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lilperronis
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but the deal is that we can only give you advise jsut trust your mind and your heart
LOOK for clues to help you out abd find the truth
LOOK for clues to help you out abd find the truth
So very sad
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Thanks for the support guys.
Couple hours after I came home from her place this morning she called me up crying and wanted to talk to me. She said she was comming over but I said there is no point because no one will answer the door, I will be sleeping.
She called again at around 4pm and woke me up. I was half asleep and she kept saying that she is going to come over. I said "whatever" and hung up. I got up, took a shower, and the phone rang again. She was out with those guy friends of hers and was no longer comming over. How could she go from crying and saying she is comming over to, going out with her friends and sounding like she was out having a good time. Also she kinda gave up on the "we need to work this out" bullshit and accepted the fact that things were done.
I'm so confused right now. This hurts so fucking bad. I would have never thought love could hurt this bad.
This has to be the worst time for any of this to happen because at this point in my life she was the only positive thing.
I quit a good job 2 weeks ago thinking I had something even better lined up which backfired on me big time.
I broke my wrist last week which is a huge downfall because I'm really into working out. So now I'm fucked for a long time.
All I can do now is sit here and depress over my life. Funny how so much shit can go wrong in one month. Lesson learned I guess
Couple hours after I came home from her place this morning she called me up crying and wanted to talk to me. She said she was comming over but I said there is no point because no one will answer the door, I will be sleeping.
She called again at around 4pm and woke me up. I was half asleep and she kept saying that she is going to come over. I said "whatever" and hung up. I got up, took a shower, and the phone rang again. She was out with those guy friends of hers and was no longer comming over. How could she go from crying and saying she is comming over to, going out with her friends and sounding like she was out having a good time. Also she kinda gave up on the "we need to work this out" bullshit and accepted the fact that things were done.
I'm so confused right now. This hurts so fucking bad. I would have never thought love could hurt this bad.
This has to be the worst time for any of this to happen because at this point in my life she was the only positive thing.
I quit a good job 2 weeks ago thinking I had something even better lined up which backfired on me big time.
I broke my wrist last week which is a huge downfall because I'm really into working out. So now I'm fucked for a long time.
All I can do now is sit here and depress over my life. Funny how so much shit can go wrong in one month. Lesson learned I guess
I feel for ya bro', chicks are funny. When a good relationship ends
they'll be out the next night with their friends (guys & girls), laughing, drinking, partying it up, hooking up...guys on the other
hand tend to mope around, not want to go out, and be depressed
over the whole situation. Girls tend to only be depressed around
you, or when talking to you, when it's convenient for them to be
all sad, and make a good show. I always say, guys are slower to
get involved, where girls are ready to jump in, but when it's ending or over, guys take along time to move on, while their "x"
is already bagging someone.
they'll be out the next night with their friends (guys & girls), laughing, drinking, partying it up, hooking up...guys on the other
hand tend to mope around, not want to go out, and be depressed
over the whole situation. Girls tend to only be depressed around
you, or when talking to you, when it's convenient for them to be
all sad, and make a good show. I always say, guys are slower to
get involved, where girls are ready to jump in, but when it's ending or over, guys take along time to move on, while their "x"
is already bagging someone.
Anabolix93
New member
Be a man, and get rid of that fuckin shit. Dude, I've been there a few times, and the only thing I regretted in the end was that I didn't respect MYSELF enough to leave sooner.
If you don't have trust, you don't have shit.
I've yet to get attached to someone again ... that 'I don't give a fuck' attitude is how I deal with women from now on. Shitty thing at times, but its great when things go sour - there's no emotional down time - it's more like, alright WHO'S NEXT!
I swear, if you're beginning to see signs of this shit now, it'll only get worse.
Lotsa girls out there dude - you're way too young to get hooked up anyway. Enjoy being 20!
aX
If you don't have trust, you don't have shit.
I've yet to get attached to someone again ... that 'I don't give a fuck' attitude is how I deal with women from now on. Shitty thing at times, but its great when things go sour - there's no emotional down time - it's more like, alright WHO'S NEXT!
I swear, if you're beginning to see signs of this shit now, it'll only get worse.
Lotsa girls out there dude - you're way too young to get hooked up anyway. Enjoy being 20!
aX
No, seriously , allthough you feel very bad about breaking up with her, because you have given your heart to her, It will hurt even more in the long run if you don't respect yourself and put up with that bullshit.....
Surely, a good relationship can survive a "mistake" or an "incident" but if she really is a pathelogical liar / cheater than I should get the hell out....
(i have'nt been there so it's easy for me to say, but i can imagine that your judgement could be clouded by all those conflicting thoughts / emotions running through your head)
Surely, a good relationship can survive a "mistake" or an "incident" but if she really is a pathelogical liar / cheater than I should get the hell out....
(i have'nt been there so it's easy for me to say, but i can imagine that your judgement could be clouded by all those conflicting thoughts / emotions running through your head)
HEY BRO I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL I JUST BROKE UP WITH A FIANCEE OF A YEAR AND 2 MONTHS OF LIVING TOGEATHER WHEN I KICKED HER OUT SHE WAS OUT DRINKING THAT NIGHT EXPECT IT THATS HOW THEY DEAL WITH IT, IT TAKES US A LONG TIME TO GET OVER IT BUT YOU WILL I'M NOT OVER MINE BUT I HAVE NOW A BUETIFUL INTELLIGENT CHICK WHO'S NICE AND IT FILLS THE VOID I ALSO HAVE A 33YR OLD FINE CHICK WHO WANTS A 23 YR OLD BOYTOY. MY POINT GO OUT AS MUCH AS YOU DON'T WANT TO AND GET ANOTHER CHICK TO JUST HAVE AROUND AND BONE MAN BONE DOWN HARD IT WILL HELP. SHE'LL BE BACK WORST THING YOU COULD DO IS CHASE HER YOU DOING THE PERFECT THING BY IGNORING HER LET HER KNOW YOUR NOT AROUND THAT YOUR HAVING FUN AS MUCH AS YOUR NOT MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE THE MORE YOU DON'T CARE AND THE LESS YOU CHASE THEM THE MORE THEY WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET YOU BACK AND I KNOW FROM DOING THE OPPISITE OF MY ADVICE I TRIED TO WORK SHIT OUT FIX THINGS GET MY GIRL BACK THEN WHEN YOU GIVE UP THEY CALL YOU BECAUSE YOUR NOT CHASING THEM SO JUST DO WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING YOU'LL BE FINE. YOU HAVE TO STAY BUSY THOUGH NEVER BE ALONE OR HAVE A FREE MOMENT CAUSE YOU'LL JUST DWELL ON HER. IF YOUR WRIST IS BROKE I EXPEVT YOU TO HAVE THE BIGGEST LEGS IN YOUR FUCKIN TOWN IN THE NEXT MONTH OR SO.
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Frackal
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Well this is about the 40000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000th post on a guy being totally fucked over out of the blue by a coldblooded bitch...and the women on this board wonder why we are so jaded.
