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Sex on the Down Low?
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FreeballinDC
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You need to stop watching Ricki Lake.
To answer your question. DL sex is when straight guys have sex with each other. They have girlfriends, but every now and then, they get out and find another man to fool around with.
Not that I know anything about this.
To answer your question. DL sex is when straight guys have sex with each other. They have girlfriends, but every now and then, they get out and find another man to fool around with.
Not that I know anything about this.
Big Rick Rock
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vixenbabe said:I just learned something new today: Sex on the Down Low!
Anyone else know what "Down Low "sex is? Have the guts to admit to it?
BTW.."DL" sex can/may happen w/ white men too I bet!
"Keep it on the Down Low... Nobody has to know"-R Kelly.
The term was coined by R Kelly, It means to get some booty and not tell anybody about it... kinda like cheating on you mate.
run a search on Kazza for "Down Low" by R Kelly... great song!
I grew up in da hood so I know all about the Down Low. aiight.
when you were messing around with Shawaana that had a boyfriend in the basketball team, she would always tell you... Keep it on the DL aiight ?( circle snap, with head motion at the same time)
FreeballinDC
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Not that I am bragging, but I have had my fair share of married men.
Oddly enough, they are comfortable with what they are doing. They don't even feel like they are cheating.
I don't quite understand the mentality. It's as if they are gay without being "gay". Get it?
Oddly enough, they are comfortable with what they are doing. They don't even feel like they are cheating.
I don't quite understand the mentality. It's as if they are gay without being "gay". Get it?
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Dial_tone said:
That is a good point. How can you have sex with other men, and not be gay?
Sounds like exactly the same thing you see with girls. I've had girlfiends who totally do not think they're cheating when they get busy with another girl.
FreeballinDC
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I'll see if I can clarify.
Since being gay carries a social stigma, alot of guys do not want to be identified as gay. If they can find another "rough trade" man, then the less likely that the sex they have is "gay" identified (for instance, having sex with a flamboyant gay man would be gay sex).
It doesn't make sense to me, since having sex with the same sex is gay.
In South America, if you are having sex with another man, but you are on "top", then that is not considered gay. Being on top is considered more masculine, therefore, less gay, so the "top" doesn't have issues with having sex with another man. If you are the bottom, then you carry the stigma of being gay, therefore, less desirable for DL sex.
Clear as mud, huh?
Since being gay carries a social stigma, alot of guys do not want to be identified as gay. If they can find another "rough trade" man, then the less likely that the sex they have is "gay" identified (for instance, having sex with a flamboyant gay man would be gay sex).
It doesn't make sense to me, since having sex with the same sex is gay.
In South America, if you are having sex with another man, but you are on "top", then that is not considered gay. Being on top is considered more masculine, therefore, less gay, so the "top" doesn't have issues with having sex with another man. If you are the bottom, then you carry the stigma of being gay, therefore, less desirable for DL sex.
Clear as mud, huh?
Heahy Minister
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LMAO!
I have a friend who is totally on the "down low" lmao!!
He has sex with other men and doesn't admit he's gay. He says he's "bi" yet everyone he's been with has been men. I tell him just flippin admit you're gay dude there's nothing wrong with it. Dude will NOT admit he's gay. He says he's bi and that he likes women as well. It's hilarious how he doesn't like me calling him gay and then he'll say he needs to find a woman blah blah blah!! Next thing you know he's on the phone with some dude. LOL!
I have a friend who is totally on the "down low" lmao!!
He has sex with other men and doesn't admit he's gay. He says he's "bi" yet everyone he's been with has been men. I tell him just flippin admit you're gay dude there's nothing wrong with it. Dude will NOT admit he's gay. He says he's bi and that he likes women as well. It's hilarious how he doesn't like me calling him gay and then he'll say he needs to find a woman blah blah blah!! Next thing you know he's on the phone with some dude. LOL!
FreeballinDC
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Vix, does that mean you're a top or a bottom? Or do you switch hit?
Anyway, all guys would love you in North and South America. (Central America doesn't count)
Anyway, all guys would love you in North and South America. (Central America doesn't count)
onerepmaximum
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Now you're talking. When and where?vixenbabe said:
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