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Name something you regret you did, knowing it was wrong

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Name something in the past that you did, knowing that it was wrong at the time, but you went thru with it anyways and then regreted your actions.


For me it was giving into my best friend's girlfriend's flirting with me while they were together.

She ended up dumping him for me. Even though I knew it was wrong my penis couldn't tell her no. :(

We dated for 3 1/2 years then she dumped me for some guy she hung out with at college. They are currently married.

The heartache of losing her plus losing my best friend was well deserved from my selfish actions.

I see my old friend from time to time and we speak, but we both know we could never be friends again. I have apologized a couple times. If only I could do it over again with a more mature mindest I would.

What about you?
 
oh god. too many to mention.
 
Come on you lame-o's. This is confession time. It'll make you feel better.
 
now why would I want to do that? To many judgemental people here to tell me what a shit I was when I already know it....I did a bad thing that I have to live with forever and would never do it agian for as long as I live. I hurt more than one person in the process.
 
ok. i remember one.
i was flirting with my boyfriend's best friend. eventually, i dumped my boyfriend for him and we dated for a few years. he had a micropenis, bad breath, and cheap as hell. I dumped him for a real man, whom i married.

now i'm happy and he's still single, obviously.
 
stilleto said:
ok. i remember one.
i was flirting with my boyfriend's best friend. eventually, i dumped my boyfriend for him and we dated for a few years. he had a micropenis, bad breath, and cheap as hell. I dumped him for a real man, whom i married.

now i'm happy and he's still single, obviously.
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AH HA! I am not still single!

Uh I mean, are you sure he is still single?
 
KSHARP01 said:
now why would I want to do that? To many judgemental people here to tell me what a shit I was when I already know it....I did a bad thing that I have to live with forever and would never do it agian for as long as I live. I hurt more than one person in the process.
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That's the beauty of it. You admit you are/were wrong and feel bad, so nobody can really hold it against you.

We all do stupid stuff, especially when younger. Learning from our mistakes is what makes us better people.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Name something in the past that you did, knowing that it was wrong at the time, but you went thru with it anyways and then regreted your actions.


For me it was giving into my best friend's girlfriend's flirting with me while they were together.

She ended up dumping him for me. Even though I knew it was wrong my penis couldn't tell her no. :(

We dated for 3 1/2 years then she dumped me for some guy she hung out with at college. They are currently married.

The heartache of losing her plus losing my best friend was well deserved from my selfish actions.

I see my old friend from time to time and we speak, but we both know we could never be friends again. I have apologized a couple times. If only I could do it over again with a more mature mindest I would.

What about you?
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You peice of fucking garbage!

Seriously.





Anyway... getting married for me. Fuck we argued the night before, on the honeymoon, at the recital dinner... what a mess.
 
I don't regret anything I've done..

Things have happened for a reason...

You grow from it...

I cannot think of anything bad I've done...
 
stilleto said:
ok. i remember one.
i was flirting with my boyfriend's best friend. eventually, i dumped my boyfriend for him and we dated for a few years. he had a micropenis, bad breath, and cheap as hell. I dumped him for a real man, whom i married.

now i'm happy and he's still single, obviously.
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If you read AAP post you'll see it was really the guy's fault. AAP, if you read this post you'll see it was really the girl's fault. Neither of you should be feel bad.

BTW, Stilletto? :makes phone signal next to ear:
 
JH1 said:
You peice of fucking garbage!

Seriously.





Anyway... getting married for me. Fuck we argued the night before, on the honeymoon, at the recital dinner... what a mess.
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This is about knowing it was wrong at the time and still going thru with it.

So did you think it was wrong or did you have regrets while you were getting married?
 
alien amp pharm said:
That's the beauty of it. You admit you are/were wrong and feel bad, so nobody can really hold it against you.

