Sex, Love....Trust?

[Behemoth]

I love people that I definitely do not trust.

I have had sex with those that I did not love.

Trust will always be the most difficult. People are idiots.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Trust can can occur on many levels. Obviously if you fuck someone, you have to trust them on some level to even get to that point, whether you love them or not.

So,

Trust, Sex, Love

or

none of this multi level trust, you can trust someone not to shoot you, which is why u arnt ducking everytime they walk past u, but u cant trust them not to take 100 dollars if you drop it and dont notice...

he means the trust we all think of and want...full complete trust, putting them before you, never wanting to hurt them because it hurts you to hurt them, (as opposed to not wanting to hurt them just cause u dont wanna deal with their shit)

^^ and having it be mutual, and knowing/believing its mutual

 

[Smurfy]

none of this multi level trust, you can trust someone not to shoot you, which is why u arnt ducking everytime they walk past u, but u cant trust them not to take 100 dollars if you drop it and dont notice...

he means the trust we all think of and want...full complete trust, putting them before you, never wanting to hurt them because it hurts you to hurt them, (as opposed to not wanting to hurt them just cause u dont wanna deal with their shit)

^^ and having it be mutual, and knowing/believing its mutual

Trust as a concept is so very subjective. But then again, so is Love. I dont trust most people in the world, but I also do not think highly of a lot of people either. I'm not swayed very easily.

but sex, on the other hand

 

[H_T_]

Trust can can occur on many levels. Obviously if you fuck someone, you have to trust them on some level to even get to that point, whether you love them or not.

So,

Trust, Sex, Love

or

i find hookers to be very trust worthy. although i will continue to hide my money in my sock. right now, i'm trusting your opinion, hoping you're right....

 

[Sub-Zero]

Trust as a concept is so very subjective. But then again, so is Love. I dont trust most people in the world, but I also do not think highly of a lot of people either. I'm not swayed very easily.

but sex, on the other hand

do you trust lumburg?

 

[Behemoth]

Sex, Love, Trust

 

[Smurfy]

do you trust lumburg?

yep. he's one of few.

 

[stilleto]

in my youth, it was sex, trust, love.
now its trust, love, sex. although it's been a while since i've had to order things.

 

[SpyWizard]

Love??/


I have loved every woman i have ever been with, it might have been for a very short period of time.. but i loved every one of them.. if for nothing else for the fact that they were giving me some trim...

 

[nefertiti]

Trust is tops, with love and sex fighting it back and forth for second and third depending on the point in the relationship.

My reasoning is, I will not even date someone I cannot trust to be honest with me.

I will not continue to date someone I have no sexual compatitibilty with. And eventually, if love isn't there, that's the last dealbreaker of the three.

In an already established long term relationship, trust is still number one with love being important but sex still playing a huge role. Not just because I am a horn dog, but because I think a lack of good sex in a relationship is a red flag for other problems. Lack of communication, lack of effort, lack of interest in putting in the effort it takes to keep things going. But again...it's less of a deal breaker because it can be worked on and improved with the right er...dedication. You can't really work around someone not loving you anymore.

The only time I've ever been in love, I had all three.