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ffknight84

ffknight84

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do girls not like quiet laid back guys???

im quiet, relaxed and generally dont give a dam, and girls seem to avoid me for some reason???
 
I'm with you on this one!

I'm also layed back and can't give two shits about most things.... i only get chicks when i pursue them.... damn them to hell
 
and i dont go out at night with the intent to get laid or get some. if it happens it happens, its weird i kind of want a relationship right now, but the girls are such dumbasses. I guess i need someone older or jsut more mature???
 
ffknight84 said:
do girls not like quiet laid back guys???

im quiet, relaxed and generally dont give a dam, and girls seem to avoid me for some reason???
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You forgot the Rich part! Laid back and rich they will be onto you like Fly's on Shit!
 
Generally, no. They don't. Well, not most girls.

The ones you'd really want to be with are the ones who WOULD be into you and your/our type.
 
Im the same way, whats the rush? If you really need to wet your noodle, get off your ass and bug the shit outta them.
 
well its just ive blown a few chances because at the time i thought ehh who cares, i have time, well i ran out and i kind of regret something i didnt do. and im pretty sure the girl was into me too.
 
It comes off as arrogant and stand-offish a lot of the time i've heard. They don't know who you are and what you are thinking if you are just sitting there making rico suave poses without speaking a word to them.

I have this problem from time to time myself , but mainly because I actually am awesome and the best in the world. I tell everyone repeatedly to reassure them I'm not the quiet shy type.
 
Don't give up :) There are plenty of girls out there who like quiet, laid back guys. I like that kind of guy myself! It's just not easy to find someone special that you'd like to have a relationship with.

You say you are quiet, laid back and don't give a damn. Maybe you need to be a bit more assertive and aggressive. Not to the point where you are scaring people, but just to let them know that you are interested. Take control!

I think that alot of girls are just as insecure about things as guys are and have trouble approaching men so sometimes you have to be the one to take the initiative. If you see a girl that you'd like to get to know, go and talk to her or give her a smile or some kind of signal to let her know you are interested.

As for them avoiding you, well try investing in some really nice cologne hehe :)! I'm not saying you stink but whatever they put in mens cologne absolutely hypnotizes me and other girls I'm sure. Drives me crazy. And anyways, smelling really good can only increase your chances!

Just do your best. I'm sure there is a nice girly out there for you somewhere! :D
 
I totally agree with Red Shadow. I am more attracted to quiet guys than I am to loud, abnoxious, arrogant men any day. Their is something about a more low profile guy that makes me want to know him better. But, you should do as Red Shadow said and make a little effort. Most girls aren't going to make a move either because they are too shy or they don't want to come off as the aggressor. Just go ahead ask for her number and CALL! Most girls are more likley to give her number out to someone who seems sincere than to very aggressive guy who seems like he's just trying to score numbers.
 
It's really one of those "standing in a beam of light while angels sing overhead" moments when you come to realize just how insecure most women really are.

Chicks require a lot of energy as a result, usually.
 
shit - just be yourself.


If you have to pretend to be something you are not to JUST get a date...imagine the stress of keeping up the charade to keep her.
 
Cornholio said:
shit - just be yourself.


If you have to pretend to be something you are not to JUST get a date...imagine the stress of keeping up the charade to keep her.
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Yah that pretty much goes for both men and women.
 
My bf is on the quiet side. That's probably a good thing because I talk enough for 3 people. lol He also has a more dry sense of humor that's easy to miss if you're not paying attention.

Really loud chatt guys are fun but when I'm combined with someone like that every day I think that's just too much chaos.
 
ffknight84 said:
do girls not like quiet laid back guys???

im quiet, relaxed and generally dont give a dam, and girls seem to avoid me for some reason???
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You're fucked, buddy. But you might be an ugly bastard too. It's kind of hard to tell why chicks are avoiding you from one simple post like this.

Chances are though, if you're quiet, you're not engaging them in conversation or breaking the ice by being openly flirtatious. Chicks don't dig on this. Many are not sure how to take you, and they may be insecure about initiating any kind of verbal or physical contact. They might even think you're being stuck up. I've had people think this about me before (back when I wasn't as extroverted as I am now).

