I'm not sure about that pic that Johnny O posted. Not a flame on you or anything, but it looks like a gay bar from that pic. It reminds me of Mickeys on Melrose or The Oz on Bourbon. I don't have anything against gay bars, gf and I will go a couple of times a year but I won't take my shirt off in one. If I'm in a straight/semi-straight club that accepts or promotes shirtlessness and a girl takes my shirt off while dancing with me, I'll leave it off. But I won't take it off myself. JMO.