Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I have a question for you guys I wanna know if i kinda messed up by saying this. My girl and I were talking about sex and she says to me baby you are so great in bed it feels amazing and I say thanks and Im glad that I can be so good for you. She then asks me do you think im great at sex? I responed "baby you are very good but there are a few things I think we could improve on and maybe try some new things and Im sure there are some areas where I could improve as well". She was upset that I didnt say she was great and shes kinda upset because she thinks shes bad in bed. Did I mess up by saying this?
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bigmann245
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chris350 said:
dude its ok to ask for different things that you like and want for her to do within reason. But if you flat out say shes the problem then yea you messed up.
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borris
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lol.... yeah you played it honest but that's kinda brutal homie.... You never know though she might be one of those girls that will work double time after being critisize (kinda like how most start puking up food after being called fat)... Next time you bang her watch for different freaky shit she does, if that happens you know she's trying, which is good...
girls i've been with asked the same thing, I always lie to them and say they're amazing, even if they're not... It just helps with her confidense in bed, telling her otherwise might make her feel real self conscious, and you don't want that, especially when your having sex.
Sit around one night and watch some porn with your girl for fun, and when you see something you like on going on in a scene tell your girl you like it like that... It's corny but it works, she'll learn and mimic what she see's on TV (kinda like how most mimic Paris Hilton just because she's on T.V.) There's not really too many ways to get girls GOOD in bed just by hinting what you like, you have to tell them exactly how you want it.. flat out
girls i've been with asked the same thing, I always lie to them and say they're amazing, even if they're not... It just helps with her confidense in bed, telling her otherwise might make her feel real self conscious, and you don't want that, especially when your having sex.
Sit around one night and watch some porn with your girl for fun, and when you see something you like on going on in a scene tell your girl you like it like that... It's corny but it works, she'll learn and mimic what she see's on TV (kinda like how most mimic Paris Hilton just because she's on T.V.) There's not really too many ways to get girls GOOD in bed just by hinting what you like, you have to tell them exactly how you want it.. flat out
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bigmann245
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how much experience does she have bro? give her a break if shes not that experienced.
borris said:
its not like i said she sucked or anything... she asked me if she was great and I said you are very good but I would like to try some new things that I think would make it better and im sure there are some things I could do as well... She asked though and why should I lie? If i sit there and say shes absolutely amazing it wont improve or anything but now i feel kinda like a dick for not lying. I know I could be so much better in bed and I love it for people to tell me what I could do better so I can actually practice it and do it better but now I feel like a dick for not lying
as for the porn thing I dont think she would be up for it...she told me before she doesnt like porn... the main reason was that she wouldnt feel comfortable with me looking at all the beautiful girls in the scenes
bigmann245
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chris350 said:
no dont lie straight out. you should have said yes she was great and i thuroughly enjoyed it and slowly add to the experience down the road. remember praise first then ask for change but not in the same session.
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chris350 said:
the only reason I say "your amazing" under all circumstances is because girls are emotional and never forget shit like that... you tell her she's mediocre in bed, she's going to be self conscious with you naked, she's going to be hesitant and she's going to be worried hoping to herself that she's pleasing you enough <----- and you don't want those things going on when you're trying to fuck
I hear you though on being honest, that's good, but sometimes I think there's times when it's not really necessary to be SO honest about things.
