need help w/ girlfriends orgasm

[buckydingdong]

Its never happened. getting close to 2 years together, we have done so much together sexually, but she has never had an orgasm. ever.

we have tried everything i can think of - actually a big problem is i swear i dont know if she even has a clit - there basically is nothing there like it should be, can't even feel a bump there. rubbing her g-spot makes her get pretty excited, but even then she can't get off. she used to say she felt like she was going to pee sometimes and i told her that might be it, to go with it, but now says she doesn't get that feeling anymore. i've gone down on her for up to 45 minutes, but that shit honestly gets old after that long with no results.

anyways, she says everything feels good, she just can't get off.

any ideas?


Bucky

 

[buckydingdong]

queue "pass her to me (har har har)" replies.

sean, if you got anything on this help me duuuude.

-bucky

 

[Zerxes]

Three words Vi-Bra-Tor. If that doesnt get her off, then nothing will. Try getting on top of her and fuck her while you are sitting back on your heels while her feet are on your chest, or your shoulders, and hold the vibrator on her Clit at the same time.

Try doin her from behind, but have her lying flat with her upper body on the bed, so that only her ass is stickin high up in the air. Instead of being on your knees, stand up on your feet in a squatting position and do her that way. Get her asshole nice and wet and either rub the vibrator on it while you are fucking her, or maybe even put it inside her just a little. Have her rub her clit at the same time. Triple stimulation.

 

[Temple]

She needs to orgasm alone before she will be able to easily do it with you. Buy her a vibrator. Also there was a thread about this on the women's board - do a search for "orgasm" but limit it to just the women's board using the blue key at the top of the screen.

 

[VooDoo Lady]

She needs to orgasm alone before she will be able to easily do it with you. Buy her a vibrator. Also there was a thread about this on the women's board - do a search for "orgasm" but limit it to just the women's board using the blue key at the top of the screen.

I was thinking about the same thread. There's some great info in there (amongst the usual bullshit) but it's worth reading through. I think the girl even came back and said that she had finally had one!

 

[Temple]

here it is

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=125941&highlight=orgasm

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Okay...

Try anal sex while she is using a vibrator.

I havnt been with a woman yet who this doesnt work for.

 

[buckydingdong]

a vibrator...

could that be used as sort of a learning type thing or do you think she would be dependent on it for orgasm? I'd like her to experience it either way but i'd like to know

 

[Bigsatan13]

Its never happened. getting close to 2 years together, we have done so much together sexually, but she has never had an orgasm. ever.

we have tried everything i can think of - actually a big problem is i swear i dont know if she even has a clit - there basically is nothing there like it should be, can't even feel a bump there. rubbing her g-spot makes her get pretty excited, but even then she can't get off. she used to say she felt like she was going to pee sometimes and i told her that might be it, to go with it, but now says she doesn't get that feeling anymore. i've gone down on her for up to 45 minutes, but that shit honestly gets old after that long with no results.

anyways, she says everything feels good, she just can't get off.

any ideas?


Bucky

Yeah, you suck in bed!

 

[TEXgrl]

tell her to play with herself, alone, until she has one. until she can get herself off, she can't tell you how to do it.

 

[buckydingdong]

BigSatan, I know you aren't a tard-cart, but shes not ever had one, even by herself...

texgirl - i can't get her to masturbate so far, any ideas on that one either? She says its no fun if she has to do all the work - which i say sounds retarded but uhhh.... yeah, any ideas on that either? I've tried the subtle "baby, you should masturbate" I think her heart did flips as she drooled over me. I can't be any more blunt than that though, uhhh and the clitoral thing is kind of a no - go.

Any idea why i can't find that??? She has the hood, but no clit, like basically its not there i suppose, and being a guy who like most has seen at least 9 million pornos, the location and whatnot is known, but not on my girl sadly. Do any of those creams work that are supposed to heighten female arousal?

