Old fuck buddy is engaged

[Deleted member 33117]

The thing is she told me all about how great and perfect her man is, and it would be fucked up for me to meet him, and I know I couldn't keep a straight face at the wedding if I went. This chick was a freak in bed. I mean, I would feel like an asshole if I started laughing while she was saying her vows or something if I got a mental image of her giving me head right after having anal sex with her, which she did a few times. BTW, never dated her, we were friends, but it was strictly casual sex. What's really fucked up is she says she hasn't had sex with him. They haven't even talked about sex, yet he asked her to marry him? To me this whole situation is weird. Any thoughts?

 

[Puddles]

Since she's not a virgin it's weird. Of course marriage is based on a whole lot more than sex, but if they're incompatible, then it's gonna be frustrating. Did you ask her why they haven't had sex yet? Is he a virgin maybe?

I'm sorry for your loss too...that sucks. Fuckbuddies are cool.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Haha yeah, not kewl to lose one right after breaking up with my girlfriend. ANyway I never fucked her while I was dating her. I'm not the cheating type. When I'm single anything is fair game though. I think he might be a vigin, but the thing is, she is really into rough sex, and if he turns out not to be, they are not going to be compatable. Right now I'm really thinking about getting back with my ex though. We are speaking again.

 

[jubei]

LOL, thats some funny shit. I would laugh my ass off at the wedding. I can't believe people would get married before they have even had sex. WTF is wrong with that picture?

 

[DBCooper]

I had an arguement (sort of) with a girl I know about her plan on getting married and waiting to have sex, she's still a virgin-which I don't argue about. My thought was how do you know you absolutely love someone when you have never lived with them or made love to them? I mean they might drive you crazy with the way they live and such. She is trying to be the super church going kind of girl that has normal friends that drink/smoke/sex and I am fine with that but the thought of MARRIAGE with a person that I don't even know if they are a person who drinks out of the milk cartoon is scary.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

DBC, I agree with that 100%. How can you really know somewhat until you have lived with them? The face that we put on for friends, lovers, etc are not always how we truely act when at home or by ourselves. My ex girlfriend is like that in a way too. She tries to put on this image of purity and being such a devout Christian, but I know her pretty well, and she isn't! I'm a Christian, but I certainly don't try to put on that type of image because I know I'm far from perfect, especially when it comes to sex. Pussy will always be my #1 weakness. I just try to treat other people with respect, and compassion, and leave it at that. Probably going to get back with her, since we are now on speaking terms again, but that image she puts on kind of bothers me.

jubei, right, my friend? I think she has lost her mind! She even said that she didn't mind having not had sex him, that in way it made their relationship stronger because he doesn't just want her for her body. Ummmm... sorry, but I can't picture her really believing that. We are talking about a girl who likes ass-to-mouth, and has both nipples and her hood pierced. Well, hahah he is going to be in for a surprise on their honeymoon!

 

[DBCooper]

Yeah what if he's thinking she must be a virgin for not even mentioning sex yet? Then on the honeymoon he realizes the 'do not tamper seal' isn't the factory original! LOL, I prefer a woman that knows what she's doing so I wouldn't care but he might.

 

[rnch]

virgins, like home cooking and mom's apple pie, are vastly overrated.

all they do is lay there with their eyes squeezed tight and cry after.............not to mention the mess on the new martha stewart marked down kmart sheets.

 

[High-Jacked]

virgins, like home cooking and mom's apple pie, are vastly overrated.

all they do is lay there with their eyes squeezed tight and cry after.............not to mention the mess on the new martha stewart marked down kmart sheets.

AHHhahaha...... that is some funny shit....and true!

 

[rnch]

I'm sorry for your loss too...that sucks. Fuckbuddies are cool.

DAWLIN'.........if you EVER cum to new orleans...............

 

[jubei]

LOL, I know what you mean about how christians try to put up a front. I'm catholic but I act however I please...well we are known to be vicious killers anyways. Look at the mafia, they would go wack some guy and then go to church for confession.

I think your friend is going through a "purity phase". This marriage won't last when the the phase is over.

 

[Christopher X]

Sorry you're losing your fuck buddy - a real bore; when it works it can be a great way to get good, no-strings-attached sex. Sounds like she might be back on your agenda, if what you say is true. Probably not much you can do about it in the mean time, though

 

[Deleted member 33117]

virgins, like home cooking and mom's apple pie, are vastly overrated.

all they do is lay there with their eyes squeezed tight and cry after.............not to mention the mess on the new martha stewart marked down kmart sheets.

