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So, Even 10 Years into Marriage
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digimon7068
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are you in the "hall sex" phase of your relationship??
Not saying, "fuck you" as we pass in the hall just yet. But I am having to work hard for it these days.
shes cheating on you
seriously tho...what do you define as "work" to get any?
groping doesnt count
seriously tho...what do you define as "work" to get any?
groping doesnt count
digimon7068
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why do you suppose that is?
my wife's actually been pestering me for it more often lately. . .strange.
wow, this site is bitter!
it should be named Nomarriage.com - how to become an angry, unfuckable asshole
chris302001
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blueta? is that you?
digimon7068
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that's an excellent question. . .i've addressed this subject before from my own personal experience. . .because, in my humble opinion lots of guys (and women) get lazy after they "catch" the person they are pursuing. . .i never stopped pursuing mine. . .actually never really felt like i caught her. . .no, i don't put the amount of crazy-ass effort into it that i did 20 years ago (i have 3 kids, a demanding profession and lots-o-bills) but i still "chase" her. . .i still make her feel special and desired. . .consequently, we still get bizzy a lot. . .and at least once a week it's super hot. . .and she still gives me butterflies.
mrplunkey
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this
mrplunkey
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Maybe endless breadsticks could only keep her at the Olive Garden for so long.
Some people are like that, I can tell you it's not only teh females who stop "putting out"....
Awesome!! The way it should be. It works both ways too. I hate when people change just because they get comfortable and already feel they "won" the person. Geigh!
its the law of inertia and human nature.
Yeah well it's geigh. Don't be a nasty girl or romantic guy if it's really not you just to land the person. False advertising yo!
mrplunkey
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Women wear makeup, dye their hair, put on high heels, use false eyelashes, throw-on a push-up bra and toss-in some hair extensions -- isn't that the epitome of false advertising?
Women wear makeup, dye their hair, put on high heels, use false eyelashes, throw-on a push-up bra and toss-in some hair extensions -- isn't that the epitome of false advertising?
oh noes you di'int
here here
my current is as healthy as it gets.
I am not goign to worry too much or take it personal if its not the mood in the future
even I have my bad spells
Women wear makeup, dye their hair, put on high heels, use false eyelashes, throw-on a push-up bra and toss-in some hair extensions -- isn't that the epitome of false advertising?
lololol got me there. I can honestly say though that I at least don't look like a different person without my makeup. I was just told I look like a high school girl. lol My makeup just makes me look older, but not different.
"ohhhh look at me, Im awesome looking"
the jacket slays all who stand before it.
Women wear makeup, dye their hair, put on high heels, use false eyelashes, throw-on a push-up bra and toss-in some hair extensions -- isn't that the epitome of false advertising?
hell yeah lol good points
*ebony*
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Somehow the "she's cheating on you" cliche cuts so much deeper coming from a female.
But you were in the Service so I guess you become "one of the boys" in that environment.Strangely enough, in the "glory days" 5 years ago, she did complain that I didn't grope her like I used to.
But once I corrected that, she quickly realized that the no-groping situation wasn't nearly the problem she imagined. Seems that gets old fast.
Currently on 600mg/week of testosterone so believe me when I tell you that I pull out all the seduction tricks I've learned over the years in an effort to get some action going.
The difference is any little thing will throw the mood off for her now. Used to be it didn't matter how crazy life was around us. We could look at each other, know that we both wanted it and lock ourselves in the bathroom for 7 or 8 minutes to get the job done. I think keeping that kind of passion up 10 years into a marriage is pretty good.
Just couldn't keep it up forever.
Women wear makeup, dye their hair, put on high heels, use false eyelashes, throw-on a push-up bra and toss-in some hair extensions -- isn't that the epitome of false advertising?
Men are visually stimulated so it just makes sense that women would go through such efforts to attract a male.
It's only false advertising when the female decides to stop making the effort once she's snagged a meal ticket.
mrplunkey
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And women are emotionally stimulated.
So is it ok for a guy to act all caring and sensitive and stuff, even if he's just going through such efforts to attract a female?
I'd be happy to act all caring and sensitive every Mon, Wed, Fri in exchange for my wife dressing up like a slutty cheerleader every Tue, Thur, Sat night. Sundays can be rest days.
