Question For Girls Regarding Orgasms

[dr_skier]

Ok girls. Now i've been with girls who have the so called 'inner gspot" orgasms but only very few with the outer clitoral orgasms. Now i know the difference and i've been doing some reading. I've also read some experience both. My problem, though it really isn't that big a deal; is I cant seem to get my girl to have an orgasm while we are having intercourse. I get her to orgasm after or before i get off (usually after) by going down on her and she loves that. When ever i'm using my hands too she has me on the outside upper part of her clit and not inside, she says it just feels better that way. I would just love to feel her shake like a leaf while im inside of her. Yes I do last long enough that i should be able to make this happen. Yes we swith postions or sometimes stay in her fav postiion (girl on top). Yes there is ample forplay before intercourse. Any suggestions out there? I think girls could likely respond better than guys cause they know themselves.

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

First off, don't think of a puss as an inside-out dick. When she orgasms, you are not going to feel her spasm the same way your cock does when you cum. Second, and this is important if you want to develop into a great lover, read her body language and understand the signals she's sending you. She likes to be on top but doesn't cum that way. Well that just means it feels good but she's not getting the friction or stimulation she needs to get over the edge. Now this is the important part. When you are using your hand and fingers you said she directs you to "the outside upper part of her clit". That's the secret bro! That's where she needs you to stimulate her to make her cum. When you're fucking, don't focus on "in and out", that feels great to us but doesn't always do it for women. Try this and I promise it'll work. Get on top of her and slide insidewith your hips a little further forward than hers. Instead of pumping just slide further up her body then down (if that makes sense) putting pressure where she normally leads your handwith the bottom of your shaft. Create friction on that outer, upper part she likes so much and you'll get her off, no doubt. Basically, your cock is going to stay in the same place, only your body is going to move. I could come over and show you on your girl but hopefully you understande my description and you'll give it a try.

 

[dr_skier]

Bro i do know what you mean. When my girl orgams she does quiver quite a lot, just looses control, it's great. I love going down on her and having her cum that way, and she likes that too, but your idea is great, i've tried playing with her clit while she's ontop but this idea sounds a bit easier to control and maintain. Thanks for the suggestion, i'll keep the board updated! Also the description was great, i understand exactly.

 

[Gymgurl]

Some women will not have them no matter what...do her doggie and rub her clit while your doing her to make her cum....

 

[*MissFit*]

usually if a woman can cum during intercourse it will be when she is on top..

Question does she know how to make her self cum when she is on her own?

if she does tell her to sue the same technique when your having sex..

hope this helps

 

[The Shadow]

..come hither....

 

[dr_skier]

trust me shadow, i know, i've tried, and i am by no means new at this. actually slightly depressing at times. I guess it's just the way she is.