'Nother Question

[SleepingFist]

oh god Peaches not you as well

I did not think you would go that way aswell.

I have said my piece and I will say it again but this time in baby talk.

The mere suggestion that any one is trying to be "smart" is derisory. Your question concerning illusion and chemistry is a phylisophical one and includes many different factors, views and slants.

My previous post, stated that ther state of a humans conscious developement affected their 'love' experience. It stated that as we progress, if our progression is inward, love becomes a state of mind and not a chosen extreme for a single person. It stated that the lust or 'chemical' experiencesin the short term can be far stronger than the 'love' thang. It stated that in my opinion, true 'spritual' progression affords an appreciation for the long term emotional states and transitory lust is seen for what it is; 'transitory'. 'Letting go' as you say is not about clinging to romantic notions and spielbergesque sentimentality, it is about exactly what Bekinimum stated earlier, something that is a treasure is in the wrinkled old hand and not in the silken hips.

I love my girlfreind, I do not ask myself why, I do not analise this fact nor do I disect it. I know that it has never been chemical; I saw her and in that moment of experiencing her movement, her grace and something else, I experienced something quite different to sexual stimulation, I felt a rush of somehting close to happiness or joy, something like a lightening of the world around me amd it had nothing to do with blood rushing to my nether regions. If it is illusion it is a wonderful illusion.

Love to men is as important to them as it is to women. To say otherwise is ingrascious. We, or some of us, may speak strongly on the subject and be 'phylisophical' about this but that is because the subject is not about Mills and Boon or Ally Mcbeal. The post may have been started with a light hearted idea in mind, the same as Testboy might answer it, but to criticise men because they see things differently is to say I wish men thought like women...and how many sex changes would there be.

The difference must be celibrated between you and I. Love is a tool in some circles for a kind of consious ascension and anyone who would deride a person for looking deaply into something of such importance to them has simply asked that everyone approached love like Macdonalds approaches food, fast, cheap and unsatisfying.

If you girls find that men nead to lighten up on the subject of love it will not be long before we are asked to take the damn subject seriously, which is half your normal, most common criticisms anyway.

Accept or don't but don't be stupid in the process.

 

[AziaReign]

Whoa cowboy.............slow the f*** down! I made a comment to Peach............is your name Peach??? Didn't think so. We understand that some men have fluffy-wuffy- hearts full of little cuddly creatures, and yes, you always have your freedom of speech.........but you don't have to use Websters dictionary to get your point across. No, I don't need you to speak "baby-talk" for me to understand what you're saying, but maybe you should step off of your high-horse and come down to the "normal people" level Sherlock Holmes.
I'm sorry you think of love as a freakin' science project and you have to figure out the direct angles, degrees, and what happens when we rotate the quadrilateral perpendicular lines of the human brain (bla bla bla).......but don't take your pathetic nonsense out on me 'cause I DON'T CARE that your having a bad day, I DON'T CARE that you have an IQ of 400, I DON'T CARE HOW old you are, I don't even care that you can use REEEEALLY big words. DON'T quote me with your additional commentation added to my sentences, DON'T make comments of others' on the boards thinking highly of themselves by "looking in the mirror" (you don't know a damn thing about anyone on here and also as to WHY people DO think highly of themselves )(they have every f***in right to!)..........DON'T come on here in a pissy mood, cause I don't care! You know what? I'll take what you said, shove it in a envelope, seal it with my pussy juices, wrap barbwire around it, kick you in your head, and shove it right up your hairy ass! Correct me if I'm wrong, but until you have nice comments to make, or I see a picture of yourself, I think you are just a lazy fatass that has an enormously large head for that there brain of yours!
So back the f*** off mister, take a few minutes to calm the f*** down, relax, and then maybe your day won't be so bad!!


Thank-you, and have a nice day!

 

[Superbabe]

Hey Azia...

Please could you let me in on the points system you have that tells me how many long words it is legal to use in a system.... oh sorry, you were just being unecesarily critical.

Why shouldn't language be used just because there are more than two syllables in a word? The wider the vocabulary the more specifically an idea can be communicated and so the less chance there is of misunderstanding.

If you don't understand a word, ask. We weren't all born speaking languages freely but some of us have bothered to learn. If that makes you feel insecure (which it obviously does due to your defensive post...) then go out and learn...do not deride the expression of other people.

 

[Test boy]

I just think it is wrong to attack after someone has opened up their heart and expressed their thoughts on love. I learned some time ago not to open up too much to strangers in cyberspace...perfect place for freaks to hang out. Great place to have fun and learn, just don't take it too seriously. I am intrigued by all the role reversals in this country. Men talking of love and bonding while some women poke fun at it and come across as a hard ass. I can remember when things were different. I for one plan on waiting until I am 55 then going to a foreign country and bringing back a friend that likes and respects men. Unless of course Superbabe is available.

 

[Superbabe]

You know what? I'll take what you said, shove it in a envelope, seal it with my pussy juices, wrap barbwire around it, kick you in your head, and shove it right up your hairy ass! Correct me if I'm wrong, but until you have nice comments to make, or I see a picture of yourself, I think you are just a lazy fatass that has an enormously large head for that there brain of yours!

Freedom of speach not available in AziaReign Land obviously....unless of course your submit a picture for HER TO JUDGE???????

And since when did resorting to personal insults ever win an argument.....

Well..... I'm don't know wether I should post this.... I'm so scared of what she will post back....I mean...she sound REAL tough......

Yeah right..................

 

[AziaReign]

Its not that I don't understand BIG words, intellectual words, but honestly, you don't have to come on here sounding like a walking vocabulary test. No, Superbabe, I'm not acting in defense, and this post is almost becoming something totally off the subject of what was originally asked. I was just defending MYSELF to SLIPPINGFIST. An idea can be communicated through many ways indeedy! Buuuuuut............whatever. To each his own, right?

 

[SleepingFist]

Asia, damn thank you, I thought I was having a bad day but Jeeesh, you are one volatile mama...threats of violence...mmm...and an admission that you nead baby talk despite saying you do not.

Right where do I begin...bubyagoogypoogywoogy...but serously.

You have not realy understood anything I have written and I am sorry about that. You sound like you feel like you have missed opportunities in your life and have been underpriveledged. I am sorry, so very very sorry that you grew up in a world where the threat of violence was your only answer to an intelectual challenge (please excuse the spelling but it was the only thing you did not pick up on earlier so I reckon you don't notice).

Truth is, I study everything, I try to undestand as much as possible and ask questions when I get a bit lost...I am kind of sorry that is so far beneath you.

You did respond to Peaches, true, but you criticised the male approach to the question of love and how much was illusionary and how much chemical, of course, assuming these two are the only factors: It was to this that my post was addressed.

I am also rather concerned that you have rather than responded in the relaxed, deep breath, manner you reccommend have blown a gasget. Well, I won't give any advice, don't want you unravelling barbed wire from your nether reagions now do we?

I admit that I, maybe should not have misquated you, but I noted that Peaches took it much better when it happened to her and just assumed you would be equal to her measure. Wrong again I see.

Lastly, it is clear you and I are not gonna get one, I am not funny and you have no sense of humour; I will leave you to do whatever contortions you see fit with barbed wire and an envelope and hope you don't harm yourself....if at all possible.

 

[AziaReign]

Truce SlippingFist.........all right OLD MAN? j/k

As for you Superbabe, bring it on baby.......bring it on.....

 

[SleepingFist]

Truce...I'm only 34....

 

[AziaReign]

I know my math hun.............. November 29,1966........