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Sex on the Down Low?
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FreeballinDC
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I'll see if I can clarify.
Since being gay carries a social stigma, alot of guys do not want to be identified as gay. If they can find another "rough trade" man, then the less likely that the sex they have is "gay" identified (for instance, having sex with a flamboyant gay man would be gay sex).
It doesn't make sense to me, since having sex with the same sex is gay.
In South America, if you are having sex with another man, but you are on "top", then that is not considered gay. Being on top is considered more masculine, therefore, less gay, so the "top" doesn't have issues with having sex with another man. If you are the bottom, then you carry the stigma of being gay, therefore, less desirable for DL sex.
Clear as mud, huh?
Since being gay carries a social stigma, alot of guys do not want to be identified as gay. If they can find another "rough trade" man, then the less likely that the sex they have is "gay" identified (for instance, having sex with a flamboyant gay man would be gay sex).
It doesn't make sense to me, since having sex with the same sex is gay.
In South America, if you are having sex with another man, but you are on "top", then that is not considered gay. Being on top is considered more masculine, therefore, less gay, so the "top" doesn't have issues with having sex with another man. If you are the bottom, then you carry the stigma of being gay, therefore, less desirable for DL sex.
Clear as mud, huh?
Heahy Minister
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LMAO!
I have a friend who is totally on the "down low" lmao!!
He has sex with other men and doesn't admit he's gay. He says he's "bi" yet everyone he's been with has been men. I tell him just flippin admit you're gay dude there's nothing wrong with it. Dude will NOT admit he's gay. He says he's bi and that he likes women as well. It's hilarious how he doesn't like me calling him gay and then he'll say he needs to find a woman blah blah blah!! Next thing you know he's on the phone with some dude. LOL!
I have a friend who is totally on the "down low" lmao!!
He has sex with other men and doesn't admit he's gay. He says he's "bi" yet everyone he's been with has been men. I tell him just flippin admit you're gay dude there's nothing wrong with it. Dude will NOT admit he's gay. He says he's bi and that he likes women as well. It's hilarious how he doesn't like me calling him gay and then he'll say he needs to find a woman blah blah blah!! Next thing you know he's on the phone with some dude. LOL!
FreeballinDC
Dumper Humper
Vix, does that mean you're a top or a bottom? Or do you switch hit?
Anyway, all guys would love you in North and South America. (Central America doesn't count)
Anyway, all guys would love you in North and South America. (Central America doesn't count)
onerepmaximum
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Now you're talking. When and where?vixenbabe said:
