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the concept of a "SOUL MATE"...

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i was listening to ed tyll today, he is a radio talk show pecker... and he was talking about soul mates... he was very against the idea that they existed and when he had a caller he asked what a soul mate was... most definitions were : someone who compliments me... someone who thinks like me... someone who i know inside and out.. someone i love dearly... etc...

isnt a soul mate actually more than that? cant you have the above with many different people? i believe a soulmate is someone who you come across in different lives... that is, if a soul mate exists... and if we live more than one life... a soulmate is simply another soul that you are intertwined with throughout your many existances... example... person A and person B are married in one life, the next are brother and sister, the next mother and son, father and daughter, brothers, sisters... etc.... seems like a more workable definition then the above bullshit...

what is your idea of a soulmate?
 
I think a soul mate is someone who is like perfect for you. I know who mine is but unfortunatly she doesnt want me. She did at one time but it just took a while for me to come around..I guess im too late...
 
out of 6.2 billion people on this earth you think only ONE is PERFECT for you??? no way!!! i've gotten along great with more than one girl... i believe that their are many people out their that would seem "perfect" for me... its not a matter of finding "THE ONE" but one of them...
 
I think there are many people in the world that are suited for any given people (some moreso than others due to personality conflicts) - as you say, there are a shitload of people in the world, so statistically speaking, there has to be more than one... well, maybe not "has to" - but it is very likely.
and personalities change over time, hence why there are lots of divorces, the person you married and loved might be very different in 20 years. if that difference conflicts with how you've changed over the years, it makes it difficult to continue the relationship, but if it coincides with your changes, then the relationship is just as strong or stronger.

I personally feel my current girlfriend is my soulmate and at this point I hope she remains so for a long time.
 
i will have to second those sentiments by happyscrappy. i think things do change in relationships but even if that person is your soul mate you still need to work on things to adapt to these changes.
 
Your soul mate...you just kind of know, you know? She is it and you probably, on some level, knew it from the moment you met her. Is there more than one soul mate for each person. I would say so, but they are very, very few and far between.
 
madbomber31 said:
isnt a soul mate actually more than that? cant you have the above with many different people? i believe a soulmate is someone who you come across in different lives... that is, if a soul mate exists... and if we live more than one life... a soulmate is simply another soul that you are intertwined with throughout your many existances... example... person A and person B are married in one life, the next are brother and sister, the next mother and son, father and daughter, brothers, sisters... etc.... seems like a more workable definition then the above bullshit...
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I agree with that sort of description. I don't think a soul mate has to be singled down to a romantic interest and I do not believe in any way that there is only one person out there made just for you. It's a romantic notion but I mean really - what are the odds of finding that person? I know, I know - it's fate. I can't totally subscribe to that sort of thinking either, I'm too practical.
 
Jimsbbc said:
so basically you're saying it is a pipe dream. Thank you for ruining my romantic dream, lol. ;)
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Perhaps I should add - there are many *soul mates* out there for you. You shouldn't be led that there is only one out there for you. If you were to live by that how would you know for sure if you found the right one? You would keep looking and looking for the better one, th emore mine one. How many times did you think - ouuuuu YES, this is the one!! YES YES YES - to find out you can't stand this person 18 months later.

Hate when that happens.

It's like bad seafood - it stays with ya for a while.
 
how do you refute testimony from people who swear up and down that they found theirs and couldn't be with anyone else?
 
Jimsbbc said:
how do you refute testimony from people who swear up and down that they found theirs and couldn't be with anyone else?
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I hit the mute botton from your waterbed.
 
Wow . . . uuummm "soul mate" that's a tuff one . . .

I don't know if there's a real answer for it. My idea of a soul mate would probably be someone who is 'identical" in every aspect of life with the exception of looks and bloodline. Someone who years down the road will still be as interested and excited if not more so about you as you are them just the same as the day you both met.
 
