my girlfriend is missing :(

[calveless wonder]

I found out the other day she was supposed to drive down here to sign the lease on her new apartment...i was supposed to fly out of town but since we hardly get to see each other i changed all my plans at the last minute to surprise her.

So i call her cell to tell and i get one of those "The person you are calling is not accepting calls right now, please try again later". I figured maybe she turned it off for the 7-8 hour drive.

So I ended up calling her house later that day to see if she left ok, and her dad tells me that she left but he hasn't heard from her either and that he was worried. So i tell him i'll keep trying and if i hear from her i'll let him know. That was yesterday....

i got another call from him this morning saying he stil hasn't heard from her.
Out of anyone she'd call it'd either be me or her house... so i'm pretty worried to say the least and i have no idea what to do.

I'm especially worried because I know one of her ex's kept calling her earlier this week and harrassing her, god forbid...
i wanted to do something about it and kill this kid but she lives 700+ miles away right now.

i'm pretty down right now and i really have no idea what to do with myself..

 

[Robert Jan]

So what is your plan now

 

[chewyxrage]

uh why hasen't her father called the police yet?

 

[HumorMe]

Can you file a missing person report?

Hope everything works out.

 

[Razorguns]

>calling her earlier this week and harrassing her

Not a good omen.

Tell her dad to call this guy and find out if he knows where she is. I don't know anything about your gf -- so maybe she's at his house or at a friends house. Or decided to stop off at a motel while driving. First check with the ex. If nothing there -- check accident reports in the state.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

>calling her earlier this week and harrassing her

Not a good omen.

Tell her dad to call this guy and find out if he knows where she is. I don't know anything about your gf -- so maybe she's at his house or at a friends house. Or decided to stop off at a motel while driving. First check with the ex. If nothing there -- check accident reports in the state.

Good advice. SOrry to hear about this bro.

 

[calveless wonder]

uh why hasen't her father called the police yet?

She's a really tough girl and can always handle her own...so i think he's just waiting till he's absolutely sure.

well, i'm praying that that cell phone message is a result of her not paying her phone bill or something.....since that's not a normal message.But i don't have cingular so i have no idea.

the only person she'd probably be with is her future roomate but i don't have the roomate's #, only e-mail....

filing a report is the last thing i want to do because that's basically accepting that she's gone..but if i don't hear from her soon that's gonna have to happen.

 

[calveless wonder]

Not a good omen.

Tell her dad to call this guy and find out if he knows where she is. I don't know anything about your gf -- so maybe she's at his house or at a friends house. Or decided to stop off at a motel while driving. First check with the ex. If nothing there -- check accident reports in the state.

She hasn't seen this guy in almost a year...he tries to call her every once in awhile and she wants nothing to do with him, so she's not at his house. I'm just worried he tried something crazy, in which case....I will drive up there and murder that skinny middle eastern fuck.

Good suggestion on the accident reports though, that's what i'm really worried about...

thanks bro

 

[bran987]

filing a report is the last thing i want to do because that's basically accepting that she's gone..but if i don't hear from her soon that's gonna have to happen.

actually your logic is a little off there. if she's gone it won't matter whether you file or not, but if she's not gone, then it could save her. I think every 15 minutes in america somebody goes missing so it's a fairly common thing to call in and file on

 

[Beachbum1546]

i found her

http://www.extreme-athlete.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=14298&highlight=africa