Shy Guy seeks advice

[F117A Active Stealth]

shoot her with a tranquilizer gun and hit it while she's unconscious.
Karma is welcome

Karma given

 

[needtogetaas]

Graet advice! Just do it...we don't care if you mess it up lol..chances are that we are really nervous too! i love shy guys!

show him the ropes g.g.

 

[Sub-Zero]

lmao,I wish some of you ladies lived near me.

word.

i love how girls u talk to will act like they are so nice and pretend its ok, but unless they are attracted to u they will treat u liek complete and total shit.



im completely shy around new guys and girls alike, but once im comfortable with them reguardless of sex i dont care.

but i still get no sex

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

word.

i love how girls u talk to will act like they are so nice and pretend its ok, but unless they are attracted to u they will treat u liek complete and total shit.



im completely shy around new guys and girls alike, but once im comfortable with them reguardless of sex i dont care.

but i still get no sex

LOL.This is the type of shit that frustrates me:

I walk into Blockbuster and this really cute little blonde working behind the counter starts flirting with me telling me how hot I looked.I get a little embarrased,but am definitely flattered to say the least.I get up to the counter after making my rounds,and she's still going on,saying she thinks I look like a model,my hair looks dope,yada yada yada.So I hand her my number and say,"if you'd ever like to talk or go out,call me."
You should have seen the look on her face.It was almost like she was offended.She totally clammed up at that point and flipped a 180.WTF?Maybe she had a BF or something,who knows.But I've noticed I get a lot of chicken-shit women like that who are REAL forward until I show I'm interested,then they get all scared and act like they never meant their initial behavior.Do these gals even realize how hard it is for some (shy) guys to take that step and reach out to them to try(and get together)?If you're going to be that forward and tell a guy how sexy you think he is,then don't wuss out when he wants to meet you half way.

Frustrating sometimes.

 

[Sub-Zero]

LOL.This is the type of shit that frustrates me:

I walk into Blockbuster and this really cute little blonde working behind the counter starts flirting with me telling me how hot I looked.I get a little embarrased,but am definitely flattered to say the least.I get up to the counter after making my rounds,and she's still going on,saying she thinks I look like a model,my hair looks dope,yada yada yada.So I hand her my number and say,"if you'd ever like to talk or go out,call me."
You should have seen the look on her face.It was almost like she was offended.She totally clammed up at that point and flipped a 180.WTF?Maybe she had a BF or something,who knows.But I've noticed I get a lot of chicken-shit women like that who are REAL forward until I show I'm interested,then they get all scared and act like they never meant their initial behavior.Do these gals even realize how hard it is for some (shy) guys to take that step and reach out to them to try(and get together)?If you're going to be that forward and tell a guy how sexy you think he is,then don't wuss out when he wants to meet you half way.

Frustrating sometimes.

that does sound frustrating.

i personally wouldnt know though...sometimes ill be talking to a girl and shell be like "who the hell are u get away from me" or "shut up weirdo" and then ill hand her my number and run away

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

that does sound frustrating.

i personally wouldnt know though...sometimes ill be talking to a girl and shell be like "who the hell are u get away from me" or "shut up weirdo" and then ill hand her my number and run away

LMAO

 

[Raina]

Honestly, I think it's better to just buck and and give it a try. Worst case scenario she's not interested but isn't that better than sitting there a week later being pissed at yourself for not saying anything at all?

I agree about being yourself too. It took my husband a couple of months to get up the guts to ask me out and he got a "maybe". He's shy but he's certainly himself.

 

[foreigngirl]

Honestly, I think it's better to just buck and and give it a try. Worst case scenario she's not interested but isn't that better than sitting there a week later being pissed at yourself for not saying anything at all?

I agree about being yourself too. It took my husband a couple of months to get up the guts to ask me out and he got a "maybe". He's shy but he's certainly himself.

I agree. Even if she sais no, its better then pounding your head with what if's...

 

[Blue Star]

Cheers people.

 

[jdevlin1985]

Cheers people.

Fake the confidence until you have it