okay where to start?....im in the same boat as you- and have tried countless sleep aids. number one my doctor also perscribed me trazadone, and for the first 2 nights (no joke) it worked, then my body started getting used to it and wasnt responding well. this effect is common because trazadone is actually and anti anxiety pill. not really meant as a sleep aid but docs will perscribe it because its non habit forming aka not addicting. all it does is relaxes your muscles, which makes you feel heavier and when you get that feeling you wanna lay down and sleep. then i tried melatonin- it did wonders for me- but i also would get crazy dreams, never really got that foggy feeling, but towards the end (after taking it for about 3 months) my body also started building up a tolerance to that. ive taken melatoning multiple times but have to take a break after a few months. after that i struggled to find something else and started using other drugs which are too intense for just sleep, but they worked. im sure your not looking to take morphine- ahha. i tried the valerian pills, its a root so the pills STINK and you have to take 5-6 pills as suggested on the bottle for it to take effect, i noticed nothing when i took 7! i wasnt sleepy and i couldnt stay asleep. plus if you burp the next morning that nasty smell comes up again (gross i know). unisom tabs work great, they dont really make you tired or drowsy, but as soon as you do fall asleep it keeps you dead asleep for the whole night. down side is, you still have to wait a while to go to fall asleep and you wake up VERY groggy-but well rested. if you have slow mornings usually then maybe you can handle that for an hour or so in the morning. i hated it and had to get my day started asap- so now my bf and i (we both stuggle with sleep problems) both take xanex, also an anti anxiety kinda like trazadone, but it does tire you out and keeps you asleep, also no groggy foggy feeling in the am, only thing is you can get addicted so be careful and its a bit more pricey. but those are some options and insite on things ive expirienced. pm me if you have any questions good luck!