We all do stupid stuff, especially when younger. Learning from our mistakes is what makes us better people.
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Well, everyone that knows me knows how I feel about cheating so when I did it to a really really great man....geesh, I don't know. I felt probally as bad as he did. I still have trouble facing him from the shame of it all. He was willing to forgive and move on but I couldn't live with the guilt of it. I used to always say to people...don't they ever watch soap opras or Jerry Springer? cheaters ALWAYS get caught sooner or later. Anyway, my now ex worked off shore and it was getting to where he was gone more and more at a time...like 3 months at a time with no comunication even!! I started going out with my best friend after being talked into it at first and ran into this guy that I had always been friends with....well, I guess with the booze and the lonelyness and being with someone I totally felt comfortable with made it to easy for me. I do have to say though 6 years later and I am still with the same guy. (not sure how much longer at this point) but I will never ever forget the look of disappointment not only from my ex but my family as well. Some cheaters make it look so easy but I swear every time the phone rang I would freak thinking this is the time I am gonna have to come clean. I know I will burn in hell for hurting him the way I did. He was a great man and would of done anything for me but work less!!
 
alien amp pharm said:
This is about knowing it was wrong at the time and still going thru with it.

So did you think it was wrong or did you have regrets while you were getting married?
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Yeah... I knew it was wrong to get married at that time.. we were fighting the night before... it was really akward the day of.
 
KSHARP01 said:
I know I will burn in hell for hurting him the way I did. He was a great man and would of done anything for me but work less!!
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Don't be so hard on yourself, we all are human and make mistakes, which can be forgiven. Who knows?

With his next wife maybe he will try to spend more time at home.
 
KSHARP01 said:
there it is...happy?

My dirty little secret shared with the entire world!!
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OMG that is the worst thing I've ever heard.

Mods, please ban this woman!





:) ok seriously, it is good that you feel remorse. Most people who cheat do it frequently and have no regrets even after he/she gets caught.

Thanks for sharing your story. Don't you feel better now?
 
Not treating my wife better when we were together. We just got off the phone. She was coming back from her lawyers office. I think we both were unable to love each other deeply and truely. That ended up being our biggest problem.

I certainly had my moments of treating her unfairly. I guess you really meet yourself in times like this. It's sad because I really do still love her. I told her that I really in my life only loved one person I have ever had a relationship with and it was her. I just really suck at showing it. Sad that it took losing everthing to bring me to the point of knowing myself and my shortcomings enough to be able to change it in myself. I'm such an idiot sometimes.
 
alien amp pharm said:
OMG that is the worst thing I've ever heard.

Mods, please ban this woman!





:) ok seriously, it is good that you feel remorse. Most people who cheat do it frequently and have no regrets even after he/she gets caught.

Thanks for sharing your story. Don't you feel better now?
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I guess your right on that part but I can't say I'll ever feel better about it. I can guarantee that it would NEVER happen again. I can't believe that one person could hurt another so bad like that and not feel bad about it. He was so good to me and never deserved that to happen to him!!
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Not treating my wife better when we were together. We just got off the phone. She was coming back from her lawyers office. I think we both were unable to love each other deeply and truely. That ended up being our biggest problem.

I certainly had my moments of treating her unfairly. I guess you really meet yourself in times like this. It's sad because I really do still love her. I told her that I really in my life only loved one person I have ever had a relationship with and it was her. I just really suck at showing it. Sad that it took losing everthing to bring me to the point of knowing myself and my shortcomings enough to be able to change it in myself. I'm such an idiot sometimes.
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I am not asking what you did, but do you think there is a chance to work it out?

and are you certain the split up was your fault? When I was younger I took blame for certain relationships, then looking back nowadays, I see that it wasn't my fault at all. Some yes, but not all. I was just in the depression state and felt sorry for myself while holding the girl up to high standards, which was undeserved.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Not treating my wife better when we were together. We just got off the phone. She was coming back from her lawyers office. I think we both were unable to love each other deeply and truely. That ended up being our biggest problem.

