Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I went out with this chick a few times and the conversation got on marriage. She proceeded to tell me that she has slept with married men before and would do it again. Hell, she even told me that at one point she was living with a married man because his wife was in another state for 6 months. She was even married once, and she said she got hit on more when SHE was married than when she is single. Something just seemed kind of immoral (not that I'm all high and mighty) about her. What do you people think of single women that sleep with married men?
Single Women that Sleep with Married Men
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luvs2workout
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I think they should be shot...there are actually women who do NOTHING but prey on married men..that is sick to me! It would seem that they have some major issues that need to be dealt with
it takes two consenting parties. if you want to have a sexual relationship and you want to make sure you maintain the ability to ...
1) cut it off anytime you find something better or feel like it
2) keep your partner's rapt attention
3) get to the sex part quickly and not have to screw around with the "courting" part, if that's what you like (which i do)....
then going out with a married guy is exactly the way to go. you have the ultimate power over him, because he's not only trying to please you, but he has to make sure you don't go nuts and spill the beans. he has to treat you with kid gloves every day, and you have ultimate power over him because your power transcends your relationship with him - your power extends to his marriage with his wife.
the power is a great aphrodisiac. the sex is very controllable, and this relationship turns the tables on the male-female "power" dynamic - i'm all for them!!!!!!!!!!!!
1) cut it off anytime you find something better or feel like it
2) keep your partner's rapt attention
3) get to the sex part quickly and not have to screw around with the "courting" part, if that's what you like (which i do)....
then going out with a married guy is exactly the way to go. you have the ultimate power over him, because he's not only trying to please you, but he has to make sure you don't go nuts and spill the beans. he has to treat you with kid gloves every day, and you have ultimate power over him because your power transcends your relationship with him - your power extends to his marriage with his wife.
the power is a great aphrodisiac. the sex is very controllable, and this relationship turns the tables on the male-female "power" dynamic - i'm all for them!!!!!!!!!!!!
that, no doubt, applies to the guy's thinking as well though - dontcha think? he's not supposed to be doing that (big time). she's just kinda not supposed to be doing it, but she's not married so i think those thoughts apply to the guy more than me (i mean, more than the girl)...
Zirakzigil
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What the fuck is WRONG with you people. No one "preys" on married men. Either THEY choose to bang the bitch or THEY choose not to. Unless she is raping them, and that's already illegal.
So to sum up, it takes two to tango. Don't give me any bullshit about a woman giving a married man "uncontrollable urges"
So to sum up, it takes two to tango. Don't give me any bullshit about a woman giving a married man "uncontrollable urges"
Longhorn85
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Cindy99 said:
...and she has some responsibility too. She must be damn HOT and perform like a champ in bed. Doing the kind of things that most wive's don't do. Every time. Or else it is not worth the risk to the married guy.
Speaking hypothetically, of course.
Cindy made some valid points there, exactly why I choose not be married , so i can fuck around without fear of being blackmailed and I have more freedom of trading in the old car for a new one.
Mind You, I am not into dominating relationships, but i will not allow some greedy bitch make me put in 110 % while receiving 20%
Peace, and yeh I have had a short relationship with a married women but It was because it was "struck by jungle fever" and not as a selfish convenient way to "control" the relationship
I don't prey married females and generally not respect females who prey married males.
Mind You, I am not into dominating relationships, but i will not allow some greedy bitch make me put in 110 % while receiving 20%
Peace, and yeh I have had a short relationship with a married women but It was because it was "struck by jungle fever" and not as a selfish convenient way to "control" the relationship
I don't prey married females and generally not respect females who prey married males.
yeah, but married men are so f'ing EZ!!!! it only takes a little tiny amount of effort and they're wrapped, whipped, yours... a little effort on the front end and you can get whatever you want. you have all the power to ramp it up, cut it off, scale it back, etc., moral, immoral - whatever, the married guy's the one with the wife, etc., its his responsibility not to be stupid enough to be pulled in by some woman, and if he's that stupid, and if he gets reeled in, then if she wants to end it or gets pissed at him so she tells the wife and the wife divorces the guy, then the Darwianian nature of everything works out fine because the (idiot) guy won't be reproducing and the human gene pool just got stronger - so you people should THANK PEOPLE LIKE ME - WE TAKE MEALY-MOUTHED, WIMPY GUYS OUT OF MARRIAGES WHERE THEY MAY MULTIPLY and leave them shattered, single, horny middle aged men destined to live out there days a shell of their former selves - FUN, FUN STUFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah, but married men are so f'ing EZ!!!! it only takes a little tiny amount of effort and they're wrapped, whipped, yours... a little effort on the front end and you can get whatever you want. you have all the power to ramp it up, cut it off, scale it back, etc., moral, immoral - whatever, the married guy's the one with the wife, etc., its his responsibility not to be stupid enough to be pulled in by some woman, and if he's that stupid, and if he gets reeled in, then if she wants to end it or gets pissed at him so she tells the wife and the wife divorces the guy, then the Darwianian nature of everything works out fine because the (idiot) guy won't be reproducing and the human gene pool just got stronger - so you people should THANK PEOPLE LIKE ME - WE TAKE MEALY-MOUTHED, WIMPY GUYS OUT OF MARRIAGES WHERE THEY MAY MULTIPLY and leave them shattered, single, horny middle aged men destined to live out their days a shell of their former selves - FUN, FUN STUFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and NOW - after those comments - i am going to perform a statistical sampling of my private mailbox here at EF.com. I will bet anyone in the audience $1000 that the number of private messages to me will go down 10fold as soon as these guys read that last post of mine - remember, this is just a statistical sampling, your results may vary hee hee hee
buckydingdong
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Head trip.
woops. sorry starfish. thought you were a guy, then thought you must be gay - you're a woman. ok, so you know i'm yanking these guys chains and hopefully putting a little thought into the back of one's minds so the next time he's at a bar with the boys and he's flirting with a girl and he slip his wedding ring into his pocket, perhaps he'll think she's some psycho-bitch like me who's prepared to ruin his life and leave him a slobbering shell ofhis former self, just for the fun of it, and just because he let her...
but don't tell anyone - its just between us girls ok?
but don't tell anyone - its just between us girls ok?
Longhorn85
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Cindy99 said:
Oh, was that you?
angel_eyes
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starfish said:
Knock yourself out... What goes around comes around anyway.
Just leave the REAL men to me..
I could not agree more, leave the boys at home!! No married or living together situations...no way!!
solidspine
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It is simply wrong, but I am no one to point fingers, being the hypocrite that I would be having done much worst things.
i think that's an over-generalization. circumstances can shape morality in most cases. just because the "hypothetical" woman knows the man is married, as long as she doesn't get caught up in the pipe dream thinking "oooh he's gonna leave her for me", and she's just in it for fun, and perhaps to punish the guy later to strike a blow for oppressed women everywhere, i think its fine, and its the married guy's fault, and 100% his responsibility to keep himself OUT of those situations!!!!
Longhorn85
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Cindy99 said:
Whew! That's a lot of rationalization! It's much easier for the man. "She is hot and I want to knock that shit out"