Wonder how I approach her with that deal.
digimon7068
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i'm like a beagle i suppose. . .you can feed me the same thing every dang day. . .yet, at 5 o'clock sharp, when i'm laying on the floor sleeping next to the fireplace, and i hear the food bag crunching and crinkling while you're getting it out of the closet, i'll spring to my feet and yell YEEEEEESSSSS!! FOOOOOOOOOOD!!!
mrplunkey
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She'd get used to you doing your part and begin expecting it. While producing excuses for why she can't do her part (i.e. kids still up, tired from work, early start next day, etc. etc.).
Just sayin'
digimon7068
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if that's what you did when you were trying to catch her. . .you probably better not completely jettison all that stuff once you're under the same roof. . .i don't make up the rules, i just try to understand and play by them most of the time.
simply spectacular.
mrplunkey
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Naw, I'm insensitive all the time.
Priceless... most only realize this after it's all over...
wth
chewyxrage
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tell her what's up dude.
she needs to accommodate, otherwise your life is going to suck and you got plenty of time left to find someone else if she won't...
she needs to accommodate, otherwise your life is going to suck and you got plenty of time left to find someone else if she won't...
Unless he's got kids. Then, he's got a problem. However, if you train your kids to be self supporting and wait until their 18...
*ebony*
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Somehow the "she's cheating on you" cliche cuts so much deeper coming from a female.
Strangely enough, in the "glory days" 5 years ago, she did complain that I didn't grope her like I used to.
But once I corrected that, she quickly realized that the no-groping situation wasn't nearly the problem she imagined. Seems that gets old fast.
Currently on 600mg/week of testosterone so believe me when I tell you that I pull out all the seduction tricks I've learned over the years in an effort to get some action going.
The difference is any little thing will throw the mood off for her now. Used to be it didn't matter how crazy life was around us. We could look at each other, know that we both wanted it and lock ourselves in the bathroom for 7 or 8 minutes to get the job done. I think keeping that kind of passion up 10 years into a marriage is pretty good.
Just couldn't keep it up forever.
i'm not sure what your seduction tricks are. but why don't you woo her like you did before y'all were married. the dinners, the flowers, the compliments, ect. make her feel beautiful, and wanted and appreciated. do anything to boost her ego. i know plenty of girls with low self esteem that have sucky love lives. make sure she understands that you still find her body insanely hawt. flirt with her, coerce her, do simple things she'll appreciate. house chores she might usually do, u take over once in while, errands, cooking, ect.
i know it seems like a lot of effort but it shouldn't be, if your not doing this already, u should be. trust me she's going to appreciate all the effort, and she'll do more of things you want because it'll make u happy.
Yeah those are the seduction tricks I know.
just tell her that's ok, your next wife will be younger, and thinner... they love that
mrplunkey
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In all fairness, the newer models do come with better contouring, extended warranties and power everything.
only issues seem to be reliability related.
lolol, my ex husband did just that in fact
ten yrs younger and thinner
a yr into it she blew up to almost 250 lbs and invited herself into his house, unemployed
PWNT!
digimon7068
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i like the wimminz my own age (or there-abouts). . .if anything ever happened and i found myself alone again, i can't even imagine having an actual relationship with someone more than maybe 5 years younger than me.
I never thought of it that way but you've got a point there.
i mean, i guess it's better than nothing.
i was super keyed about handjobs in middle school i guess...anymore i'd rather just do that myself
Well, I know when to speed up or slow down but the view's better if my wife does it.
olololololololololol!!!!!!!!!
glad you can have a sense of humor regarding your whole races gender in regards to dating/marriage. because lets face it, white american women are teh suck at dating and marriage.
No lo creo mami...
yes i'm chinese
Ja estava a achar que sim...
My spanish isn't that good, I was born here. My first language is english. doesn't mean i'm not what I say I am though.
Hmmm i can see that, my second post was in portuguese. I'm not trying to be a smart ass though. I'm an illegal alien btw
Yep..there you go, my wife is Hispanic/Croatian.
Latin and European women take care of their husbands, they don't withhold sex.
Yeah but a hispanic/croation will cost a fortune in electrolysis once she hits her 40's.
*ebony*
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oh, well if that doesn't work. the only other thing i can think of is that you two have some personal issues that need to be resolved b/t the 2 of u first. she's lost interest, she needs to take a little trip to the OB/GYN.
Jon79
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Hmmm i can see that, my second post was in portuguese. I'm not trying to be a smart ass though. I'm an illegal alien btw
is one of those girlz in ur sig names snookie?
lol
kiddin bro
Actually i'm one of the girls snookie. She carries me around, feeds me, buys me all the stuff, uses and abusesas her free will sex slave
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