OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

[patsfan1379]

So I have this hot neighbor. Probably a 9. 115 lbs., curly hair, tight ass body. Blue eyes. Nice Irish girl. Fantastic piece.

She lives behind me. We hung out a few times last summer. She had a boyfriend. He was a douchebag. Well about 4 months ago she broke up with him.

I talked to her once or twice between then and now, flirty shit like.

She walks by my place last night as I was assembling my brand new Graphite flake, ball-bearing Craftsman brand 3 piece toolchest.

We hang out in the garage having a GREAT time she was fucking super-flirtatious. Claiming how I never asked her out, blah blah blah, so I said how bout this is a date. (Basically her watching me work on stuff in the garage.) She was all about it, then she walks back over to her place to pick up some $$$ because we ordered a pizza when, bam... Some kid she went out with a few times shows up at her house - a kid that I know - also douchebag - and she dips out and goes home.

WHAT

THE

FUCK

PEOPLE

We were having a fucking real good time - Im talkin' connection.

My question is as such.

Do I...

a.) Forget about it.
b.) Go for it full speed ahead.
c.) Other suggestions between the extremes of choices a.) and c.)

Normally I wouldn't care but this chick is really cool and I'd really like to try and hook it up with her.

For you guys without knowing me personally, for me to want to hook up with a chick not just for fuckings is really rare.

Fuck.

OK I'm done.

 

[dsh89]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

If she is that quick to bail on you bro, she isn't worth it. Fuck her and then dump her.

 

[calveless wonder]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

If she is that quick to bail on you bro, she isn't worth it. Fuck her and then dump her.

yeah, she's a flake and sounds incredibly immature, not worth it. but if you still want to deal with her, call her out on her behavior first of all. do it calmly and make it clear you don't tolerate that shit. she's a pretty girl so she gets her ass kissed all the time....she can flake out on people and people won't say anything or they get really upset and act all emotional, which makes her validate her own flakeyness.

just like the other thread you made about the AE chick, you don't seem to have a concept of how women test you. when she asked you why you guys never went out she was testing you. to declare you two guys chillin and then consider it a date is completely unnatural and you're not letting things progress slowly and making her work for you. notice how things quickly change based on one response from their tests? yes...notice the things women say sometimes and how and you'll understand why they test people, especially pretty ones. it's their way to separate the strong from the weak in their minds

you completely gave into her and she ditched you for the next guy, who's probably a complete asshole but doesn't tolerate her bullshit

 

[SpyWizard]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

wow, slow the F down.... she is a neighbor... and you never asked her out..

she has history with this other guy, company.. you'll always be there..

You don't own her, didn't buy her dinner, hell you were making her buy the pizza.. or part of it..

relax.. be the safe guy if that's who you are.. but don't be needy.. nobody likes that..

and while she is with him.. she'll be thinking of you.. but as was stated above, if she's that flighty, insecure, you are probably better off without her..

just sayin

 

[nefertiti]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

That's sort of thoughtless. She clearly made plans with you, and then ditched when another (better, in her mind anyway) option came along. I hate people who flake.

As for what you should do...damned if I know. I don't know the girl and hesitate to jusge her character entirely on one story. You say she's cool, so she must have something going for her. You're gonna know whether or not to bother better than we will but I would say give it one more chance on the account that this is a fluke and pay close attention for any more red flag selfish behavior. If you see more signs that this sort of mindset is a pattern rather than a fluke, drop her.

 

[javaguru]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Don't be a Steve. It's not worth being upset about, you haven't even gone on a date. You're basing her desirability mostly on appearance, get to know her as a friend before you date her, she'll show you the crazy and you won't have to date her for a couple of months before she starts showing her true colors. The craziest chicks in the world can hide their crazy for a couple months during the dating process, their friends get to see the crazy.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

yeah, she's a flake and sounds incredibly immature, not worth it. but if you still want to deal with her, call her out on her behavior first of all. do it calmly and make it clear you don't tolerate that shit. she's a pretty girl so she gets her ass kissed all the time....she can flake out on people and people won't say anything or they get really upset and act all emotional, which makes her validate her own flakeyness.

