Straight men: What's your attitude towards cunnilingus?

[IrightI]

LOL. I must admit, only 1 guy has been able to make my eyes roll back and then make me cash out like he hit the jackpot and he was the oldest of all of them, around 40. The others are kind of like women who go down on a man, but don't know how to lock in when it's time and get him done. Women are a bit more complicated, but not by much. So, please explain your technique for the girls and guys who THINK they're hitting the jackpot, but are only maybe getting 4 out of 5 icons in a row- not saying it isn't fun to play even so. Ignorance is still BLISS for the woman in this case.

The technique the older guy used was he used rythm. Most guys are all over the place like a woman needs to be in the beginning of a BJ- a little here, there, depending on where the guy likes it. But, when it's time to get in sync, she has to set into a pattern that simulates F-in'. Same for this guy's technique. He lined up his tongue to go up and down and his fingers were in the same rythm. When they went in, his tongue went up to meet the little dot. When he slid them out, his tongue slid down. And he did this back and forth and in rythm so if simulated F-in' too. And THAT's what did it. All other guys, all over the place which isn't bad, but they don't get in rythm for the climax- just keep teasing and getting close, but not over the edge. Maybe that's easier for some women and can work for them. For those that need more focus- "This is how we do it."- just like the song.

I once described this technigue to a 20 year old who wouldn't leave me alone (online) and he tried it with a new girl and the girl could NOT believe it was his first time ever going down on a woman. I love playing Dr. Sue Johanssen. Any technique advice to add?

By the way, I'm dissapointed this thread didn't get as much attention as the hooker thread. Guys want to know and talk more about hookers than talk about how to eat Puun which would get you and keep you a woman so you won't NEED a hooker. But, I see the hooker advantages- they don't hook onto a man who CAN do it well.

it's ALL about rythm. BUT, the rythm can change! That's what being responsive, "listening", albeit with your fingers/tongue/ eyes are about. I would like to add, too much emphasis is put on the Big O, just giving pleasure is too often over looked imo. It's the "getting to" the orgasm that is fun for me, I like to take my time (if it's available)and go to work down there. It's a just like Fin, you can stick it in and pound away for a few minutes and cum OR you can take your time, rub that clit with the head of your dick, push it just inside and withdraw, use a few longer strokes to get her wet and then play some more before you pin her legs to the pillow and F the shit outa her. Time and situation dictate many things about lovemaking, especially with kids, jobs, etc.
I wrote other day about the 3 kinds of sex: fast food, regular food, and gormet dinner. I think you can see where I'm going with each one. What I said was, "each is EQUALLY important"....

FYI, back to the oral sex, it's rythm. But some women like using fingers/ some don't, some like a little anal play/ some don't, some like the sensation of suction directly on the clit (my favorite), some just like the tongue. It all about "listening"....
"The hips don't lie" as Shakira says...

TxB

 

[princesa]

I dont like receiving it, even if it's good.....

Why not? You need to just sit back and relax . I have a problem when he gets his and doesn't reciprocate. Wtf

 

[nangiggles]

Why not? You need to just sit back and relax . I have a problem when he gets his and doesn't reciprocate. Wtf

It's just not as fun as penetration, im also too sensitive so sometimes it tickles

 

[KillahBee]

Absolutely fucking love it. Just love it. As long as the girl does (and thankfully, I tend to seek out the sexually enjoyable women who absolutely love all adventures).

My only caveat (besides having a sexually open partner) is that she have a pretty pussy. If it's ugly or smells or just isn't attractive, it's on to the next one. I'm a very lucky man right now b/c my girlfriend has an absolutely perfect pussy and she is pretty easy to get off. Makes it so fucking enjoyable for me.

 

[Whiskey]

Nothing better than a woman squirming and gasping layed out in front of you under your control!

See my location

Whiskey

 

[SpyWizard]

Love giving it, the control factor, the "look-what-I-can-do-to-your-body", the teasing, the whole process. I'm married now, but figuring out the woman your with at the time, how she likes it, showing her how you do things down there, that was always fun....

I only thought I knew how to eat pussy at 20something, I guarantee you at 50, I can make her eyes spin like a slot machine... lol

TxB

yep.. 3 minute home run..

 

[KD1]

My girl is clean so I do it every time.