But yeah, basically, "quiet and relaxed" is not the way to be if you want to get the poonanny. If you want to be the guy that they eventually start confiding in about all the gregarious, insensitive bastards who give them a deep dicking and then fuck them off or cheat on them and how pissed off they are at the guy and so on, then you're on the right track.

Just shootin' ya straight.
 
Nessa Bug said:
Most girls are more likley to give her number out to someone who seems sincere than to very aggressive guy who seems like he's just trying to score numbers.
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Sincerity is the key to success in life, and if you can fake that you've got it made.
 
casavant - i think you misinterpreted my post, not looking to get some ass every weekend. Its jsut a few things happened over the last year with one girl i know, and another who i thought liked me i havent spoken to or seen in 9 months because we dont know how to contact each other. I was just wondering if i sent the wrong message by never saying anything, which now it seems pretthy obvious i did.

im far from the best looking guy around ( and will be the first to admit it ) but im def not an ugly basterd >: |
 
Yep bro, you did. Anywho in the mean time brush up on your skills, and get your noodle wet until another one comes along that you really care about.
 
ffknight84 said:
casavant - i think you misinterpreted my post, not looking to get some ass every weekend. Its jsut a few things happened over the last year with one girl i know, and another who i thought liked me i havent spoken to or seen in 9 months because we dont know how to contact each other. I was just wondering if i sent the wrong message by never saying anything, which now it seems pretthy obvious i did.

im far from the best looking guy around ( and will be the first to admit it ) but im def not an ugly basterd >: |
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Cool beans man. Sorry if I came off sounding shitty. I was kinda joking around about the "ugly bastard" thing. :beer:
 
There is nothing wrong with quiet and reserved, but if that means you're boring as batshit with the personality of a car crash, then you have no hope.

I am quiet, but i have a sparkling personality, lol.

If you're like alot of guys here who work harder on their physique than they do on their personality in the hope that it will deliver the pussy, then think again my friend.
 
get yourself on some test,girls will be all over ya,i swear they can smell it or something!!!!


RADAR
 
ffknight84- How old are you? Just wondering because I am a laid back kind of guy like yourself. I'm 27 now, but in my early 20's i would only get girls if I got off my ass and was aggressive. BUT, now it seems that just being laid back I get more attention then ever! In my experience it seems that once girls get into their mid 20s they want a more laid back guy. I'm sure this isn't the case for every girl, but just my experience. I've been told that i am very easy to be around because im not over agressive and that girls like that.

Bri
 
ffknight84, i think i can help

when i was still in the long denial stage i would try to approach girls. I would get nervous as all fucking hell and seem to be anything but boyfriend material.

after i lost interest in girls guess what happened!? Now when i am in a good mood i sometimes approach girl for no reason. act flamboyant but not too feminine. I make them laugh a little. next thing i know i have a girl who thinks she is my girlfriend.

I think this happens because now i seem energetic (most of the time) and flirtatious in a way that keeps them confused as to weather or not i am really interested, making fun of them, or just joking.

Before you approach a girl just try to convince yourself that you don't really find them attractive, but try to seem more relaxed and comfortable then you would around a strange guy.

I know this description might not make since but if you can figure it out it will really help you break the ice.
 
vinylgroover said:
If you're like alot of guys here who work harder on their physique than they do on their personality in the hope that it will deliver the pussy, then think again my friend.
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I beg to differ sir. It seemed to serve me quite well.
 
Of course, this is extremely frustrating because I am only able to charm people when I sincerely don’t care if they will like me…
 
Don't be to quiet. Don't be obnoxious either. But do be aggressive. Talk to them like you don't give a shit if you like them or not. If all else fails there is a chance you may be gay. Hey happens to the best of us.
 
MFMan said:
Don't be to quiet. Don't be obnoxious either. But do be aggressive. Talk to them like you don't give a shit if you like them or not. If all else fails there is a chance you may be gay. Hey happens to the best of us.
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trust me here, im not gay nor ever will be, not that there's anything wrong with that, im the last person to hate anyone, but theres these 2 girls im crazy for, one turned bitch on me and the other i havent seen in since my first college break ( over 9 months ) and as far as i know shes still cool.
 
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