I certainly had my moments of treating her unfairly. I guess you really meet yourself in times like this. It's sad because I really do still love her. I told her that I really in my life only loved one person I have ever had a relationship with and it was her. I just really suck at showing it. Sad that it took losing everthing to bring me to the point of knowing myself and my shortcomings enough to be able to change it in myself. I'm such an idiot sometimes.
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I have to ask because I find that it is usually the man that doesn't know that things are bad..they seemed to be the last to know and even when confronted with it they don't want to do a damn thing about it until it is truely to late.
 
alien amp pharm said:
I am not asking what you did, but do you think there is a chance to work it out?

and are you certain the split up was your fault? When I was younger I took blame for certain relationships, then looking back nowadays, I see that it wasn't my fault at all. Some yes, but not all. I was just in the depression state and felt sorry for myself while holding the girl up to high standards, which was undeserved.
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Right now I would say there is no working it out. We both agree that we both did a lot to fuck it up. We just can't get past the conflict right now or get over the things that have happened. Its weired how screwed up things can get for people who love each other.

A lot of the final straws for her were related to me being depressed and insecure.
 
KSHARP01 said:
I guess your right on that part but I can't say I'll ever feel better about it. I can guarantee that it would NEVER happen again. I can't believe that one person could hurt another so bad like that and not feel bad about it. He was so good to me and never deserved that to happen to him!!
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People that stay together, do so for a reason. You obviously needed more than he was willing to give. Your mistake was in not ending the relationship yourelf before you moved on. And every person that leaves their S.O. alone for that length of time, no matter how right or wrong, risks the same circumstances.
 
HiDnGoD said:
People that stay together, do so for a reason. You obviously needed more than he was willing to give. Your mistake was in not ending the relationship yourelf before you moved on. And every person that leaves their S.O. alone for that length of time, no matter how right or wrong, risks the same circumstances.
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Agree and disagree.

I have yet to find a legit excuse for cheating.

Talk it out first then end the relationship if there is no solution.

Granted there is many variables we don't know about Ksharp's situation, but if he was gone making a living then that is defininitly not a good reason to cheat.

If a person is feeling neglected, cheating isn't going to solve it. They simply need to get out of the situation that is making him/her feel neglected.
 
HiDnGoD said:
People that stay together, do so for a reason. You obviously needed more than he was willing to give. Your mistake was in not ending the relationship yourelf before you moved on. And every person that leaves their S.O. alone for that length of time, no matter how right or wrong, risks the same circumstances.
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You are so true BUT I never intended things to go as far as they did and I didn't have any problems with my husband, he was a GREAT man. I was selfish and liked the attention I was getting that my husband couldn't give me. (geesh that sounds so pathetic) I never wanted to fall in love with the "other" guy. When I first started dating my husband he hardley ever worked and made plently money to pay bills and still had extra but after we got married he felt the need to work more and more and he knew that is not what I wanted. I told him I would rather him only work to where we were comfortable so we could spend time as a family. If not then what is the point in being married but living single for more than half the year. He missed holidays and all. He just had trouble telling work no sometimes and he was in a postition to do so.
 
KSHARP01 said:
I have to ask because I find that it is usually the man that doesn't know that things are bad..they seemed to be the last to know and even when confronted with it they don't want to do a damn thing about it until it is truely to late.
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I guess in my case I didn't know that it bothered her so much. I thought it was like brothers who can treat each other poorly and get over it. We both did it to each other at times. For me it's easy to just stick it away somewhere in the back of your mind and not go there. For her they kept building up untill it changed the way she felt about me. I got all of those things double barrel. From like years ago and it was too late to do anything about it.
 
a beautiful girl in one of my accounting classes asked me to go to a party with her one friday. . .we went. . .we had sex a few times. . .i stopped returning her phone calls. . .i hurt her feelings. . .really bad. . .i wasn't a playa by any stretch of the imagination when i was in college. . .i just didn't do shit like that. . .i was just really wrapped up in my own bs at that time. . .i've felt bad about it pretty much everyday since then. . .that was almost 20 years ago. . .

on the bright side. . .i saw her at a party a couple of years later (after we had graduated). . .over-lapping circle of friends. . .anyway, she walked in, saw me and then left. . .i followed her outside to tell her how sorry i was and to apologize for being an asshole and beg for forgiveness. . .she turned around, doubled up her fist and punched me right in the head. . .in front of a bunch of people. . .i saw it coming from a mile away and i could have easily ducked or just threw up a hand stopped her, but i stood there and took it. . .i figured i owed her that much. . .she left. . .i walked back inside rubbing my jaw. . .it was actually kind of funny getting popped by a chick in front of a bunch of my friends. . .
 