100% true

just like the other thread you made about the AE chick, you don't seem to have a concept of how women test you.

Probably true, but I'm not that bad.

when she asked you why you guys never went out she was testing you. to declare you two guys chillin and then consider it a date is completely unnatural and you're not letting things progress slowly and making her work for you. notice how things quickly change based on one response from their tests? yes...notice the things women say sometimes and how and you'll understand why they test people, especially pretty ones. it's their way to separate the strong from the weak in their minds

You would have had to be in my shoes to understand this one. It wasn't some weird unnatural thing, the whole "this counts as a date" thing was me busting on her because it was in my garage.

And believe me maing, I'm always the stong one rather than the weak one. If I sense bullshit I'll drop her faster than an Acme rocket pointed to the ground.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Tell us more about the toolchest.

Craftsman has a lifetime gaurantee of functioning properly and being satisfactory.

The woman, not so much.

 

[jack sparrow]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

Tell us more about the toolchest.

Craftsman has a lifetime gaurantee of functioning properly and being satisfactory.

The woman, not so much.

Agreed. The only thing postworthy about this is the toolbox.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

wow, slow the F down.... she is a neighbor... and you never asked her out..

she has history with this other guy, company.. you'll always be there..

You don't own her, didn't buy her dinner, hell you were making her buy the pizza.. or part of it..

relax.. be the safe guy if that's who you are.. but don't be needy.. nobody likes that..

and while she is with him.. she'll be thinking of you.. but as was stated above, if she's that flighty, insecure, you are probably better off without her..

just sayin

Dude I was far from needy in the garage situation.

Here's how it played out.

I was disgustingly dirty in grease and oil. (For the s)

I was putting together tool cabinets and working on my motorcycle.

She walks by, we chill, she goes to her place grabs a bottle of wine all the while watching me work, us talking, her handing me tools and getting me beers. She was very touchy feely. I was basically busting on her all night. I was in 100% control the entire night until she got a surprise visit by that douchebag.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Tell us more about the toolchest.

Craftsman has a lifetime gaurantee of functioning properly and being satisfactory.

The woman, not so much.

Dude I had a boner the entire night.

http://www.sears.com/sr/javasr/prod...cat=Chest+&+Cabinet+Combos&BV_UseBVCookie=Yes

 

[javaguru]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

Dude I was far from needy in the garage situation.

Here's how it played out.

I was disgustingly dirty in grease and oil. (For the s)

I was putting together tool cabinets and working on my motorcycle.

She walks by, we chill, she goes to her place grabs a bottle of wine all the while watching me work, us talking, her handing me tools and getting me beers. She was very touchy feely. I was basically busting on her all night. I was in 100% control the entire night until she got a surprise visit by that douchebag.

She sounds incredibly needy of attention and validation. Do you know for a fact it was a surprise visit? If you start dating her don't be surprised if you get dumped for an ex.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

She sounds incredibly needy of attention and validation. Do you know for a fact it was a surprise visit? If you start dating her don't be surprised if you get dumped for an ex.

Needy girls suck great cock.

But, point taken.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Sweet toolbox.

My tool boxisn't as big as your tool box, but it gets the job done.

I need to organize my tools at some point.

 

[KillahBee]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

It's pretty obvious that this chick is in it for the flirting/fun/attention. She's one of those chicks that you don't talk to at the bar until closing time - a "get her at the right time" type of poobah. Act like it's no big deal (better yet, make sure she sees you interacting with other girls). She'll come chasing eventually.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Sweet toolbox.

My tool boxisn't as big as your tool box, but it gets the job done.

I need to organize my tools at some point.

It's fucking awesome. But I put the casters on the wrong side so it steers like pushing a shopping cart backwards.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

It's pretty obvious that this chick is in it for the flirting/fun/attention. She's one of those chicks that you don't talk to at the bar until closing time - a "get her at the right time" type of poobah. Act like it's no big deal (better yet, make sure she sees you interacting with other girls). She'll come chasing eventually.

Dude. That's the - that's the sce-nario.

