Online Dating..... are they all liars???

[caligirl]

That's in person. I was talking about your personal ad. I'll tell you what. Let me stop by in my Concord jet and pick you up. We can discuss this in person.

lmao. oh, so you DO like women? now I'm all confuzzled.
if so, you must meet the following requirements:
A. mute, there will be no discussion.
B. Hairless.
C. odorless
D. willing to please
E. go completely away at my command

now thats established you can swing by in your jet.

 

[Island Son]

i know a couple guys who say they're into art, fine dining etc, they get crazy amounts of dates and many one-night stands.
oh and their pictures are photoshopped to look 5-10 years younger.

i thought "all's fair in love and war". No?

 

[EnderJE]

lmao. oh, so you DO like women? now I'm all confuzzled.
if so, you must meet the following requirements:
A. mute, there will be no discussion.
B. Hairless.
C. odorless
D. willing to please
E. go completely away at my command

now thats established you can swing by in your jet.

Hmm.

You drive a hard bargain. Pledge your soul to me and I'll gas the baby up.

 

[PBR]

there's alot of women on those sites who IMO, have had "enough"....so they look and ask for the "fairytale" they feel they've been denied. their profiles reflect a "want to have it all"...(problem is, most dont know what that means)...to them its money #1, they want to travel extensively to places and events they've read about or have seen in pictures...they want absolute attention with no interference from ex's or young children...they dont want to cook anymore so they enjoy nice wines and walks on the beach at midnight with the reflection of the moon dancing on the water...they have become a sexual delight with the 'right man" no boys allowed. they want to be swept away....
so men have two choices- be truthful and hope for the best and that the fat eating bon bon, chain smoking couch potatoes skim past their profiles....

or make up a fictious persona,being a mix of african american/latin/european ex professional athelete, (due to an injury to the knee) one where they are a corporate head- do male modeling on the side, and do alot of traveling so as not to be accounted for - have many residences across the country for tax write-off purposes, love animals- having 10 dogs that they rescued from the pound, 6 horses on a ranch in wyoming, being borded of course that they donate to under privalged kids from the inner city....they belong to "save the rain forest", Greenpeace, Be a Big Brother",and have the yacht thats currently being chartered in Tahiti by a CEO and his GF who are perspective clients....oh, and later on we can take my private jet to lunch with your friends...hows that sound?...

 

[chewyxrage]

lol PBR, hilarious!


I can see why they do it, but obviously I don't agree.

There 500 dudes to every chick on the 'net IMO.

I can't see being a decent guy and lying. If you are seriously looking for somebody then you will tell the truth, otherwise if you actually find someone good, you are stuck in a lie and are fucked for the long term.

 

[biteme]

I was at the pool today and I (along with everyone else at the pool) happened to over hear a conversation of two guys, I'd say mid 30's average looking and halfway educated, (maybe) anywho... they were talking about their fabricated profiles on some dating site they both visit. One of them said the only thing he lied about was how much money he made because the "chics won't look at a guy that makes under 100K". The other went on to agree and say he lied about ever being married, his salary, the type of music he likes and that he does not smoke, which he was at the pool puffing away and drinking budlight. So, is this common practice? It's a bummer people feel so much pressure to compete (even on a friggin website) that they feel they have to lie?

I'd say about half of the women lie. I've been on over 20 dates from those sites. Met some nice women.

 

[caligirl]

I'm sure they do after what I heard today, I have no doubt. did you ever go out with some one that totally misrepresented themselves? scary.

 

[Lestat]

I've done some online dating and I never lied, if anything I'd downplay how much I make, or my education and then spring it on them when I needed to impress. Initial meeting should be based 100% on physical. You don't get to know someone by reading their profile, you just try to weed out total duds.

 

[biteme]

I'm sure they do after what I heard today, I have no doubt. did you ever go out with some one that totally misrepresented themselves? scary.

One woman probably had pics that were 10 years old. I think most people misrepresent themselves. I laugh when I read their profiles. Noone seems to have any negative traits. You have to find out months down the road when they can no longer hide them.

 

[PBR]

i was always honest...i met some truely wonderful women...a couple i let slip past- bad judgement on my part....( i lost out)

i could not shake the liars and fat chicks who just started dieting 2 weeks ago (but were really nice)... i quit. never to return. besides if i buy a horse, i might get QT to cali....