he said something about cindy, then cindy said something about him, let's assume that they are even, after that all she requested was that he left her alone and yet he makes threads with her actual name on it and telling people cindy doesnt understand him, she stopped talking about him, he hasnt stopped about her, I'm not questioning how mods do their job and if they decide to keep java around I respect that, but as ER mentioned QT told him to knock it off and he keeps going at it.
Where you been nan? This has been going on between them for about a year and a half.
Maybe you only see her side because you're female and you can empathize, but it's been back and forth for a long time now. She says stop then she says something to or about him. Then he says something back, then she says something, then he says...then she says stop. Then she says something about him, then him, then her, then "stop". Then repeat. For a year and a half.
What about posting in this little "teehee, undercover, we're not really talking about java" thread? Does that not count as her talking about him?