don't want to be in a realtionship, or betetr I do, but the person I want to be with is doing his thing, having his fun and getting it out of his system. And so am I, I was in a relationship for most of the fun part of my teens - early 20's, now I just want to have fun, enjoy being single. I'm not one two "screw" tons of guys or anything, I jsut happen to see something I like, and if he doesn't care about his girlfriend, then well frankly, i don't either. If I knew her it would be a totally different story. She will find out about him playing around eventually, and it was be his problem, at least I can say I enjoyed it (hopefully...lol)