In any particular palce you live you can find that soulmate. It takes time to fit the need of a certain vibe one gets when they find the right person. I thought I could never fall in love again and want to be with that certain person but it has happened. If I was living somewhere else it would probaly happen there as well but the point is when you have the right person who you feel is you're soulmate than thats how it should be. if someone makes you happy and full of life and there you're lover and you're friend why look for another. Soulmate equals happiness.
 
flexed1 said:
In any particular palce you live you can find that soulmate. It takes time to fit the need of a certain vibe one gets when they find the right person. I thought I could never fall in love again and want to be with that certain person but it has happened. If I was living somewhere else it would probaly happen there as well but the point is when you have the right person who you feel is you're soulmate than thats how it should be. if someone makes you happy and full of life and there you're lover and you're friend why look for another. Soulmate equals happiness.
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Well said . . .
 
you should aknowledge the comment was out of line instead of blaming the victim and not admitting you were wrong
 
You made the comment that was out of line, right??? That was targeted to illicit an emotional response and you got one.
 
No such thing as "the one" or a soul mate. Sorry, I don't buy it.

I believe that one should be "whole" before worrying about selecting a partner....the rest is "dime store paperback BS".

Solid friends...now THAT is hard to find.
 
Soul Mate... The One.... Whole Package.....

It is the person that you would dream to life if you could. The person you meet and instantly WHAM!! you know deep inside you love them before you even talk to them or observe them. The one that you polish your heart up to a mirror brightness in hopes of catching all their finger prints on it. The person that shows you just how two individual halves will make a much better whole. The one that sets the standard that no one could ever possibly measure up to.

Yeah, they DO exist too. Those of you who say that they don't just have not met yours yet. And the sad truth is that many people will go through life never meeting theirs. I have met mine, and despite the wicked little handle I go by here, this is The One, Whole Package, Soul Mate that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. No other man could possibly replace this one. Believe me, I know.
 
My wife has moved on to the

Soul Group notion...that a group of souls come back together to carry out an array of differnt kharma's...sounds like a threaded program structure to me. But as long as she is smiling I don't care.
 
Sorry-no such thing as one SoulMate. It's generally a concept used by people unhappy or growing uneasy with their current relationship as a motivation to move on- "still looking for my soulmate" or by the idealistic who believe that one person can be everything that they need to compensate/compliment whats lacking in their own life. Your soulmate usually ends up being that relationship that grows and strengthens over the years and you end up with a lover who is also your best friend.
 
Dear all.

I have a soul mate.
we are best friends
we have never argued (5 years now)
we have the best fun TOGETHER
we miss each other all the time
If something goes wrong we turn to each other
We have complete honesty
We have great sex
We have fun sex
we laugh together
I find him totally attractive

He's perfect. We don't want to marry because we feel that that would trivialise the thing we have.

A soul mate isn't your ideal. It's someone who knows all your faults and still doesn't want anyone else but you ever.
 
Well, as someone who's found ther true soulmate, I can tell you
a couple of things:

1. If it isn't complicated: He/She is probably not your soulmate.

2. She/He doesn't care about your faults/weaknessess.

3. The most important: Would you be willing to die for him/her?
As human beings we have an instinct for survival, but
when you feel that that instinct is being over-shadowed
by love towards a certain him/her, then that him/her
is your soul-mate.

This question is more complicated than it seems. Trust
me I have asked it to myself time and tme again,and the
answer scared me. Its that feeling of vulnerability that
a soul-mate has on you that truly makes him/her
your soul-mate.

It takes a lot of guts to really look into yourself like this,
because sometimes you will not like what you see.
As they say, "The truth hurts".

Godspeed
 
CaptainAwesome said:
i just remembered. 2 pm tomorrow im still available for sex peaches. ill let you change your mind now but time is running out.
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NO!!!!!!!!!!! :mad: Leave me alone, PooPoohead! :p
 
CaptainAwesome, you really need to leave SliceofPeach
alone.
You're just making yourself look like a fool in case you haven't
noticed.
<Fonz shakes his head>

Godspeed
 
"We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year....." Pink Floyd...........
 
bikinimom said:
No such thing as "the one" or a soul mate. Sorry, I don't buy it.

I believe that one should be "whole" before worrying about selecting a partner....the rest is "dime store paperback BS".

Solid friends...now THAT is hard to find.
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Fucking eh ;)

Even the ones that you love will stab you in the back.
 
i would die for my soulmate. He would definitely die for me . . . go to prison whatever. Occasionally I have to explain that him dying or going to prison may not always help me in the long run as I want him here with me . . .

but I can be patient cos I've have 'til forever with this guy . . .
 
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