORTS (THAT TOOK INTO CONSIDERATION THE GOOD OLE BOY GUARDIAN AD LITEM'S REPORTS) WERE FLAT OUT IGNORED. And yes, my family had to pay A LOT of money to get them....
Matter of fact - the first bench warrant for my arrest was issued last year for my inability to pay the Guardian Ad Litem 1000K remaining balance for his report. He asked the judge to jail me for a debt that was less than a year old, was a court mandated expense when HE KNEW I was on welfare, busting my ass as a personal trainer to support us (yea, he recommended I lose custody because he didn't like the amount of hours I had to work to support us either) and that the false accusations that my ex leveled against my childcare at work got me shit-canned (in addition to me having to cut back my work hours to regain partial custody of my kids) but he still asked for me to be jailed... and this judge granted it.
"They can't do that!" .... the hell you say?
I suppose I am making it up like every other thing I am "lying about".... Oh yea, what was it that I have read ad nauseum from internet dumbasses?... "I wouldn't know the truth if it hit me."
Yea Arabian... you are making that shit up too.... you know damned well you are. PPPPPPPPFFFffffffffffffftttttt shit like that only happens in the movies.