"Swallowing" Older Men.

[Baybay]

Hi. First Post. Have a question.

My boyfriend..(or "man" friend)is 57. I'm in my early forties. Very good shape. Been going out with him for a couple of months.

Sex is fantastic. As a matter of fact, it is the best sex I've ever had in my life. Some women may be looking for younger men, but I will take my old guy. I cannot believe his stamina. It's incredible. He can hold off cumming for hours....

So here is the question. Is it normal for older men to not want their women to "swallow" when they cum. Today was the first time ever that he came in my mouth. I was thrilled because for some reason, I think he may have been slightly old-fashioned or on the sexually conservative side.

He told me that was the first time he had ever come in a woman's mouth...and he had been married before.

I'm just wondering. I have always enjoyed being the recipient of a nice drink of manjuice. But is it normal for older guys to not want to cum in a woman's mouth?

PS. He loved it! So did I!

 

[vinylgroover]

Don't forget he was a young man too once. I think it has more to do with circumstance than age. Maybe he was in a sexually repressed realationship/marriage previously and his partner made him feel it was a dirty act, hence his apprehension.

It's great that even at 57 he is willing to explore his sexuality further.

I've been exploring mine since i was 12 and hope i still am at 57.

It must be rewarding for you as well (aside from the taste) to be able to have a partner who you can introduce new things to and watch him respond wth pleasure.

Enjoy!

 

[Puddles]

I would imagine he's just an old fashioned gentleman. Does he open your car door for you? Enjoy having fun with him and loosening him up! And welcome to the boards.

 

[Baybay]

Ya. It IS Fun Having An Older Man

He's in great shape for his age..and yes. He opens doors and is just an incredible gentleman! I've never had a man be so attentive before. And it is great that he is exploring his sexuality. It's funny. He said that when we are together, he feels as though he is twenty years old again. He also said that since we've been intimate, there are quite a few "firsts" he has done with me! At first I felt somewhat funny because I was practically begging him to cum in my mouth..and I thought he would think I was some sort of slut or something. But after the initial cum, he was very much at ease.

It's amazing because I have to admit he is the best lover I've ever had. I had heard all these stories of men in their fifties not being able to do keep an erection or needing Viagra. But that isn't the case. When I mentioned that to him he just said that I was his Viagra. That is possibly the nicest and sexiest thing a man has ever said to me!

Please allow me to tell the women on this board that if they get the opportunity to be with a man well into his fifties. By all means go for it. Their stamina is incredible!!

 

[Frackal]

Throw him some buttsex, that'll really blow his mind

 

[Bikini Mod]

You know, I just never thought about it like that. I am attracted to and date men older than me. My oldest was 61. I am 35. When I tell most people their initial reaction is EWWWWW but let me tell you. The 61 year old looked like he was 50 and damn, could that old boy fuck!

I had a lover who was very sexually free, one of the most amazing lovers I'd ever had. But he would not cum in my mouth either. He was very old-fashioned in many respects, though; opening car doors, standing when I came to and left the table, etc, so perhaps that was the extent of it. I's always thought it was a deeper emotional issue, but now I see that it was probably just a matter of his "old-fashioned"ness.

 

[Baybay]

Bikinimom! The "Old-Fashionedness"

is what it is. I toqo thought he had deeper issues, but then I thought about what a great lover he is and realized that he just was plain old old fashioned and gentlemanly! To add onto that, the first time we were together, he didn't even want me on my hands and knees...at first I thought he had major issues, but when I questioned him, he just said he wanted to see my face as we made love.

Those older men. Gentleman who love to and just know how to fuck! I don't think I will ever be with another man who is under 50 years old. The older ones are just filled with wisdom..and "gizzdom!" Oops! My bad!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

 

[Frackal]

eew

 

[Puddles]

eew

eew, what, Frackal? Do you plan to stop fucking once you reach the age of 50? I doubt it! Then you'll be hoping to find women like Bikinimom and Baybay.

 

[Baybay]

Thanks MrsPuddlesFl!

I was kind of thinking the same thing with that "ewww" response!

But then again, in all fairness, I remember when I was in my early twenties and thought that 50 was old. Hahahaa! Little did I know. Sort of like Mick Jagger saying he would never be a rock star after the age of 30! Hellooooooooooooooo!!!

Besides, we are a "young" generation of babyboomers!

And sex gets so much better as you get older.

You don't have those hang ups you had when you were younger.

If you're body is not as perfect or as tight as in your twenties, well big deal.

You have to be comfortable in your own body. I really don't think younger people are all that comfortable yet. And you really have to love what you are doing..and above all, you have to have fun. And talk about what pleases you to your partner. You also have to ask him what you can do to please him more as well.

Yes. It is much better as we get older!

 

[Puddles]

Re: Thanks MrsPuddlesFl!

Yes. It is much better as we get older!

Absolutely!

 

[goahead]

Maybe sex gets better when older because the female hormone is dropping so that you have a larger testosterone to estrogene ration ????

 

[b fold the truth]

There ARE things that I would feel uncomfortable doing...for the simple thought that I might "disrespect" my woman...

Maybe it is stupid...and it probably is...but the simple thought of not showing her the utmost respect rips me apart...

B True

 

[Longhorn85]

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My boyfriend..(or "man" friend)is 57. I'm in my early forties

This is nice to hear, because I hope that I am still healthy, fit, virile and having great sex at that age.

It's not hard to believe that he just never had a woman who would do that for him. He's lucky to have met you.

 

[Texas Guns]

Perhaps these men who you think are old fashioned and are sexually repressed because they will not cum in your mouth, are holding back from doing so because the fact they have a much deeper respect for you. I think as the relationship progresses and you begin to explore sexually with each other, that may change and he may feel more open to sharing with you. I think in a deeply committed and loving relationship a guy like that will feel more open with you later on. Heck I was with my husband for over a year before we did the jerk and swallow procedure....and I was the one who was asking for it. He did not want to disrespect me in any way, so the subject never came up. But of course, after I told him I wanted to taste him, there was no turning back!!!

Just give it some time.

 

[40butpumpin]

Throw him some buttsex, that'll really blow his mind

Frackal man you kill me. ROTFLMFAO.

Baybay my wife could use a few hints from you.

 

[Baybay]

A Happy Update!!!

It's nice to know that many people have a great outlook on an older guy and his sexual "awakening" of sorts.

There is more, I am happy to announce!

This is a very low-key, reserved, and somewhat shy man!

Ohhhhh...but I DO believe he is "cumming" out of his shell.


He actually started some "naughty" talk on the phone with me today! It was very charming, sweet, and believe it or not...I was getting pretty ahhh..worked up at the office!!

Note. I said "naughty" talk. He hasn't gone the distance with the dirty talk. YET. I'm sure he will be getting there.

But I hafe to say. He has a great way with words..and he has even told me that he feels so great, because he feels as though he is 18 again! That genuinely makes me very happy!!

...and lucky too!