KSHARP01 said:
You are so true BUT I never intended things to go as far as they did and I didn't have any problems with my husband, he was a GREAT man. I was selfish and liked the attention I was getting that my husband couldn't give me. (geesh that sounds so pathetic) I never wanted to fall in love with the "other" guy. When I first started dating my husband he hardley ever worked and made plently money to pay bills and still had extra but after we got married he felt the need to work more and more and he knew that is not what I wanted. I told him I would rather him only work to where we were comfortable so we could spend time as a family. If not then what is the point in being married but living single for more than half the year. He missed holidays and all. He just had trouble telling work no sometimes and he was in a postition to do so.
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In thearpy they said that marital problems are equally shared except for one thing. There is only one thing that is entirely one persons fault. That is cheating.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
In thearpy they said that marital problems are equally shared except for one thing. There is only one thing that is entirely one persons fault. That is cheating.
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geesh I wish I would of never posted up in this damn thread........

But your right, I can't deny that and I surely haven't once tried. I know I was a piece of shit for doing that and would never do it again. That was entirely my fault. I could of said no and didn't!! I am low life scum...I get it and know this that is why I didn't want to admit to it. I, to this day, have trouble facing him out of MY OWN guilt!!! What I did was totally unforgivable and even though he was willing to forgive and move on, I couldn't!! I would never expected him to trust me again for good reason.
 
KSHARP01 said:
geesh I wish I would of never posted up in this damn thread........
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lol

well personally I think you're a swell person.

nobody here is judging anybody (at least they better not be). We've all made mistakes.
 
KSHARP01 said:
geesh I wish I would of never posted up in this damn thread........

But your right, I can't deny that and I surely haven't once tried. I know I was a piece of shit for doing that and would never do it again. That was entirely my fault. I could of said no and didn't!! I am low life scum...I get it and know this that is why I didn't want to admit to it. I, to this day, have trouble facing him out of MY OWN guilt!!! What I did was totally unforgivable and even though he was willing to forgive and move on, I couldn't!! I would never expected him to trust me again for good reason.
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With that said... there is no reason to keep beating yourself up for it. Everybody makes mistakes, that is the reason for this thread.
 
alien amp pharm said:
lol

well personally I think you're a swell person.

nobody here is judging anybody (at least they better not be). We've all made mistakes.
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Thank you! I really appreciate that! What's that saying "those who live in glass houses shouldn't cast stones?" It just always seems that when YOU personally did something wrong there is always those there to point their finger at you saying "shame, shame on you"
Like I said a hundred times now.....I know I did wrong! That IS what the thread is about....things you did that you regret!!! I can't say it made me a better person by no means but I learned from it!
Next time just don't get caught..........lol j/k really!!


I am actually the one who told on myself. I couldn't live with the guilt, awful feeling!!

I REGRET, I REGRET!!
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Right now I would say there is no working it out. We both agree that we both did a lot to fuck it up. We just can't get past the conflict right now or get over the things that have happened. Its weired how screwed up things can get for people who love each other.

A lot of the final straws for her were related to me being depressed and insecure.
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let me assure you that there is ALWAYS a chance of things returning. and being better than ever.
you'd be surprised.
 
stilleto said:
let me assure you that there is ALWAYS a chance of things returning. and being better than ever.
you'd be surprised.
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Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.
 
JH1 said:
Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.
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well, in your case, i wouldn't consider getting back with your wife unless she's a different person. and then you may not want to get revenge on the new her at all.

but i don't see that happening.
 
