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One of my "girl" friends.

flex123

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This girl that I've been friends with for years now just started going out with this kid two weeks ago. She's mad cool, but a bit crazy at times. Anyways this weekend I kept telling her to leave her boyfriend and go out with me. I only started saying it cause I was drinking and she was talking to me asking me if she should break up with him cause she was mad at him for something.

She seemed to be into me before she was with this kid and I was with my ex. I use to always joke around about going home with her or asking if I could come by her house and hang out alone, she would just tell me to stop teasing her. Then the other day I hung out with her and some other friends and she looked really good. So the next day she was getting ready and she asked me if she should wear a skirt or jeans. I just said wear something like you wore the other night cause you looked smoking in that. She just laughed and told me to stop. I didn't know what to say so I said "I'm not hitting on you, I'm just telling as a friend that you looked good.

Do you think I'm wrong for hitting on her and maybe implying to her that she should be with me, when she is already in a relationship with someone?

Not sure if I explained this very well or if I just rambled on about nothing, I didn't prrof read it:)
 
Sounds like you could hit it, but how much do you value the friendship you have with her?

Things will almost certainly change if you tap that ass.
 
XBiker said:
Sounds like you could hit it, but how much do you value the friendship you have with her?

Things will almost certainly change if you tap that ass.

Well the only change I can see is this. If She likes it I'm in for some more banging and if she doesn't then I guess the friendship goes to shit. We arn't that great of friends in the sense of hanging out all the time, cause I was in a relationship and I don't hang with other girls if I'm with one, but I was always friends with her.

I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship cause I have such a good time hanging out with her, she always has me laughing all night.
 
flex123 said:
I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship cause I have such a good time hanging out with her, she always has me laughing all night.

Unless you set the playing field from the get go, you'll prolly lose it.
 
Do you think it's wrong to imply to her that she should be with me?

Also, while your aswering that what do you think of this. She just started a new job today and she was really nervous about it. I was going to call her now and ask her how her day went. She's got a boyfriend now and I rarely call her in the first place. So it wouldn't be a normal thing if I call her to see how her day went.
 
Are you looking for a relationship or are you looking for sex?

Perhaps you are looking for both?

Follow your heart, grasshopper.
 
Imagine youself in old age, on your deathbed, looking back on your life. What would you wish you would have done? Do that.
 
I don't know what I'm looking for but I know that I wouldn't mind being nice to her and having her know I show an interest.

Also I wanted to call her and see how her day went but I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do. If she doesn't appreciate it and acts weird about it I'd be pissed at her sorta. I could always ask her how her day went when I see her another time, but the act of calling because I care how the first day at work went, is good for getting some points in with her.

It's just she is dating someone now, but she goes threw guys quick.lol not really a good trait.
 
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