Funny shit Mark. Anyway, now that I think about it, I've never fucked a virgin. Probably for the best, I don't have marked down kmart sheets. I'm all about 400+ threadcount. Damn bro, you should know that. The kind of sheets you have on a bed says alot about who a guy really is. Ask any of your lady friends. Ok, now you can use your dad's quote about feminine logic...

 

[rnch]

k-mart's current mark downed martha stewart brand sheets meet your specifications for thread count and are damn comfortable!!

i perfer to make my statement on who i am BETWEEN the sheets.......heh heh!

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Never mind bro, you missed the joke on women's perception of things. LoL


...btw how much are those marked down Kmart sheets? I bought my current one's on sale at Dillards.

 

[rnch]

oh, ok..........gotcha! hahahaha....working day shift has dulled my senses. the grey matter in my mind has turned into cottage cheese.......i am NOT a morning person!

yeh, the longer the ol' man is gone, the more i miss talking with him.




when i was still attending church on a regular basis, the pastor used to tell the parable about the boy and his dad.......the boy thought his dad was stupid, uncooth and totally out of touch with the modern workd. he couldn't wait to escape to out of town college and become a man.

15 years later, the son got transferred back to his home town. he started talking to his father about marriages, raising kids, life insurance, house mortages.......he couln't believe how smart his father became in the time he ws gone!!!!!!!

 

[Bigburndaddy]

big ol burndaddy says,,, wish her goodluck and tell her you are happy shes happy,,, get them a phat gift and head on down the road only looking back for the memories,,, dont worry you will find another,, trust me there are many out there,,, just a side note is it just me or do fuckbuddies seem to be more freaky???

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Oh, I'm not worried about this bro. LoL, I was commenting on the amusement factor in this situation. I already told her I was glad to hear she finally found someone special. Not always, I've had a girlfriend who was freakier than most of my fuck buddies. Anyway, this chick was by far the freakiest.

 

[DepressiveJuice]

she could be lying you know...

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Why would she lie, I bumped into her at the gym and she just told me all about it? It isn't like I ever call her up for a booty call. She would just give me a call or drop by when she felt like it.

 

[Gel]

I'm very happily married but make sure you :

a) Fuck them first
b) Live with them second

I was dating for 6 years and have been married 12 months now, no complaints!

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Gel, that should be common sense. After all, you don't want to commit to fucking just one woman if you don't know if she is good in bed. As far as living with them, also a good idea. Until you have lived with someone, you really don't know them. That's true even of you friends. I had a good friend that was my roomate for a year. We are still bro's now, but he got on my nerves so much that it almost ruined out friendship. The same would apply with wives I would think. You may think she is the one, but there could be alot of things you can't stand about her once you move in with her.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Just reviving this thread after a long time, because I see her regularly at the gym now, due to my new workout hours and location (I have access to more than one Gold's here). She broke it off with him... lookout men of College Station!

 

[ColdCut]

lol, so weird that lots of total strangers know about part of her life and predicted she would split up

 

[chewyxrage]

I agree.

 

[dzuljas]

The thing is she told me all about how great and perfect her man is, and it would be fucked up for me to meet him, and I know I couldn't keep a straight face at the wedding if I went. This chick was a freak in bed. I mean, I would feel like an asshole if I started laughing while she was saying her vows or something if I got a mental image of her giving me head right after having anal sex with her, which she did a few times. BTW, never dated her, we were friends, but it was strictly casual sex. What's really fucked up is she says she hasn't had sex with him. They haven't even talked about sex, yet he asked her to marry him? To me this whole situation is weird. Any thoughts?

this guy that she intends on marrying sounds like a big fuckin softie if he hasnt hit it yet....mabye hes a homo in disguise? Or mabye he thinks his girl is pure, he doesnt know about your devestating anal action u gave her lol

 

[Deleted member 33117]

dzuljas, they broke it off, and I agree with you. I suspected that he was a closet homo.

 

[The Red Dragon]

How much is that guy making?
Is that why the breakup happened?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

RD, I don't know, but 50% of the population in by town are college students, so he probably makes $6 an hour if he has a job.