Old fuck buddy is engaged

[Deleted member 33117]

The thing is she told me all about how great and perfect her man is, and it would be fucked up for me to meet him, and I know I couldn't keep a straight face at the wedding if I went. This chick was a freak in bed. I mean, I would feel like an asshole if I started laughing while she was saying her vows or something if I got a mental image of her giving me head right after having anal sex with her, which she did a few times. BTW, never dated her, we were friends, but it was strictly casual sex. What's really fucked up is she says she hasn't had sex with him. They haven't even talked about sex, yet he asked her to marry him? To me this whole situation is weird. Any thoughts?

 

[Puddles]

Since she's not a virgin it's weird. Of course marriage is based on a whole lot more than sex, but if they're incompatible, then it's gonna be frustrating. Did you ask her why they haven't had sex yet? Is he a virgin maybe?

I'm sorry for your loss too...that sucks. Fuckbuddies are cool.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Haha yeah, not kewl to lose one right after breaking up with my girlfriend. ANyway I never fucked her while I was dating her. I'm not the cheating type. When I'm single anything is fair game though. I think he might be a vigin, but the thing is, she is really into rough sex, and if he turns out not to be, they are not going to be compatable. Right now I'm really thinking about getting back with my ex though. We are speaking again.

 

[jubei]

LOL, thats some funny shit. I would laugh my ass off at the wedding. I can't believe people would get married before they have even had sex. WTF is wrong with that picture?

 

[DBCooper]

I had an arguement (sort of) with a girl I know about her plan on getting married and waiting to have sex, she's still a virgin-which I don't argue about. My thought was how do you know you absolutely love someone when you have never lived with them or made love to them? I mean they might drive you crazy with the way they live and such. She is trying to be the super church going kind of girl that has normal friends that drink/smoke/sex and I am fine with that but the thought of MARRIAGE with a person that I don't even know if they are a person who drinks out of the milk cartoon is scary.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

DBC, I agree with that 100%. How can you really know somewhat until you have lived with them? The face that we put on for friends, lovers, etc are not always how we truely act when at home or by ourselves. My ex girlfriend is like that in a way too. She tries to put on this image of purity and being such a devout Christian, but I know her pretty well, and she isn't! I'm a Christian, but I certainly don't try to put on that type of image because I know I'm far from perfect, especially when it comes to sex. Pussy will always be my #1 weakness. I just try to treat other people with respect, and compassion, and leave it at that. Probably going to get back with her, since we are now on speaking terms again, but that image she puts on kind of bothers me.

jubei, right, my friend? I think she has lost her mind! She even said that she didn't mind having not had sex him, that in way it made their relationship stronger because he doesn't just want her for her body. Ummmm... sorry, but I can't picture her really believing that. We are talking about a girl who likes ass-to-mouth, and has both nipples and her hood pierced. Well, hahah he is going to be in for a surprise on their honeymoon!

 

[DBCooper]

Yeah what if he's thinking she must be a virgin for not even mentioning sex yet? Then on the honeymoon he realizes the 'do not tamper seal' isn't the factory original! LOL, I prefer a woman that knows what she's doing so I wouldn't care but he might.

 

[rnch]

virgins, like home cooking and mom's apple pie, are vastly overrated.

all they do is lay there with their eyes squeezed tight and cry after.............not to mention the mess on the new martha stewart marked down kmart sheets.

 

[High-Jacked]

virgins, like home cooking and mom's apple pie, are vastly overrated.

all they do is lay there with their eyes squeezed tight and cry after.............not to mention the mess on the new martha stewart marked down kmart sheets.

AHHhahaha...... that is some funny shit....and true!

 

[rnch]

I'm sorry for your loss too...that sucks. Fuckbuddies are cool.

DAWLIN'.........if you EVER cum to new orleans...............