This is what I'm thinking.

[Burning_Inside]

Why is any of this, any side to that matter, any of our business?

If I file for divorce tomorrow and put it here, for whatever reasons, and someone ask me the details, am I in the obligation to post them?

Sorry BRR; I call bullshit on the whole deal, nobody needs to post anything they don't feel like posting, it's the FUCKING INTERNET!! People get their feelings hurt everyday, and they normally don't get an explanation, people get played and hurt and such is life.

You fuck up here and there, well, tough luck, learn, grow up (this goes to all of us, I speak from experience and people know as well)

I'm sincerely dissapointed in a few peeps in here for airing all of their shit in public, looking for simpathy or self-assurance

You're failing to miss the point that this is a seemingly chronic issue of one person affecting board members over and over and over again. People damn well should be aware of this person and any evidence that can be used to prove things are what they are should also be tossed into the mix. Would you like to be running a site where a member, or in this case a moderator even, is causing real personal distress to many other members, with no end in sight? Would you try and bring it to light and make people aware of what's going on and put a stop to it, or leave it go and have that stigma hanging over your business?

 

[pintoca]

You're failing to miss the point that this is a seemingly chronic issue of one person affecting board members over and over and over again. People damn well should be aware of this person and any evidence that can be used to prove things are what they are should also be tossed into the mix. Would you like to be running a site where a member, or in this case a moderator even, is causing real personal distress to many other members, with no end in sight? Would you try and bring it to light and make people aware of what's going on and put a stop to it, or leave it go and have that stigma hanging over your business?

maybe if people stopped thinking with their dicks, the situation would be different. Last time I checked we were all adults and no guns were pressed against people's temples to act one way or another.

Anyway, is none of my business, as I said before, this whole drama is geigh and useless, as if it will change anything. People are what they are, nobody changes for anybody.

 

[TC2]

lmao. I talk to Raina regularly. I don't think even the slightest bad thing about the girl, and apparently that's just me. I have no idea what her relationship with other dudes on here is, and frankly I don't particularly care, mine is innocent.

My humble opinion is that while this is horrificly entertaining to many, if you meet someone over the internet then you deserve whatever the fuck you get. That's not me saying Raina's a bad person or is in the wrong since I really don't know what the fuck is going on, but I'm losing a whole lot of respect for a lot of you at the moment. You all sound like a bunch of suckers.
I just assume every last one of you are lying to me.

1st and foremost...I DON'T KNOW SHIT ABOUT RAINA OR KAK AND NEITHER DO ANY OF YOU.

I've know alot of girls that were super sweet innocent angels on the outside, but on the inside were the biggest most manipulating whores you ever saw.

The kind that would have let guys run trains on them, swallow everything they had to give her, then go home to the loving hubby and kids, give them a big kiss, then off to church to gossip about all the "sinners" in town.


And I've know PLENTY of guys that are just as bad if not worse.

My point is WHY THE FUCK DO YOU GUYS CARE ABOUT SOMEONE'S INTERNET SUDEO LIFE???

Seriously...you will never know the truth, so unless it affects you directly WHO GIVES A SHIT??

 

[KillahBee]

maybe if people stopped thinking with their dicks,

well now, that doesn't sound like much fun

 

[pintoca]

well now, that doesn't sound like much fun

I went through withdrawals... coldturkey, Hell, I'm telling you

 

[drrman]

Dude, censorship on EF occurs often.

that is the truth there now

 

[Gymgurl]

Dang, I never thought I'd be on Nathan's side. That's a 110% post.

My god I thought that same thing Digger

 

[Gymgurl]

However...I think this could really ulgy as more people show up with stories..

 

[biteme]

Outside it's cold, it's misty and it's raining, we got each other, so neither one is complaining.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

My point is WHY THE FUCK DO YOU GUYS CARE ABOUT SOMEONE'S INTERNET SUDEO LIFE???

Seriously...you will never know the truth, so unless it affects you directly WHO GIVES A SHIT??

I agree totally with this.

Here are my thoughts, for what they are worth.

ASSUMING what is said about Raina is true - and I have no idea, nor do I care - what exactly did she do? So she led on a few guys, made them feel important and wanted, teased them. Big Fucking Deal. This happens EVERY SINGLE DAY in real life.

Guess what guys? Ain't the first time that will happen, ain't the last.

Both women AND men lead another on. Happens all the time. Does it suck? Yes. Does it make you feel dumb? Yes. It is fair? No. But it happens still.

Grow up, move on.

What the hell is this "outcry" against a woman who *might* have led on a few guys? What is the point? I seriously don't understand WHY people care so much. She teased a couple guys -and people want her head on a stake? WTF?

Again, this happens every sinlge day ... and I would think that many of you who are "appalled" at her behavior have done something similar in the past. I can almost guaran-damn-tee you that every single person here has led SOMEONE on in their lives. It happens, move on.


Those are simply my thoughts. I think all of you are being babies. And those of you NOT directly involved are being drama whores.

I don't know Raina (or anyone else) off this board. My opinion has nothing to do with her being a female or a Mod. I just think this is the DUMBEST topic to be dramatic about. Seriously, lame.