Question for my boys!

[flexygrl]

no no no

I went out on a date, it was great, but I didn't call her until a week later, she sent me an e-mail the next day to tell me she had fun. From your response above, it doesn't sound like it was a good thing to do though. I don't have a good excuse for it either.

Did you atleast reply to her email? No, that was NOT a good thing! What was your reason? Just forgot? I would still call her though. You never know.......

 

[Smurfy]

you had a good date. a week later and you hadent called her? im sure by now she has lost hope and probably shed a few tears. in like 3 years you should call her and apologize for being such a jerk and causing her pain.

or not. whatever

 

[Deleted member 33117]

no no no

I went out on a date, it was great, but I didn't call her until a week later, she sent me an e-mail the next day to tell me she had fun. From your response above, it doesn't sound like it was a good thing to do though. I don't have a good excuse for it either.

That is a bit long. Wow, I will usually call a day or two after the date if I think she is worth taking on a second date.

 

[SoreArms]

That is a bit long. Wow, I will usually call a day or two after the date if I think she is worth taking on a second date.

she's definately worth a second date

I just notice that chicks stick around longer when I play the disinterested role.

 

[alien amp pharm]

First of all, I'm not a slut. I'm just enjoying being single.........I have never been single before..........

Yes, enjoy being single for a while. I hate it when girls just get out of a relationship and first thing they do is call some guy up or go meet a guy and try to start a relationship with him.

The girl is still not ready for it and is still carrying around emotional baggage from the previous relationship which is not fair to the current guy. We have feelings too. *cries*

Women who do this are slutty to me. I wasn't calling you a slut personally. There's nothing wrong with dating and hanging out after a relationship ends, just be fair to the other people involved.

Peace, I'm out.

 

[Lumberg]

Lumberg,

That was mean. I am not acting CRAZY. If I was I would be Iming you as much as you IM me.........so lay off. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all..........

As far as my self confidence, that's none of your concern. I have a great resource at my hands with the EF guys. I don't have brothers or guy friends. If you have a problem with my threads, don't read them............

Hey ...just saying you seem to be agonizing a lot over your relationships with guys lately...it was meant as constructive criticism...I guess you're still a little sensitive...sorry

 

[Lestat]

I call when I feel like it...

this is what a girl I am dating told me....
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Seriously, I really don't pay attention to the whole 'wait 3 days to call...' bs typically related to dating. To me, it's just another game that I hate playing. It should be, if you had a good time, and want to talk to that person or tell them you had a good time, you should be able to call them whenever you want. Anyway, don't ever feel like you are 'breaking the rules' or whatever because I really don't even pay attention to that. In fact, I thought it was actually very cool that you called and emailed.
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[hanselthecaretaker]

It's not really a matter of waiting; it's more like whenever I feel like calling her. Could be the next day, could be the next week.

 

[Dial_tone]

If you're sweatin how many days he waits to call you, it says "I don't have any options".....translation: you ain't goin nowhere so he'll call when he feels like it.

 

[PBR]

this wasn't in a club, he asked for my # at the gym.............

Please tell me how he did this?.....Iam forever lost in this department.