 

[The Architect]

The girl i'm with now was a tough cookie- she never had an orgasm either- it took me a few months for it to finally happen.

these might help- lots of forplay, get her really horny. Then I would start off really slow and sentual. And don't get frustrated if it doesn't happen right away, find a way that really feels good to her and keep at it.

good luck

 

[Pamela]

How old is your girlfriend?

It takes most girls awhile to feel totally comfortable with themselves before they
can really let go sexually.

If she feels that is the only thing your concerned with; she may have a hard time relaxing.

One evening run her a bubble bath, light some candles with a nice fragrance.
Give her a slow sensual bath. Then towel her off. Put her in bed and just touch
her all over show her you really love being with her.
Turn her on with out worry about intercource.

I think she will enjoy herself and enjoy you too..

Best to you and her both..

 

[Frackal]

Dont listen to Pamela, here's what you do.

First, rub her head to toe with haberno hot sauce.

Then put on a pair of guady sunglasses and get yourself a three-foot mohawk.

Then have her chained spread eagled against a wall, facing the wall.

Draw a bullseye around her ass.

Take 5 viagra until your dick is harder than the rock of gibraltor

Get a running start

Yell "HIAWATHA!" at the top of your lungs

Penetration

This is my personal sig move. It cant be beat.


[size=-999]perhaps its time for me to go to bed[/size]

 

[Pamela]

Dont listen to Pamela, here's what you do.

First, rub her head to toe with haberno hot sauce.

Then put on a pair of guady sunglasses and get yourself a three-foot mohawk.

Then have her chained spread eagled against a wall, facing the wall.

Draw a bullseye around her ass.

Take 5 viagra until your dick is harder than the rock of gibraltor

Get a running start

Yell "HIAWATHA!" at the top of your lungs

Penetration

This is my personal sig move. It cant be beat.


[size=-999]perhaps its time for me to go to bed[/size]

Yes that makes me very excited..

 

[Ceebs]

BigSatan, I know you aren't a tard-cart, but shes not ever had one, even by herself...

Pamela made some excellent points about the problem being mental, rather than physical. If it is a physical issue, however, get her a shower massager. She'll cum so hard she sees stars.

 

[lilperronis]

Dont listen to Pamela, here's what you do.

First, rub her head to toe with haberno hot sauce.

Then put on a pair of guady sunglasses and get yourself a three-foot mohawk.

Then have her chained spread eagled against a wall, facing the wall.

Draw a bullseye around her ass.

Take 5 viagra until your dick is harder than the rock of gibraltor

Get a running start

Yell "HIAWATHA!" at the top of your lungs

Penetration

This is my personal sig move. It cant be beat.


[size=-999]perhaps its time for me to go to bed[/size]

lol bro but that would kinda hurt is you would get a running start

 

[Temple]

Pamela made some excellent points about the problem being mental, rather than physical. If it is a physical issue, however, get her a shower massager. She'll cum so hard she sees stars.

I keep hearing about these shower massagers...I need to get one of those LOL.

If she isn't willing to put forth the effort to learn to orgasm by masturbation then I have to wonder how interested she is in having one. Sounds like she may be young. Orgasm is 99% mental and 1% physical. You say that you can't find her clit by my question is can she find it???

 

[Ceebs]

I keep hearing about these shower massagers...I need to get one of those LOL.

GET ONE! Oh my gosh, it is the best. toy. ever. Between pulsation and temperature control, I can't see how someone couldn't find a setting that suited their stimulation needs perfectly. Your sweetheart would probably like it too - although I haven't used one on/with a guy yet, all of the male feedback I've heard has been great. It's the gift that keeps on giving!

 

[Pamela]

GET ONE! Oh my gosh, it is the best. toy. ever. Between pulsation and temperature control, I can't see how someone couldn't find a setting that suited their stimulation needs perfectly. Your sweetheart would probably like it too - although I haven't used one on/with a guy yet, all of the male feedback I've heard has been great. It's the gift that keeps on giving!

Hey Creebs would you happen to have a link to this
""Shower Massager""?

I think we need to check this out...