 

[MichaelScott]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

obviously she is telling you to get off your ass and "git er done"

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

shes not a flake, shes flighty. theyre different.

she sounds needy as hell. chances are she was over for a quick validation fix and thats that.

if you follow calveless wonders advice and snap her into place at this point, youre going to lose her. how much has she invested in you in terms of time/emotion? enough that shes going to alter her behaviour for you? no way. put the hard word on her and shes going to think youre needy, the fun will flow out of your interactions, positive emotional connections will not be made and youre going to blow out.

now, it sounds like the girl is attracted to you, or at least, interested enough that shes going to keep interviewing you, which means she will probably respond to you inviting her places/engineering meetups.

so what you need to do is keep doing what you were doing before. youre busy. youre popular. you have so much shit happening in your life you couldnt really care that the girl next door is a 9, you have another 10 9s waiting for you elsewhere that you need to try see tonight. keep busting on her in a fun way. keep her having fun with you. - but at the same time, you need to get an excuse to get her over again to spend time with you, so that she can start investing emotionally and you can actually game her properly.

let her see that youre the best option available, let her decide taht she likes you/being around you, and then as soon as you know shes decided that youre sexually attractive and she wants you, TAKE CONTROL (because hot girls generally wait for a man to take the lead and seldom do so themselves) and throw her into bed with teh quickness

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

It's pretty obvious that this chick is in it for the flirting/fun/attention. She's one of those chicks that you don't talk to at the bar until closing time - a "get her at the right time" type of poobah. Act like it's no big deal (better yet, make sure she sees you interacting with other girls). She'll come chasing eventually.

fuck yeah, killah on point with his identification of the chick as an ADD club slut, fuckin hi 5 lol

 

[KillahBee]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

fuck yeah, killah on point with his identification of the chick as an ADD club slut, fuckin hi 5 lol

lol. I've had WAAAY to many interactions with the ADD subset. It's ALL about timing with them.

 

[calveless wonder]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

if you follow calveless wonders advice and snap her into place at this point, youre going to lose her. how much has she invested in you in terms of time/emotion? enough that shes going to alter her behaviour for you? no way. put the hard word on her and shes going to think youre needy, the fun will flow out of your interactions, positive emotional connections will not be made and youre going to blow out.

hrmm...interesting perspective. you do make a valid point about how she has nothing invested in it...but my reasoning comes from the fact if she commited to something (although tihs wasn't a real date, which certainly bodes with your theory come to think of it), that's a disrespect of your time. whenever people flake (business, women, whatever) if you calmly let them know that's not acceptable behavior because its a disrespect of your time, they usually feel like idiots and are completely apologetic after realizing what they did and shows them that you don't let people walk over you. alot of people just think they can get away with it.getting emotional is usally what conveys needyness.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

hrmm...interesting perspective. you do make a valid point about how she has nothing invested in it...but my reasoning comes from the fact if she commited to something (although tihs wasn't a real date, which certainly bodes with your theory come to think of it), that's a disrespect of your time. whenever people flake (business, women, whatever) if you calmly let them know that's not acceptable behavior because its a disrespect of your time, they usually feel like idiots and are completely apologetic after realizing what they did and shows them that you don't let people walk over you. alot of people just think they can get away with it.getting emotional is usally what conveys needyness.

youre right, but you do it when your value is already high enough

if she was willing to walk out on him halfway through an interaction, its fair to say that her perception of his value at this point is lower than it needs to be

you can snap them into place early and set limits etc etc, but you need to have some other hook to pump your value/the fun factor in the interaction immediately eg a famous actor or nightclub manager can snap women into line quickly cos their value/interestingness overrides the negative feeling that results from you telling them off and keeps the interaction flowing. try do that when youre mr nobody and shes gone.

since patsfan lives nextdoor and already has rapport etc etc theres no need to play such a high risk game imo. ride the comfort wave to get her into set, keep her in set, demonstrate value, pump BT, transition sexually, close.

im only generally such a bastard when im either playing numbers or cutting dead wood (giving girls a last chance to decide to have sex with me or begone)

just my take on it of course

 

[SpyWizard]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

Dude I was far from needy in the garage situation.