Don't listen to Stiletto

the only thing she knows about working it out was the 30 minutes she spent on the toilet after cleaning out KFC's buffet bar
 
Turd Ferguson said:
I guess in my case I didn't know that it bothered her so much. I thought it was like brothers who can treat each other poorly and get over it. We both did it to each other at times. For me it's easy to just stick it away somewhere in the back of your mind and not go there. For her they kept building up untill it changed the way she felt about me. I got all of those things double barrel. From like years ago and it was too late to do anything about it.
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I can understand what your saying here. Men and woman are SO different when it comes to love and relationships, its a wonder how we ever hook up to begin with. I know that right now I am in this relationship, and I feel like we are growning apart. I am starting to feel like he doesn't love me anymore and he tells me I am crazy but for me anyway actions speak louder than words. I can't remember the last time he just grab my hand as we walked or come up and gave me a squeeze even....it is the little things that I notice that mean so much to me. I feel like we have resorted to talking about only the basics....kids, money, bills, chores...I am not so stupid to think a couple with always be "in love" like when they met but damn, I am feeling like there is nothing left to us. I don't expect us to be together for much longer. I keep telling him that if he loves me then just show me damnit!! I am not asking for material things, just heartfelt gestures. Still NOTHING! He can be such a great guy and NO I would live him before I make the same mistake twice but I do feel like I have owed it to him to step up to the plate and he just isn't. In fact if we don't work out I plan on being totally single for a while to work on being just me! I think I am forgetting who that person is.

Opps I think I got off track...sorry!
 
alien amp pharm said:
Don't listen to Stiletto

the only thing she knows about working it out was the 30 minutes she spent on the toilet after cleaning out KFC's buffet bar
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ROFL!
 
KSHARP01 said:
I can understand what your saying here. Men and woman are SO different when it comes to love and relationships, its a wonder how we ever hook up to begin with. I know that right now I am in this relationship, and I feel like we are growning apart. I am starting to feel like he doesn't love me anymore and he tells me I am crazy but for me anyway actions speak louder than words. I can't remember the last time he just grab my hand as we walked or come up and gave me a squeeze even....it is the little things that I notice that mean so much to me. I feel like we have resorted to talking about only the basics....kids, money, bills, chores...I am not so stupid to think a couple with always be "in love" like when they met but damn, I am feeling like there is nothing left to us. I don't expect us to be together for much longer. I keep telling him that if he loves me then just show me damnit!! I am not asking for material things, just heartfelt gestures. Still NOTHING! He can be such a great guy and NO I would live him before I make the same mistake twice but I do feel like I have owed it to him to step up to the plate and he just isn't. In fact if we don't work out I plan on being totally single for a while to work on being just me! I think I am forgetting who that person is.

Opps I think I got off track...sorry!
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I think you answered your own question. Guys and girls show feelings differently. It's not that he doesn't care for you, he is simply not showing you THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE SHOWN.

The question you should ask yourself is "Can I live with that?"
It is not easy to change behavior like that for a man (and honestly nobody should have to change for somebody) and even if he tries to show you love more your way it will eventually return to this current state.
 
JH1 said:
Peeps that say that are in denial.
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Nope I honestly don't have any regrets. I am quite happy with where and who I am in life right now and everything that happened in the past shaped the present so I can't feel bad about any of it.

Plus I really don't have much of a conscience anyway and don't feel bad about the things I do.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
JH1 said:
Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.
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God that is so true about you.
 
Scotsman said:
Nope I honestly don't have any regrets. I am quite happy with where and who I am in life right now and everything that happened in the past shaped the present so I can't feel bad about any of it.

Plus I really don't have much of a conscience anyway and don't feel bad about the things I do.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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Damn you gay guys are always happy it seems. What is your secret?
 
alien amp pharm said:
I think you answered your own question. Guys and girls show feelings differently. It's not that he doesn't care for you, he is simply not showing you THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE SHOWN.

The question you should ask yourself is "Can I live with that?"
It is not easy to change behavior like that for a man (and honestly nobody should have to change for somebody) and even if he tries to show you love more your way it will eventually return to this current state.
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Well, that is sad to hear because he wasn't always like this. He used to be VERY much in touch with my needs and not just for the first year! It started declining after 3 years and now it is almost nonexistent!! We never even have fun together anymore and I don't think it is something I can live with. Hell, I am only 35....I NEED more, not want more, NEED more!! If I was much older then maybe. I hate confrontations and I think I know what needs to be done but have just been putting off the inevitable. I feel in my heart that the love he felt for me has all about died. I think he resents me for so much, he brings up all the time how the house and all are mine...but damnit I worked hard for that and bought before he even moved in with me. I also make more than him and think he takes me for granted.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Damn you gay guys are always happy it seems. What is your secret?
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Not having girls knit on a date.