Glad Im not dating one of these girls...

smelly vigina(vagina).....is this normal? - Women's Health - MedHelp

 

[KD1]

LOL. I must admit, only 1 guy has been able to make my eyes roll back and then make me cash out like he hit the jackpot and he was the oldest of all of them, around 40. The others are kind of like women who go down on a man, but don't know how to lock in when it's time and get him done. Women are a bit more complicated, but not by much. So, please explain your technique for the girls and guys who THINK they're hitting the jackpot, but are only maybe getting 4 out of 5 icons in a row- not saying it isn't fun to play even so. Ignorance is still BLISS for the woman in this case.

I will tell you my technique, works every time on my girl, usually get two O's out of her.

Start of slow, delicate, getting the lips nice and wet Once she starts to moan a bit, I start working the area around the hood, not the actual clit itself, but the sensitive area around it. I alternate between very light, delicate, almost teasing licks for 10-15 seconds, and using my wettened fignger for 5-10 seconds. I try and keep my tongue super wet during this time. Gradually I focus more and more towards the hood but still very delicate licks. One thing that works good as excitement builds is to put your tongue on the hood, but dont expose the clit and just rub it back and forth.

Dont just do that though, you need to focus on that area but dont just stick to one thing. Thats like the girl giving a BJ who just sticks to the same technique the whole time, it works buts its much better to mix it up.

After maybe 3-5 minutes of this her excitement is starting to grow significantly. She always tells me 'Im getting close' if somehow Ive not picked up on it though.

For the finish, I focus much more directly on the hood and clit, putting pressure on it directly and using more of a forceful back and forth or circular movement. I try to use the 'rougher' part of my tongue, thas farther back as opposed to the tip that I use when being more delicate. Also, a bit more friction is good, so if your tongue is drying out a bit thats ok at this point, but dont let it get bone dry or nothing.

When she is close, this will finish her off in 30 seconds or so.

But dont stop there, you can usually get another ( and sometimes a third ), by backing down and being a bit more delicate for another minute, then picking up the pace again. You need to be more delicate at first, but then work even harder as she gets close.

So, I may not be the 'best' but this certainly gets the job done and I have had a couple of "that was the best one ever" comments.

It took me about 5 girlfriends and 10 years to get this down, but if somebody had given me these directions I would have gotten there much quicker!

Also ladies, hygiene is important. No way Im doing this for Mary Jane Rottencrotch!

 

[Rachel...lol]

I will tell you my technique, works every time on my girl, usually get two O's out of her.

Start of slow, delicate, getting the lips nice and wet Once she starts to moan a bit, I start working the area around the hood, not the actual clit itself, but the sensitive area around it. I alternate between very light, delicate, almost teasing licks for 10-15 seconds, and using my wettened fignger for 5-10 seconds. I try and keep my tongue super wet during this time. Gradually I focus more and more towards the hood but still very delicate licks. One thing that works good as excitement builds is to put your tongue on the hood, but dont expose the clit and just rub it back and forth.

Dont just do that though, you need to focus on that area but dont just stick to one thing. Thats like the girl giving a BJ who just sticks to the same technique the whole time, it works buts its much better to mix it up.

After maybe 3-5 minutes of this her excitement is starting to grow significantly. She always tells me 'Im getting close' if somehow Ive not picked up on it though.

For the finish, I focus much more directly on the hood and clit, putting pressure on it directly and using more of a forceful back and forth or circular movement. I try to use the 'rougher' part of my tongue, thas farther back as opposed to the tip that I use when being more delicate. Also, a bit more friction is good, so if your tongue is drying out a bit thats ok at this point, but dont let it get bone dry or nothing.

When she is close, this will finish her off in 30 seconds or so.

But dont stop there, you can usually get another ( and sometimes a third ), by backing down and being a bit more delicate for another minute, then picking up the pace again. You need to be more delicate at first, but then work even harder as she gets close.

So, I may not be the 'best' but this certainly gets the job done and I have had a couple of "that was the best one ever" comments.

It took me about 5 girlfriends and 10 years to get this down, but if somebody had given me these directions I would have gotten there much quicker!

Also ladies, hygiene is important. No way Im doing this for Mary Jane Rottencrotch!

that just made me hot

 

[needtogetarmy]

I love it.