Here's how it played out.

I was disgustingly dirty in grease and oil. (For the s)

I was putting together tool cabinets and working on my motorcycle.

She walks by, we chill, she goes to her place grabs a bottle of wine all the while watching me work, us talking, her handing me tools and getting me beers. She was very touchy feely. I was basically busting on her all night. I was in 100% control the entire night until she got a surprise visit by that douchebag.

I'm not trying to go off.. you were sounding needy.. in the post to us... "should you be pissed she picked someone other than you???"


that is the issue, you feel she dumped you for another guy... there was no you and her.. you are a neighbor..

By you using the term "douchbag" to describe her other guys she is interested in, that tells us you are insecure.. or maybe she likes douchbags, and not guys that are strong and secure..

who knows..

I'm not coming down on you, i'm just saying that you need to relax..

remember women are like guys, they want what they can't have more than what they can get..

 

[blueta2]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Ok, well there are A LOT OF "I" in your post, but here is my take on it (and get ready cause this will be the best advice)

PLAY IT COOL! She is into you, but she's now single and prob just wants to have some fun.
If you really like her, keep flirting and showing interest then when the time is right, ask her over for sups or a beer.
Take it slow and play it cool.......chasing her will make her run!

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

now, it sounds like the girl is attracted to you, or at least, interested enough that shes going to keep interviewing you, which means she will probably respond to you inviting her places/engineering meetups.

so what you need to do is keep doing what you were doing before. youre busy. youre popular. you have so much shit happening in your life you couldnt really care that the girl next door is a 9, you have another 10 9s waiting for you elsewhere that you need to try see tonight. keep busting on her in a fun way. keep her having fun with you. - but at the same time, you need to get an excuse to get her over again to spend time with you, so that she can start investing emotionally and you can actually game her properly.

let her see that youre the best option available, let her decide taht she likes you/being around you, and then as soon as you know shes decided that youre sexually attractive and she wants you, TAKE CONTROL (because hot girls generally wait for a man to take the lead and seldom do so themselves) and throw her into bed with teh quickness

This is 1,000% how I play the game. I've got zero emotionally invested.

 

[jackangel]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

have you considered setting her on fire?

 

[SpyWizard]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

that's good^^^^ neighbors.. ya got to love them.. but the issue is if it doesn't workout.. well, you are still neighbors..

 

[KillahBee]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

The standard answer here should be "Punch her in the face and make babies"

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Tell the bitch to sweep your garage next time she comes over. They love that.

 

[jackangel]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

"i don't mean to rush the romance, but is it too early for a finger in your ass?"

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Tell the bitch to sweep your garage next time she comes over. They love that.

I told her to get me beer, she got it.

I told her to hand me light, she did.

I told her to lift toolbox, she did.

I was this close to "lick balls".

 

[velvett]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

She's one of those girls that needs the constant attention of guys (ANY AND EVERY ONE) because she has no self esteem. She will flirt and act coy, joke around and be playful because she needs to know that every man she has contact with wants her.

Next.

 

[jackangel]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

but seriously, the only thing i think you should do (this is all very easy over the net...) is do whatever you need to in order to ascertain (to your own satisfaction) the true quality of her character. if she ditched out on you, it seems fairly clear, but who knows. if this is how she behaves on the regular, she can't be that cool. drinking beers, liking sports, being intelligent and fun to hang out with, etc...these are nice, but aren't worth much if she doesn't treat you with respect. if you want her for more than a physical thing, i suppose you want her to be more than a flakey whore (i mean that in the most derogatory sense imaginable).

if she does indeed suck, the fact that she's hot and your neighbour may not amount to much. you can find someone who behaves a little better. then again, i guess we have to play some level of game with everyone (some are more complicated than others), so if you're down for the nuances that GD/KB/CW are throwing at you...

 

[KillahBee]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

She's one of those girls that needs the constant attention of guys (ANY AND EVERY ONE) because she has no self esteem. She will flirt and act coy, joke around and be playful because she needs to know that every man she has contact with wants her.