Since you already take the dick you should know what gay guys are "UP" for.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Turd Ferguson said:
God that is so true about you.
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Bro that is kinda scary about him though. If it wasn't for the good blow jobs he gives I would recommend that you find a new friend.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Agree and disagree.

I have yet to find a legit excuse for cheating.

Talk it out first then end the relationship if there is no solution.

Granted there is many variables we don't know about Ksharp's situation, but if he was gone making a living then that is defininitly not a good reason to cheat.

If a person is feeling neglected, cheating isn't going to solve it. They simply need to get out of the situation that is making him/her feel neglected.
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I agree, there is no excuse. But there are causes, & couples need to ensure that they are giving their mate what they need, so there is no temptation to cheat. People are weak in areas they don't even consider, so when they are in a situation they are not prepared for, they are blinded.
 
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alien amp pharm said:
The question you should ask yourself is "Can I live with that?"
It is not easy to change behavior like that for a man (and honestly nobody should have to change for somebody) and even if he tries to show you love more your way it will eventually return to this current state.
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WELL - thats why marriage/ relationships takes work. I agree that people should not change for anyone ; but thats the type of work that most people dont want to do to make marriage work and thats why they fail. To think about the other person before yourself. He could remind himself that she needs to feel loved - and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do. Hell ; he does not even need to provide anymore, just make sure she knows that she's loved.
 
cindylou said:
and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do.
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:FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol:

karma to you for a good laugh
 
cindylou said:
WELL - thats why marriage/ relationships takes work. I agree that people should not change for anyone ; but thats the type of work that most people dont want to do to make marriage work and thats why they fail. To think about the other person before yourself. He could remind himself that she needs to feel loved - and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do. Hell ; he does not even need to provide anymore, just make sure she knows that she's loved.
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You are so dead on!!! Like I said, I don't ask for anything else maybe some chorse around the house from time to time that he never does either. I already pretty much provide for us financially damnit! I have been feeling like I get 0 out of this relationship! absolutly nothing at this point!!!
 
alien amp pharm said:
Name something in the past that you did, knowing that it was wrong at the time, but you went thru with it anyways and then regreted your actions.


For me it was giving into my best friend's girlfriend's flirting with me while they were together.

She ended up dumping him for me. Even though I knew it was wrong my penis couldn't tell her no. :(

We dated for 3 1/2 years then she dumped me for some guy she hung out with at college. They are currently married.

The heartache of losing her plus losing my best friend was well deserved from my selfish actions.

I see my old friend from time to time and we speak, but we both know we could never be friends again. I have apologized a couple times. If only I could do it over again with a more mature mindest I would.

What about you?
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not calling you a fag when you deserved it
 
KSHARP01 said:
Well, that is sad to hear because he wasn't always like this. He used to be VERY much in touch with my needs and not just for the first year! It started declining after 3 years and now it is almost nonexistent!! We never even have fun together anymore and I don't think it is something I can live with. Hell, I am only 35....I NEED more, not want more, NEED more!! If I was much older then maybe. I hate confrontations and I think I know what needs to be done but have just been putting off the inevitable. I feel in my heart that the love he felt for me has all about died. I think he resents me for so much, he brings up all the time how the house and all are mine...but damnit I worked hard for that and bought before he even moved in with me. I also make more than him and think he takes me for granted.
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I would go to thearpy first before just "thinking" what he thinks. You'd be surprised how off you can be.
 
