Maybe it's just me, women tend to go along with stuff I want. I never did what I described but almost... Something between Chef's and my post.
Maybe your taking it the wrong way. It has nothing to do with wanting to hurt the woman or man, it's just something different. I can get really kinky in the bedroom. Watch out....
Perkele. lol jk
yes
Don't forget, the woman is slapping you too.