Next.

If we ignored girls who acted like this we'd be down to like, 4 chicks total left on earth.

 

[slat1]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I didn't read all the replies but I am going to guess that the prospect of getting some ass was a little more exciting then watching you put together your toolbox.
*Idea for second date: watch paint dry

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I say ditch the chick and go buy more tools with the money you would have spent on her.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I've hung out with her like 3 times. This was the only time we actually started to get seriously flirty.

I'll put maybe one egg in this basket and see what happens.

KB's right - if I weeded out every chick with every issue I'd be down to like "a" chick.

I'll play the game and see what happens. I don't want to read too much into it... Even though just making this thread is me reading too much into it.

Eh. Whaddya gonna do.

 

[javaguru]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

but seriously, the only thing i think you should do (this is all very easy over the net...) is do whatever you need to in order to ascertain (to your own satisfaction) the true quality of her character. if she ditched out on you, it seems fairly clear, but who knows. if this is how she behaves on the regular, she can't be that cool. drinking beers, liking sports, being intelligent and fun to hang out with, etc...these are nice, but aren't worth much if she doesn't treat you with respect. if you want her for more than a physical thing, i suppose you want her to be more than a flakey whore (i mean that in the most derogatory sense imaginable).

if she does indeed suck, the fact that she's hot and your neighbour may not amount to much. you can find someone who behaves a little better. then again, i guess we have to play some level of game with everyone (some are more complicated than others), so if you're down for the nuances that GD/KB/CW are throwing at you...

One has to wonder if she is all those things guys like because that's what she enjoys or it's because she knows guys like it and give her attention. I've met far more of the latter than the former.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I say ditch the chick and go buy more tools with the money you would have spent on her.

I bought a $130 digital torque wrench that makes me want to jerk off.

 

[velvett]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

If we ignored girls who acted like this we'd be down to like, 4 chicks total left on earth.

So you agree with me.

That's all that's important.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

patsfan is a manly man




U should teach jackangel

 

[velvett]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I've hung out with her like 3 times. This was the only time we actually started to get seriously flirty.

I'll put maybe one egg in this basket and see what happens.

KB's right - if I weeded out every chick with every issue I'd be down to like "a" chick.

I'll play the game and see what happens. I don't want to read too much into it... Even though just making this thread is me reading too much into it.

Eh. Whaddya gonna do.

Yah, but dude.

Her issue is that she needs attention from men (plural) so even if she's dating you (of just shinning your knob) she's still looking for attention from someone else to feel good because you just won't be enough.

But if you can live with that - then go for it.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Yah, but dude.

Her issue is that she needs attention from men (plural) so even if she's dating you (of just shinning your knob) she's still looking for attention from someone else to feel good because you just won't be enough.

But if you can live with that - then go for it.

Every girl on earth needs attention. Thats why you put on make-up, that's why you wear low cut shirts, that's why you e-flirt... I could go on forever.

Men do the same thing. It's part of life.

I appreciate the advice though. I'll keep a realistic approach but probably not as negative.

 

[blueta2]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I bought a $130 digital torque wrench that makes me want to jerk off.

I buy Snap-On torque wreches and feel the same way...........seriously!

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I buy Snap-On torque wreches and feel the same way...........seriously!

I call bullshit.

 

[blueta2]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

I call bullshit.

Would u like me to scan and post the invoice?!

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Would u like me to scan and post the invoice?!

What's a girl gonna do with a torque wrench?

 

[blueta2]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

What's a girl gonna do with a torque wrench?

Oh, that list can get very long ;-)

 

[SpyWizard]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hat

What's a girl gonna do with a torque wrench?

hold it until the guy needs it..

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

So I have this hot neighbor. Probably a 9. 115 lbs., curly hair, tight ass body. Blue eyes. Nice Irish girl. Fantastic piece.

She lives behind me. We hung out a few times last summer. She had a boyfriend. He was a douchebag. Well about 4 months ago she broke up with him.

I talked to her once or twice between then and now, flirty shit like.

