Shy Guy seeks advice

[Blue Star]

Hi to all you players and love gurus out there, I need advice on approaching and chatting up women I like.

I'm not a naturally shy guy. I can talk to males with no problems. However, whenever a female's about, i tend to get nervous and speak not very clearly.

For instance, I was out the other day, saw this hot chick. She looked at me and smiled. Basically, I was in there. All i needed to do was to approach her and make convo.

However, that is the hardest part for me. How do you initiate conversation and appear not desperate.

Thanks

 

[karde]

Hi to all you players and love gurus out there, I need advice on approaching and chatting up women I like.

I'm not a naturally shy guy. I can talk to males with no problems. However, whenever a female's about, i tend to get nervous and speak not very clearly.

For instance, I was out the other day, saw this hot chick. She looked at me and smiled. Basically, I was in there. All i needed to do was to approach her and make convo.

However, that is the hardest part for me. How do you initiate conversation and appear not desperate.

Thanks

By doing it a bunch of times, fucking it up, then getting comfortable with the whole thing. You will screw things up a bunch of times till you get the hang of it. Think of it as practice.

 

[Gymgurl]

Graet advice! Just do it...we don't care if you mess it up lol..chances are that we are really nervous too! i love shy guys!

 

[PaganPunkstress]

I completely agree, just be yourself
the worst thing she can do is turn you down.
Nothing wrong with a shy guy,
it turns some of us girls on

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

lmao,I wish some of you ladies lived near me.

 

[theoak01]

lmao,I wish some of you ladies lived near me.

I hear that man

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

shoot her with a tranquilizer gun and hit it while she's unconscious.
Karma is welcome

 

[Gymgurl]

You are starting to make me wonder Mr......

 

[230lbs]

I posted the same thing to a guy the other day that was looking for advice...
Say hello...be honest with what you say....don't make your compliments sound canned.
If she wanted to talk to you then she will be open to speaking with you as soon as you say hello.....after that it is all chemistry.

go get em tiger....

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

You are starting to make me wonder Mr......

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