So is it creepy when?

[zwhit]

good job getting c&c shut down ER.

more smoothies, less posts

 

[youpissmeoff]

lately your posts towards women in general have been more than offensive(towardsme, blueta, cindy, just V and others), I dont now if you're kidding or not but I am starting to seriously not like it regardless of it's nature. I may not be a cry baby that reports your posts but Ill be fucking damned if you keep talking to me like this and I dont say dick.

you don't know dick

 

[cindylou]

the deleted posts in this thread aren't.

What about all the posts where you don't mention his name, but it's clear that you are referring to him by what you're saying?

Those are what stand out the most to me TBH, because I seem to see them fairly often. I'm not about to go search through your posts right now because I am busy, but I've followed along closely enough for the last year and a half to know it when I see it.

Others here catch it too, only it just makes them continue to drag things on as well. Then you're not really the one perpetuating things, at least not directly, really...maybe...sort of.

I like you cindy. I really do. I'm sure you're not liking me much at all right now, and I'm sorry for that. But we've been through this before at least a couple times. I'm not saying anything new to you, but I am saying it in front of everyone this time.

If I can see a true pattern from you of not responding to him or talking about him or referring to him in some sort of passive way, then I will consider that you are sincerely trying to ignore him and get him to leave you alone too by not providing any fodder for him.

No, not really because even though I know you have to be fair to everyone I will never understand how you would think that I would deserve anything from him, I didn't deserve ANY of the things he said to and about me in the past year up until I posted that police report. According to you, I did. To you tit for tat means calling someone vapid off the form means they can expose sexual abuse. To not return a phone call right away means they can post my job. To side up with Mitch on an issue means he gets to post vulgar things about my breasts. I don't deserve that, I don't care what you think I deserve, I don't deserve that. Nope. He's called me crazy, said I was abusive, said I was an alcoholic, called me a snake, made posts about family members, thew everything at me and the kitchen sink all before I posted that report. Funny how what he said I was, he was. But whatever...it wouldn't have been so confusing if I knew he was an abuser.

I think he's dangerous, I truly believe that he is, I am not the first person he manipulated to meet him off of the forum w/o telling them the truth about himself. Your perception of what I'm doing and what happened is totally bizarre to me. My couple of lol's here and there and whatever I'm implying in my posts when I'm supposed to be referring to him are tit for tat? He makes threads about me and posts in my threads and quotes posts trying to bait me calling me needy etc. He posted twice in my ledhead thread, he has not left me alone, doesn't matter if he does but I have been ignoring him just fine so he can say what he wants whatever, that's fine but I did not deserve bad treatment from him. Nope. I lost it when he told Lambruh to kill himself, I messed up there and I was wrong but he had it coming. He deserved it. He lied to you all for almost 10 years.

If you ask me, I deserve a medal for holding back over the past year.

He is so beneath me that I couldn't care less what he said about me now. What I would actually like is for him to never come back here ever again. Since it appears that is not what everyone else here wants, then there isn't anything I can do about it, I either leave or ignore him. Well, I've been ignoring him except the minor slipup here and there for over a month; I'll consider both options. If I stay I'll ignore him. I always held hope that he would leave on his own out of embarrassment or be perma banned. That's not going to happen, but I will always think he is dangerous, even if I'm the only one that believes it.

 

[jackangel]

I'm on board for earthrider banishings. We need healing. Down with the smoothie queen.

 

[nangiggles]

you don't know dick

I do now...

 

[ceo]

I knew this wouldn't go well. Yes, I am so smitten by java that I'm blind.

You two have been going at each other for over a year and it has been pretty nasty at times on both parts. I don't know why there are still apparently feelings there, but there must be in order for it to be like this.

I do try to be fair. Unfortunately that means when I have to judge I am sometimes hated by both parties for at least a period of time. Like I've said, modding here is not an easy job. Anyone want to apply?

 

[cindylou]

I do not have feelings for him unless you just count disgust since that's a feeling but its pretty much apathy at this point, and I do not hate you. I just don't understand how you could say I deserved that, or how you could say that I was still responding to him as some sort of justification to allow him to continue to be weird.

The threads with him posting the weird vids and continuing to try and get my attention is creepy. The Mark Ruffalo thread was disturbing, and the Battlestar threads...you die for the one? What the fvck? That's not creepy? I have moved on, I want him to do the same. Its been long enough.

 

[nangiggles]

I knew this wouldn't go well. Yes, I am so smitten by java that I'm blind.

You two have been going at each other for over a year and it has been pretty nasty at times on both parts. I don't know why there are still apparently feelings there, but there must be in order for it to be like this.

I do try to be fair. Unfortunately that means when I have to judge I am sometimes hated by both parties for at least a period of time. Like I've said, modding here is not an easy job. Anyone want to apply?

dont go

 

[bigpokey]

if bein a mod is getting tough, u might wanna ask glad for some advices

 

[wootoom]

isnt there an ignore button?