I adopted a Himalayan cat that was the meanest, nastiest little thing you have ever seen. She jumped on my pillow and peed on it one day. I was living in a high rise condo and I put her out on the balcony. Problem is, I completely forgot about her for 2 days! This was the summer in South Beach. It was HOT outside, and she had no food or water. I realized what I had done and ran out to get her, but she was nowhere to be found, and I lived on the 15th floor. I went out to the beach to see if I could find her body --nowhere to be found. I asked the front desk if anyone had reported her --nothing. I basically killed her. =-( I never did find her.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Don't listen to Stiletto

the only thing she knows about working it out was the 30 minutes she spent on the toilet after cleaning out KFC's buffet bar
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you have NO clue.

although, we all knew that.
 
heatherrae said:
I adopted a Himalayan cat that was the meanest, nastiest little thing you have ever seen. She jumped on my pillow and peed on it one day. I was living in a high rise condo and I put her out on the balcony. Problem is, I completely forgot about her for 2 days! This was the summer in South Beach. It was HOT outside, and she had no food or water. I realized what I had done and ran out to get her, but she was nowhere to be found, and I lived on the 15th floor. I went out to the beach to see if I could find her body --nowhere to be found. I asked the front desk if anyone had reported her --nothing. I basically killed her. =-( I never did find her.
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If that is you in your avater we forgive you. Hot chicks can get away with that sort of thing.
 
heatherrae said:
I adopted a Himalayan cat that was the meanest, nastiest little thing you have ever seen. She jumped on my pillow and peed on it one day. I was living in a high rise condo and I put her out on the balcony. Problem is, I completely forgot about her for 2 days! This was the summer in South Beach. It was HOT outside, and she had no food or water. I realized what I had done and ran out to get her, but she was nowhere to be found, and I lived on the 15th floor. I went out to the beach to see if I could find her body --nowhere to be found. I asked the front desk if anyone had reported her --nothing. I basically killed her. =-( I never did find her.
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I too have searched for pussy with no success. :(
 
heatherrae said:
LOL. You probably never killed it, though.
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I've repeatedly stabbed it all night in an effort to kill it quite a few times, but the myth about pussy having 9 lives is true.
 
cindylou said:
WELL - thats why marriage/ relationships takes work. I agree that people should not change for anyone ; but thats the type of work that most people dont want to do to make marriage work and thats why they fail. To think about the other person before yourself. He could remind himself that she needs to feel loved - and I'll tell ya thats the only thing woman want ; is to FEEL loved. thats it. Take away everything else. Thats all a man has to do. Hell ; he does not even need to provide anymore, just make sure she knows that she's loved.
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Yes, if you love someone, you should be willing to try to change. You should want to know your S.O.s feelings & desires.
I cannot count the things I do in a day to accomodate my wife's feelings. And she probably does the same for me. I want to make her feel good, & she wnats to make me feel good.

BTW, I had a part time job when I was 15. It was a busy gas station & I had no time to return to the till after every fill. So I would end up with hundreds of dollars in cash before I could take a break. Just about every day I would go to the washroom & stick some money in my sock. It probably totalled a coupla hungred bucks over the summer. I gave the money back, secretly, years later, but I still feel guilty for it.
 
JH1 said:
Very Very Very VERY slim... I can't ever look past betrayal....

Never have been able to... everyone says "You're the last person I'd ever fuck with" It's because I am vengeful, clever, and I will always get you back 10x for whatever bullshit you pulled on me - even if it's 4 years later, and costs me 100x what it costs you.

May seem bullheaded, but until I get the releif of revenge - the betrayal eats me alive inside. I always start sleeping better once I have fucked them over.
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I can ASSURE you, what my ex's did to me cannot compare to what many others may have gone through and I learned to forgive these two HORRIBLE men.
You need to learn how to forgive. It doesn't release the person from what they did, but releases you from a total waste of emotion......hate!
Hate only eats you, not the person who hurt you.
Bless your enemies for making you strong and keeping you humble. If you keep hate in yourself from what they did, then they won!
 
