Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Dating this girl for abour 5 months now, i had trouble getting it up with her the first few times, and still do, takinf cialis now, it has help out alot, i love this girl from the first moment i seen her, might be the reasin i had a hard time getting it up and etc.., but the problem is she wont hardly let me see her naked much, always covers herself up, i know for a fact she hasn't been like this before, it just with me, she said she has never been like that with any one esle, i dont know why, i ask her about it and she get so fucking mad, becuase i know a guy she was with before me and and hey had sex in public and i tried to get hr to do that also but see wont, whats the fucking deal, this is starting to bother me. any suggestions.
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Longhorn85
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guyver said:
hard to understand exactly what you said, but sounds like maybe she's afraid you and your friend have talked about her sexual habits or something and she is self conscious.
Hold up.
Her past sexual behavior is to blame because you are having a hard time getting it up?
Because that is what you are saying, between the words and sentences. You are saying that she is not open enoughsexually for you to get hard yet she was open enough with an ex which seems to annoy you and seems to be what you think will solve your problem.
No offense, but this is a problem you have to work out with yourself, because the underlying issue goes beyond just a bit of sexual dysfunction. Her past sexual activities should not have any place with your current activites. I would think you are putting way to much performance pressure on both yourself and your girlfriend.
Oh and a bit of advice....
Oral sex and some patience could get things going.
Her past sexual behavior is to blame because you are having a hard time getting it up?
Because that is what you are saying, between the words and sentences. You are saying that she is not open enoughsexually for you to get hard yet she was open enough with an ex which seems to annoy you and seems to be what you think will solve your problem.
No offense, but this is a problem you have to work out with yourself, because the underlying issue goes beyond just a bit of sexual dysfunction. Her past sexual activities should not have any place with your current activites. I would think you are putting way to much performance pressure on both yourself and your girlfriend.
Oh and a bit of advice....
Oral sex and some patience could get things going.
vinylgroover
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Firstly, you need to be original.
Trying to get a girl to have sex in public after she's already done it with another bloke is very childish and screams of unoriginality. It's like riding a roller coaster for the second time, it's fun, but you know what to expect which takes the excitement down a few notches.
Did it cross your mind that she may not have liked it? Reminding her of things her ex-boyfriend did is not a great way to make your mark on a girl.
Trying to get a girl to have sex in public after she's already done it with another bloke is very childish and screams of unoriginality. It's like riding a roller coaster for the second time, it's fun, but you know what to expect which takes the excitement down a few notches.
Did it cross your mind that she may not have liked it? Reminding her of things her ex-boyfriend did is not a great way to make your mark on a girl.
Friscochick
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fogg88 said:
I totally agree with you... This can be a big set back for a girl, if she thinks that you are to good for her. This causes alot of anxeity. She might feel that she doesn't measure up, so it holds her back..
but iregardless, you should NEVER compare your relationship to past experiences on both your parts, it always ends up bad. Be patient, talk to her nicely.. ask her if there is anything you can do to help her feel more comfortable around you.
It's all in how you word and say things that matters.
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