MILF69 said:I never talk to people at the gym...I'm there to do a job and not to socialize. I don't get alot of time to myself so the two hours I'm there I really dont want to be bothered. I put my headphones on and lift.![]()
and thats whats hard for us guys that are in good shape and work hard in the gym but look average in regular clothes. women at the gym dont want to be bothered when they can see that we are in actual good shape, but at the club only wanna be hit on by guys that are 300 lbs of pure muscle because those are the only guys u can tell are really built in regular clothing. meanwhile you may be thinking, while lifting with your headphones on, "wow that guy is in really good shape id fuck him" but dont wanna be bothered, but if you saw him at a bar youd dismiss him as a piece of shit that is just regular and not too attractive at all. thats whats tough for guys like us (which i probably speak for a minority on this board because most of you guys are on 3 grams of test a week all year and bench 600 lbs, but there are average looking guys out there that with clothes off are in great shape). just putting my opinion on this.