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Sex, Love....Trust?
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i used to think love and relationships were a magical thing that the world stops for and horny hot fuck bunnies drop their old ways for...
but now im just gunna always use condoms so i dont have to worry about what the other person does and just enjoy my time with whoever im with at the time...and if i ever get married, make them sign prenups out the ass.
i just hope ill be able to practice what i preach
but now im just gunna always use condoms so i dont have to worry about what the other person does and just enjoy my time with whoever im with at the time...and if i ever get married, make them sign prenups out the ass.
i just hope ill be able to practice what i preach
Jimsbbc
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That is a lot easier said than done when you fall for someone really hard. I dated my wife for 5 years, lived together for 2 before we got married. I knew what I was gettin into, but knew I never wanted to be without her from early on. It took all of those years for me to truly, completely trust her. After all the divorces and bad stuff I had seen, it was hard to completely open up.
SublimeZM said:
none of this multi level trust, you can trust someone not to shoot you, which is why u arnt ducking everytime they walk past u, but u cant trust them not to take 100 dollars if you drop it and dont notice...Smurfy said:
he means the trust we all think of and want...full complete trust, putting them before you, never wanting to hurt them because it hurts you to hurt them, (as opposed to not wanting to hurt them just cause u dont wanna deal with their shit)
^^ and having it be mutual, and knowing/believing its mutual
Trust is tops, with love and sex fighting it back and forth for second and third depending on the point in the relationship.
My reasoning is, I will not even date someone I cannot trust to be honest with me.
I will not continue to date someone I have no sexual compatitibilty with. And eventually, if love isn't there, that's the last dealbreaker of the three.
In an already established long term relationship, trust is still number one with love being important but sex still playing a huge role. Not just because I am a horn dog, but because I think a lack of good sex in a relationship is a red flag for other problems. Lack of communication, lack of effort, lack of interest in putting in the effort it takes to keep things going. But again...it's less of a deal breaker because it can be worked on and improved with the right er...dedication. You can't really work around someone not loving you anymore.
The only time I've ever been in love, I had all three.
My reasoning is, I will not even date someone I cannot trust to be honest with me.
I will not continue to date someone I have no sexual compatitibilty with. And eventually, if love isn't there, that's the last dealbreaker of the three.
In an already established long term relationship, trust is still number one with love being important but sex still playing a huge role. Not just because I am a horn dog, but because I think a lack of good sex in a relationship is a red flag for other problems. Lack of communication, lack of effort, lack of interest in putting in the effort it takes to keep things going. But again...it's less of a deal breaker because it can be worked on and improved with the right er...dedication. You can't really work around someone not loving you anymore.
The only time I've ever been in love, I had all three.
needtogetaas
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"trust" me ill "fuck" her and shell "love" it
nimbus
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some people are saying you need to have some trust to fuck someone, but i don't think there's such thing as partially trusting someone. When you trust someone, you know they are down 100%...that if you truly need them for something they will be there, and that they would never intentionally hurt you unless it was for you own good.
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heatherrae
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SpyWizard said:
deep thoughts. ;-)
nimbus
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HumanTarget said:
there are no varying levels of trust in my mind, because in order for trust to mean anything it would have to be absolute. How can you say trust somebody if you still think that there is a chance they are being deceitful? Real trust is knowing that you can completely let your guard down around somebody and have no reservations about them. If you trust somebody 60%, you don't really trust them. you just predict that there is a 60% chance of them coming through for you
What it should be is trust, love, sex.....but the way it usually goes is sex, sometimes love, rarely trust.
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