heatherrae said:
I adopted a Himalayan cat that was the meanest, nastiest little thing you have ever seen. She jumped on my pillow and peed on it one day. I was living in a high rise condo and I put her out on the balcony. Problem is, I completely forgot about her for 2 days! This was the summer in South Beach. It was HOT outside, and she had no food or water. I realized what I had done and ran out to get her, but she was nowhere to be found, and I lived on the 15th floor. I went out to the beach to see if I could find her body --nowhere to be found. I asked the front desk if anyone had reported her --nothing. I basically killed her. =-( I never did find her.
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not an animal lovers favorite thing to hear. I hope to GOD you never do that again.
 
blueta2 said:
not an animal lovers favorite thing to hear. I hope to GOD you never do that again.
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It was the worst thing I've ever done. I'm a HUGE animal lover, and I didn't do it on purpose. I feel so guilty about it and that was 15 years ago.
 
heatherrae said:
It was the worst thing I've ever done. I'm a HUGE animal lover, and I didn't do it on purpose. I feel so guilty about it and that was 15 years ago.
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I say to make up for it, you should adopt 3 strays and love them forever!
:-)
I feel guilty about spanking my cat when she was crying day and night and then getting so mad at her for running into the street. She was doing odd things for months and I was always mad at her. Little did I know she was dying of mouth cancer and was tryng to tell me she was sick. I still cry when I think about her. I put her down 1 yr ago. It killed me!
God Bless Jaggy :-)
 
blueta2 said:
I say to make up for it, you should adopt 3 strays and love them forever!
:-)
I feel guilty about spanking my cat when she was crying day and night and then getting so mad at her for running into the street. She was doing odd things for months and I was always mad at her. Little did I know she was dying of mouth cancer and was tryng to tell me she was sick. I still cry when I think about her. I put her down 1 yr ago. It killed me!
God Bless Jaggy :-)
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LOL...I have adopted 3 strays since then. Two are still with me, and one went with my ex hubbie who is very, very good to her. So, I guess I have made up for it. =-)
 
KSHARP01 said:
Well, everyone that knows me knows how I feel about cheating so when I did it to a really really great man....geesh, I don't know. I felt probally as bad as he did. I still have trouble facing him from the shame of it all. He was willing to forgive and move on but I couldn't live with the guilt of it. I used to always say to people...don't they ever watch soap opras or Jerry Springer? cheaters ALWAYS get caught sooner or later. Anyway, my now ex worked off shore and it was getting to where he was gone more and more at a time...like 3 months at a time with no comunication even!! I started going out with my best friend after being talked into it at first and ran into this guy that I had always been friends with....well, I guess with the booze and the lonelyness and being with someone I totally felt comfortable with made it to easy for me. I do have to say though 6 years later and I am still with the same guy. (not sure how much longer at this point) but I will never ever forget the look of disappointment not only from my ex but my family as well. Some cheaters make it look so easy but I swear every time the phone rang I would freak thinking this is the time I am gonna have to come clean. I know I will burn in hell for hurting him the way I did. He was a great man and would of done anything for me but work less!!
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so do u wish u could still be with ur ex?
 
KSHARP01 said:
Well, that is sad to hear because he wasn't always like this. He used to be VERY much in touch with my needs and not just for the first year! It started declining after 3 years and now it is almost nonexistent!! We never even have fun together anymore and I don't think it is something I can live with. Hell, I am only 35....I NEED more, not want more, NEED more!! If I was much older then maybe. I hate confrontations and I think I know what needs to be done but have just been putting off the inevitable. I feel in my heart that the love he felt for me has all about died. I think he resents me for so much, he brings up all the time how the house and all are mine...but damnit I worked hard for that and bought before he even moved in with me. I also make more than him and think he takes me for granted.
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are you sure ur not immagining things?
 
blueta2 said:
not an animal lovers favorite thing to hear. I hope to GOD you never do that again.
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Do what? Spare us from the PETA routine. Cats don't like to stay in one place, and they have no problem climbing and jumping. It basically ran away.


Heather I wouldn't worry too much about this one.
 
yeah, last night I drank too much, almost got in a fight in a honky tonk in denver because the girl I was with danced one time (a dance I didnt know anyways) with another guy while I was talking at the bar. Later on I punched a hole in the wall and am paying a drywall specialist $200 to fix it now.
 
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