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REVENGE - how far is too far

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MattTheSkywalker

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Just asking some opinions.

A while ago, someone did something to me that was very wrong and very intentional. I don't dwell on it but I saw this guy this weekend here at Florida State.

He is going to graduate soon and is applying for government work in the department of justice: FBI or more likely US Marshal.

I am in a position where I can contact someone and probably arrange for him to never ever get these jobs.

Would you?
 
it depends on how bad a thing he did to you.

if what you tell them is true then you should do it.
 
it really depends on what he did to you and if that guys credientals are fine for the job i doubt there is much u could do.
 
depends on what he did

did he do something that irreversibly changed your life, really altered what you could achieve in life. thats hat you might be doing to him.

if it was really terrible then maybe.
 
Gorlim,

I am 90% sure I can prevent his hiring.

what he did was very wrong. Assuming his deed merits revenge, is this too far?
 
IMO it all depends on what he did to you. If it was me and this guy really did something to fuck me over then I would make that call and make sure he never gets those jobs.

M18
 
the way it is now is it like he got the last laugh? did he make you his bitch and you couldnt do anything about it? if so then you do this and you get the last laugh.
 
matt, what he did hurt you in some way, correct?

but you moved on and got on with life, correct?

well, HURT HIM BACK.. see if he has the same drive to get on with life... if not, then you really only helped out the people of this nation... i wouldnt want a guy with no drive working with the fbi in our current situation...

GET YOUR REVENGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

now, coming from me that may tell you that you shouldnt... since i am a vindictive asshole and all.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Assuming his deed merits revenge, is this too far?
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You just answered your own question. If his deed merits revenge, then the only thing that should stop you is your desire not to extract it.

However, if he shows regret or remorse for what he did, then that is another thing to consider.

-Warik
 
MB good points.
 
did he take a picture of your little pee pee and post it on the internet?
 
Matt, I really think that you should take some time and think about it! Did this guy do something to you that warrents fucking up what maybe the rest of this dudes life?


Time heals all wounds. Once you do this, you can't take it back.

good luck in what ever road you take!
bass
 
I never forget when someone has wronged me...... and I get revenge... But it is a dish best served cold... it would be a shame if someone in a high politcal office got a letter from this guy threatening bodily harm to that political official..at the least the Secret Service will pay him a visit and they would start a file on him......... fuck him.. talk to the people you can and don't let this piece of shit get hired.........and call me cold hearted..I don't care.. there is still one person that I am waiting for to get back...has to to with an ex-girl and shit... If this guy was in a car wreck and trapped inside a burning car and all I would have to do is open the door to get him out....... guess who just got fried??? And I wouldn't lose a seconds sleep over it........
 
If you think he would abuse his new found position and power for his personal gain while trying to destroy other's reputations and lives . . . then so be it, make the call.

Another words . . . if you think he will be a danger to others in that position, then yes.
 
If you want our input, swallow the bullit and tell us what he did to you. We could tell you to bury him or we could say grow up. Either way, you shouldn't trust what anybody says because we don't know what the hell he did. If its a chick thing, forget him. if its a fucked you over thing, get him. if its a hurt you deeply thing, bury the fucker. Still, tell us what it is.
 
IMO, you should only get someone back if they know that you are doing it. if he knew you had contacts to deny his employment then you could get in trouble. maybe you could let him know that you have contacts(but not use them) that could affect his chances and let him squirm over it.
 
Skywalker...since you were not specific in saying what he did to you it is hard to really know what you should do. But assuming it is not something stupid like "he stole your girlfriend" then you have every right to respond to his aggressive actions toward you. I don't even consider that revenge, it is more like an appropriate response to an attack on yourself. I would 100% make the call and it would not bother me one bit if he did not get the job. He needs to learn that in life you cannot shit on others without reprecussions.
 
If he physically hurt or severely traumatized someone you care
for, then yes go after him.

If it was something that bruised your ego, or something along
that line, then no.
 
There is nothing you can tell them that they already dont know about him.....trust me....Big brother is always watching......I know from personal experience....:alien: :alien: :alien:
 
I tested for the Marshall's...hahahhahaha

1700 openings nation wide and there was 37,000 tested just in St. Louis.

So I would say chances are low he would get that but if it would make you feel better SLAM him.

I guess it depends on how low his blow was.
 
Matt, what you have to consider is this: Will it reflect badly on YOU? Believe me, I understand the need to extract a pound of flesh right back! I'm hot-tempered! If a guy fucks you, dignity demands that fuck him right back! Harder!

But ... I'm trying to get over that. It's not dignity at all. It's a weakness, really. Whatever. I don't mean to get all philosophical.

Thinking PRACTICALLY: If you called your connections, would they think badly of you? Would they think you were petty for doing this? Would they expect you to explain exactly what he did, and would you feel comfortable doing that?
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Just asking some opinions.

A while ago, someone did something to me that was very wrong and very intentional. I don't dwell on it but I saw this guy this weekend here at Florida State.

He is going to graduate soon and is applying for government work in the department of justice: FBI or more likely US Marshal.

I am in a position where I can contact someone and probably arrange for him to never ever get these jobs.

Would you?
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How about "when" would I is a better question.
 
MATT

BURN THE FUCKER. IF SOMEONE FUCKS ME OVER THEY GO ON THE LIST!!! THE LIST IS ONGOING AND FOREVER. LOL. I WOULD GET REVENGE ON THIS DICK IF IT TAKES YOU THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. IN OTHER WORDS, DO IT BROTHA MAN!!!