She walks by my place last night as I was assembling my brand new Graphite flake, ball-bearing Craftsman brand 3 piece toolchest.

We hang out in the garage having a GREAT time she was fucking super-flirtatious. Claiming how I never asked her out, blah blah blah, so I said how bout this is a date. (Basically her watching me work on stuff in the garage.) She was all about it, then she walks back over to her place to pick up some $$$ because we ordered a pizza when, bam... Some kid she went out with a few times shows up at her house - a kid that I know - also douchebag - and she dips out and goes home.

WHAT

THE

FUCK

PEOPLE

We were having a fucking real good time - Im talkin' connection.

My question is as such.

Do I...

a.) Forget about it.
b.) Go for it full speed ahead.
c.) Other suggestions between the extremes of choices a.) and c.)

Normally I wouldn't care but this chick is really cool and I'd really like to try and hook it up with her.

For you guys without knowing me personally, for me to want to hook up with a chick not just for fuckings is really rare.

Fuck.

OK I'm done.

so then what the fuck u asking us for? do it already

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

If we ignored girls who acted like this we'd be down to like, 4 chicks total left on earth.

pretty much

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

so then what the fuck u asking us for? do it already

Yeah, I did. I asked her out today. It's a go so far. We'll see.

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Yeah, I did. I asked her out today. It's a go so far. We'll see.

don't make her pay for pizza this time!

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

Yeah, I did. I asked her out today. It's a go so far. We'll see.

good job man, i hope u dont end up getting fucked over though. wear a condom

 

[Virtuoso]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

shes not a flake, shes flighty. theyre different.

she sounds needy as hell. chances are she was over for a quick validation fix and thats that.

if you follow calveless wonders advice and snap her into place at this point, youre going to lose her. how much has she invested in you in terms of time/emotion? enough that shes going to alter her behaviour for you? no way. put the hard word on her and shes going to think youre needy, the fun will flow out of your interactions, positive emotional connections will not be made and youre going to blow out.

now, it sounds like the girl is attracted to you, or at least, interested enough that shes going to keep interviewing you, which means she will probably respond to you inviting her places/engineering meetups.

so what you need to do is keep doing what you were doing before. youre busy. youre popular. you have so much shit happening in your life you couldnt really care that the girl next door is a 9, you have another 10 9s waiting for you elsewhere that you need to try see tonight. keep busting on her in a fun way. keep her having fun with you. - but at the same time, you need to get an excuse to get her over again to spend time with you, so that she can start investing emotionally and you can actually game her properly.

let her see that youre the best option available, let her decide taht she likes you/being around you, and then as soon as you know shes decided that youre sexually attractive and she wants you, TAKE CONTROL (because hot girls generally wait for a man to take the lead and seldom do so themselves) and throw her into bed with teh quickness

good post bro... theres your advice ^

 

[ceo]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

It's pretty obvious that this chick is in it for the flirting/fun/attention. She's one of those chicks that you don't talk to at the bar until closing time - a "get her at the right time" type of poobah. Act like it's no big deal (better yet, make sure she sees you interacting with other girls). She'll come chasing eventually.

ding ding ding...we have a winner!

 

[ceo]

Re: OK seriously, what in the fuck is up with girlsthese days?!?!?!?! I think god hates me lately. That or he's giggling like a schoolgirl at this one...

so what you need to do is keep doing what you were doing before. youre busy. youre popular. you have so much shit happening in your life you couldnt really care that the girl next door is a 9, you have another 10 9s waiting for you elsewhere that you need to try see tonight. keep busting on her in a fun way. keep her having fun with you. - but at the same time, you need to get an excuse to get her over again to spend time with you, so that she can start investing emotionally and you can actually game her properly.

let her see that youre the best option available, let her decide taht she likes you/being around you, and then as soon as you know shes decided that youre sexually attractive and she wants you, TAKE CONTROL (because hot girls generally wait for a man to take the lead and seldom do so themselves) and throw her into bed with teh quickness

true this. and remember...you don't give a shit. You're busy. You're popular. you've got bitches throwing themselves at you.