Real swingers poll, no BS

[manny78]

Well for those who tried it. Did you like that experience ? How was it ? Did you have sex both couples in the same room or in a diff. one ? Did it affect your relationship ? Also any advices ? Would like to hear from you swingers, doesn't matter how many times you did it. Just tell us the good and the bad.

 

[needsize]

I'd love to hear this as well, how many have had the guts to try it or to admit that they did it?

 

[Barbg8]

I do

I go to a swing club about 5 or 6 times a year. Plus house parties and meeting guys on the internet.

For real!

 

[manny78]

Re: I do

I go to a swing club about 5 or 6 times a year. Plus house parties and meeting guys on the internet.

For real!

how old are you ? are you in couple ? how are the people at the swing club ?

 

[Barbg8]

I am 41. Look 30. We are a couple but I meet guys also on my own. There are 50-100 couples on a good Saturday night. People are nice but some nights are MUCH better than others.

 

[needsize]

I am 41. Look 30. We are a couple but I meet guys also on my own. There are 50-100 couples on a good Saturday night. People are nice but some nights are MUCH better than others.

That's really cool, my wife and I have discussed the idea somewhat but wondering how many actually are able to do it successfully.

 

[sheez_ripped]

We've done it...no regrets....lots of fun....

and hasn't screwed up our marriage....married 9 yrs almost....have a 6 yr old....

did a few MFM threesomes....what i like best...being "double-teamed".....have done the couple swap thing in same room....didn't like that...he's been with about 3 other gurls...but not his thing.... rather see me with another guy....and i've been with several gurls....very...very niiiiiccccceeeee! yum....

we go to a alternative club to dance....see...and be seen....but definitely not to pick up anyone....it's a young, hot crowd....with mostly bi-chick action....lots of x going around....

anyone we've been with has been with a relationship that evolved into more....for example....did a 3-some with one of his good friends who had a big crush on me....it was so HOT....

not something we do that often....but we know we can...and it keeps us on our toes relationship wise....knowing your partner is still hot and attractive...

you just have to be secure in your relationship....we absolutely know that we each are THE ONE for the other....and any of this type stuff is just fun....purely sex....no emotional ties....and we've not had any jealousy problems....but then neither of us have ever been that way....

and we know its not something we will always do...but now...while we still look good and have good bods....gotta enjoy life!

 

[manny78]

bump

 

[smokinghawk]

Done it three times. We are a "soft swing" couple--my wife has a partner while I abstain. But I am present during the whole thing. It's been wonderful--I'd do it again happily, but it's hard to find just the right kind of guy. Blonde, polite, clean, muscular, and classy but direct.

I don't mind, and even quite enjoy watching. We're both totally straight, so there's none of that weird dynamic or anything, but we've rented hot tub suites in Dallas for our meetings, and enjoyed them.

 

[needsize]

Glad to hear that there are some couples on here who are able to do this sucessfully

 

[manny78]

Glad to hear that there are some couples on here who are able to do this sucessfully

yup not a lot of response for the moment........

 

[manny78]

big bump again.....

 

[jet]

When I was single, I went to hedonism in Jamaica. I had a few encounters where the guy just wnated to watch while me and his wife went at it...very cool. I also got picked up by a guy and his wife at a club in Merican CT..can't remember the name..htey have differant type of theme rooms you can rent..same deal the guy just wanted to watch

 

[needsize]

Nobody else on here with any experience in this?

 

[redhotavenger]

any on nj or ny

pm me if you know hwere these spots are. ny or nj. thanx

 

[Inkman69]

Was involved with swinging for 5 years while I was married to my now ex wife. We had lots of fun and made lots af great and not so great friends. She was bi so it opened alot of doors for us if you know what I mean. We never became jealous during our encounters. The whole idea is to have fun and to share that fun with your partner. We always stayed in the same room together so we could enjoy it together.

Once we were invited on a Mexican cruize with 20 other couples. Talk about fun times. One of the biggest parties in the USA is called the Lifestyles Convention and it is held in Las Vegas in California this July I think. Over a thousand couples attend and it lasts for 5 days and nights. During the evenings theme parties are held with costumes and everything. Some are roman style, old west, roaring 20's PJ parties. Get the idea. Lots of fun if you are secure in your relationship. Not for everyone but if you are secure give it a try you might add some missing spice in your life. L2L

 

[TheGame2001]

hehehe

LMAO, promoting swinging saying you have to be secure in the relationship and your talking about your EX wife. Now thats funny! bwaaaaaahahahhahaha

 

[Inkman69]

Glad you had a good laugh funny boy. It just so happens that swinging had nothing to do with my wife and I ending things. You have no fucken clue why my marriage ended and you never will. L2L

 

[dimitrios]

That's really cool, my wife and I have discussed the idea somewhat but wondering how many actually are able to do it successfully.

My wife and I went for the first time last week and did we love it!!! We did not swap with anyone and I don't think we will, she does want to be with another women which is fine by me and I am allowed to be there for it. You have to go into it knowing what you will do and what you wont do with other couples. If you both stick to these things discussed before going then everything should be fine. If she wants to leave because she is feeling unconfortable then leave right away, if you force her to stay then she will more then likely never go again. I got a BJ in front of one couple and then we had sex in a room full of other couples. It was awesome, nothing like a group of people (maybe 15 couples) having killer sex infront of everyone. We are going tomorrow night and if you guys would like to know how the evening goes I'll share it with you. Hope this helps you guys out.

 

[needsize]

Definitely keep is posted!