KAYNE
 
There is really only one question you need to answer in this Matt,

Can you look at yourself in the mirror everymorning after you do this? Revenge is something I have always passed on myself and I prefere living with a clear conscience over seeing someone else suffer.
 
WODIN said:
There is really only one question you need to answer in this Matt,

Can you look at yourself in the mirror everymorning after you do this? Revenge is something I have always passed on myself and I prefere living with a clear conscience over seeing someone else suffer.
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I would have to agree....revenge sounds great until you actually do it.....then if it is bad enough you'll lose sleep over it and wonder what he could've become.....the bottom line is.....if your succesful now and somewhat happy with your life, then forget about it and move on, your don't need the revenge then....but on the other hand...if what he did killed a career of yours, squashed a dream or two, or just plain broke your heart to the point of no repair...then I guess he should expect (or at least deserve) some kind of revenge to be turned on him



:teleport:
 
Wodin and Mastermind -- WELL SAID!!!

Easier said than done, though. The lust for revenge is a powerful, powerful thing! But ... like indulging any other kind of "lust" (wink, wink) ... it feels good for 5 minutes. Then I think it might feel awful (more so because this is about hurting someone, however much he begged for it) for quite some time.

Like I said, though, easier said than done!! Someone once told me: "You have to choose in life whether you want to be CONstructive, or DEstructive, and stick to it like it's a lighthouse leading your ship. But understand you will be tempted...."
 
The Varnsen said:
I doubt you have the power to do that...
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If that was directed at me, then yeah you're probably right! :)

That's why we're works in progress.
 
I not gonna give you nice message of forgive and forget, cause I would be lying to myself. If he fucked with you get him!!!! it all depends on what kind of power you want to exert.

For example this guy brought two of his friends to my girl's party and his friends try to steal the keg. Needless to say i held them all responsible and tracked them down for the next 2 hours and gave to them what they deserve I blasted the first one then cracked the second one, but the third ran off before i could get to him, then the police came and I walked away since the first kid was not able to talk and the second one was still on the ground and a lot of people were trying to break it up. (It never would have happened if I wasn't working and was at the party)

They didn't deserve more cause they didn't get away wioth the keg, but heaven forbid if they did........:mad:
 
Matt,

Can you tell us what he did to you? Apparently you are on speaking terms with him since he told you about his plans for the future. Just make sure that your revenge is justified. Karma can come back and affect you badly if your revenge isn't justified.
 
Let it go man, I have a friend that is constantly seeking revenge on everyone that's looked at him the wrong way. His revenge backfires everytime and he ends up worse.
He sued one person and they filed a countersuit. He lost his case but the other person won the countersuit.
If this guy finds out he didn't get the job becasue of you he might show up at your house with a 12 gauge.
 
Matt,

I slept two hours, and I am cranky and pissed off this morning however, I slept really well.
Don't waste your time or sleep over some bullshit, your sleep will thank you for it since your conscience will remain clear.
 
WODIN said:
There is really only one question you need to answer in this Matt,

Can you look at yourself in the mirror everymorning after you do this? Revenge is something I have always passed on myself and I prefere living with a clear conscience over seeing someone else suffer.
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I'd agree. Really, getting revenge won't affect your life one bit but will fuck up someone else's. I also believe in karma - he'll one day get screwed over like you did by him. I believe in being the bigger man and not getting revenge, esepcially if it could affect the rest of his life. I'd be interested to know what he did to you.
 
Matt, it depends.. do you think he would make a good ranger? If not, fuck him, if so.. let him be, at least he will be serving his country.. maybe he learned from his mistakes.. besides.. who are we to punish? let God take care of that. And, he will.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
He is going to graduate soon and is applying for government work in the department of justice: FBI or more likely US Marshal.

I am in a position where I can contact someone and probably arrange for him to never ever get these jobs.

Would you?
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I wouldn't go out of my way to see that someone will not hire him as a personal favor but I would let incriminating evidence slip that under normal circumstances I would keep to myslef.


So think of it as a Karma speeder upper rather than an act of revenge.
 
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velvett said:



I wouldn't go out of my way to see that someone will not hire him as a personal favor but I would let incriminating evidence slip that under normal circumstances I would keep to myslef.


So think of it as a Karma speeder upper rather than an act of revenge.
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Brilliant!
 
MattTheSkywalker,

Despite the actions of the perpertraitor you have succeeded and moved on with your life. Your success nulifies his trasngretions. I would have to agree with Wodin and Mastermind. Revenge is a evil that is very attractive and emotionally comsuming. Endulging in revenge would only serve his purpose and his trangetions will now become the sins of yourself(Islamic prinicple which I believe in). Life will provide justice when justice is called upon. His actions toward you will be repaid 10 fold in due time. Revenge is sweet but with a bitter after taste.

Who knows, he probably won't get the job anyway.
 
Without knowing the specifics, it's hard to really make a fair assessment, but if you do this to him, it will have a major negative impact on his life. If what he did to you had a major negative impact on a similar scale, which is something only you can determine, than I would do it. If it didn't have as big of a negative impact as this will on him, then I probably wouldn't do it. That is how I would look at it.
 
I agree with Wodin. I had rather know that I have the power to change his life and chose not to.....than to do it.....and have someone suffer. We grow from all positive and negative experiences. It's called wisdom. I'm sure you learned something from what happened other than to seek revenge to those who offend you.



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