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Question for the guys.....

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Lobo....ill get it to u tonight! Bmom thnks girl......as for my post, I was just wondering what men thought in general about women and muscle and what they like etc, not really my personal physique. I am happy with how I look and those that dont like it...well FUCK U...I like being strong and have some meat on my bones!! I would NOT change now for ANYONE or ANYTHING. Its who i am now and so thats how it goes. Thnks for all the replies....
 
Ask who you are doing this for and you'll find your answer. I really could care less what others think about my progress. And those who mock me are the ones who I would avoid in life anyway. My girlfriend feels the same way. Like Bikinmom said anyone can be skinny. Be proud of your hard work. Not many people can hack it...
 
BBing is my lifestyle. I love going to the gym with my chick - I love being with her, and she loves being with me as we have similar interests and thankfully we do anything everyything together (to a certain extent).

Fitness chicks are awesome. A chick can be muscular (toned) and still have that smooth baby skin, beautiful features, and that great smell. But I dislike the BBing women, many are larger than me and that starts to get disgusting. I think men like the feel that they protect the woman, not they protect them. I love huddling my arms around her, but I would hate a 17´arm around me huddling me. In any case, they do deserve respect, jsut that they are not attractive.

I also dislike a fragile girl that looks like shes going to break.

hope that made sense.

as long as you dont look like a man, youre all good. If youre toned and beautiful, thats perfect.

:)
 
I identify with many cultures...bb'ing, fitness, computer nerds, black, white, east indian, american indian, irish, canadian...etc.

But my physical traits mean that I am identified usually as African-American or Latin-American.

Why is this relevant?

I moved to a more mixed neighborhood where there are more walks of life, and guess what?

People of color LOVE WOMEN with MEAT on their bones. Athletic, muscular women are no exception.

I've also noticed that the black guys (even the skinny ones) at the gyms I've gone to always flirt with that one chocolate girl with the muscular body similar to Marion Jones (Olympic track athlete)...and there is always at least one woman that fits this description at most gyms in Chicago.

In my adulthood, I've lived in a mostly white neighborhood for so long that I thought I was invisible and unattractive. My new neighborhood with more varied cultural backgrounds has welcomed me in a way much different, and they appreciate my physical qualities.

Being black/of color makes the muscle thing a lot easier--not perfect, but easier.

Putting all this in a cultural context shines a light on a virtual fact: what you grew up with is what you tend to appreciate later in life. Most Americans did not live next door to the female state hurdles athlete, whereas, where I grew up, most of the black girls were on the track team and several of them did short runs and built up real muscle.

(Because of my lighter skin color and good in school, my mother figured I was too "pretty" to "mess up my body" and wanted me to identify more with white culture by excelling in school work instead.)

So the attractiveness of muscular women is really a matter of culture...of course, this is not new...but I've dealt with this all my life on other issues...interesting to see how physical traits encourage prejudice in mainstream culture.

Flames or comments on this observation?
 
Also lets consider the future --- a skinny runway model looks "hot" to some today - what does she look like in 30 years? And if she has some eating disorder issues that could possibly lead to osteoporosis and brittle bones. Rickety old lady is not pretty.....

Take a look at all the older women who are in shape and see how old they really look (not old at all!) and the quality of life that they enjoy compared to those who did not respect their bodies in their younger years! Like they say, when the looks are gone, what remains is what is really important.

My favorite reason for pursuing resistance training is the studies they have done on sedentary nursing home people who start a "training regimen" of lifting soup cans and manage to result in fantastic increases in muscle mass! Since I plan on driving a Harley when I'm 90, I think this is a good thing to start NOW!

So, my comment to the guy who makes rude comments about muscular women - Who the hell is going to push your wheel chair & oxygen tank around when you are old & grey??
 
in regards to the relation of culutre and "meat on the bones", yes, this is definately an attitude that can be seen in cultures that have originated in "poverty" (i.e. black americans coming from slavery)... when slavery was abolished, a lot of former slaves weren't exactly well off, and as time progressed, black poverty in some areas became a real issue... people went hungry...

by this analogy, more meat on your bones meant you were eating, which meant that you had money... a desireable trait... this idea has been passed down in different forms, and after all, what you like and don't like is very much a product of your conditioning, what has been passed down through generations in your family and community...

my fiance is from Barbados and enlightened me to this concept on our first trip down there (basically it still applies to men, although the fashion industry and all their "ideals" have changed the way women are looked at)... basically, a man with a belly means he can take care of you... skinny men can't even put food on their own table, how are they going to feed your family...

i think this same logic can be applied to men and women for a great deal of history... its only been in the past 100 years or so that things normally considered "related to the 'lower class'" have become not only acceptable but desireabe within society, i.e. to name a couple things - Thiness (dieting?, people 200 years ago ate whenever they wanted, it was only poor people who rarely ate and were therefore skinny), tanning (it was only the field workers who were in the sun enough to let their skin darken)... even muscles could probably be related to only those who did physical labour (espeically among women who were supposed to 'stay home' and keep house...

does this logic make sence?
 
New,

I am an amateur bb myself. (stared working out at 12 yrs old in the basement with the plastic weights.........LOL Remeber those). anway, Muscles and fitness have always been a part of my life, So I think intern I like girls with developed muscles as well. I like physiques from fitness level all the way up to larger off season bodybuilders. I think it is improtant to retain a female presence about yourself, the problem is most people equate strength and muscles as to being non feminine.........I dont!

Im sure you look gorgeous! But as long as you feel good about yourself.....like you said.....who cares what others think!

JerseyBB
 
I can go either way.... i like the soft skinny girls that i see in clubs.... but sometimes they are not in as good of shape as their clothes make them look when you see them naked!

When I see a girl with muscles it doesn’t turn me off. It gets the idea in my head of a hot muscular chick rocking my world in bed harder then any wimpy girl could :)
 
I would have to say with Peter8581's reply.....we close down this thread with a big AMEN to that ;)
 
I just registered to this board and I know this was posted 2 years ago...
I love women who trains! heavy, light whatever. Not only am not intimidated by that (why would I, I never understood that) I encourage my wife to workout (but as an MD she doesn't have too much free time). but as you said, I workout so I can appreciate the effort not just the looks.
Regarding Cycles, Go for it, It great.
Sorry for the late respond :).
Bye
 
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