Orgasms and Sex

[FreeballinDC]

I have an interesting situation.

When I j/o solo, I always have an orgasm.

When I am with somebody else, and we are having an awesome roll in bed, I can get hard, but no way in hell am I able to bust a nut.

What gives? Performance anxiety? Too used to j/o solo, and the other person is a distraction? Getting hard is not a problem, but finishing it off is.

Any ideas?

 

[adam wj]

anything happen to you to make you like that?

i had a condom break the first time i fucked
blew like a gallon of jizz in her
we were only 17 and had no clue what to do heh
she was 7 weeks late (anxiety) so im pretty much in the same boat as you

gonna try and fix it in about an hour though

 

[plowboy]

in the back of your mind you think your hand is gettin cheated, block this out, or close your eyes an fantasize about jackin off.

 

[Dial_tone]

I can orgasm from everything, but I notice it does make me longer to cum from a blowjob now. I think it's because, depending on her skills, a blowjob doesn't give as much friction as a handjob.

 

[FreeballinDC]

anything happen to you to make you like that?

i had a condom break the first time i fucked
blew like a gallon of jizz in her
we were only 17 and had no clue what to do heh
she was 7 weeks late (anxiety) so im pretty much in the same boat as you

gonna try and fix it in about an hour though

I can't think of anything that would have that effect on me. We were both jacking my dick like there was no tomorrow, but there was no way in hell I was going to blow my load.

I'll have to bring this up in group next week.

 

[adam wj]

my streak still stands

 

[jenny27]

i'm female and have the same problem...i went without masterbating for about a month and was horny as hell but still couldnt get off. i think i am so used to knowing what i like by doing it to myself that i am fucking myself over. anyone have this problem and what do u do? thing is i think i think about it too much when someone is trying to make me cum.

 

[Gymgurl]

Myabe you guys are just trying to hard to cum....just relax and breath

 

[adam wj]

will you help coach me?

 

[Spartacus]

as Woody Allen said
"ya gotta get the right fantasy in your head"

 

[rnch]

"you pretend i'm him and i'll pretend you're her"

 

[FreeballinDC]

Myabe you guys are just trying to hard to cum....just relax and breath

I've tried that too, and nothing doing. It's like my partner is a distraction. I gotta find a way to get over that.

 

[plowboy]

ask DR PHIL he has an answer for everthing.

 

[solidspine]

Are you on deca or Tren?

 

[SC4EVA]

So thats a good top then!

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Do you juice? I have this happen alot when I am on a cycle without test. Deca only was the worst for me,but tren/eq has been an issue.