Yeah, I dunno if there is a proper way to ask for a blow job. Although yelling "Fuckin' blow me already!" and gripping the back of her head probably isn't going to earn one cool points.
Maybe she thinks that she "has" to swallow. Is this the part that is freakin her out? take it one step at a time and get her comfortable with what you like but you need to do a little "teachin" it sounds like. Don't push the swallowing -- keep it one step at a time.
Also, for us gals that work out -- we all know the protein at one blow is equivalent to one thick porkchop!! thats a whole lot of protein!! around 25-30 grams. No complaints at my house!
This girl may not be experiencing a passion level where oral play is desired. Her mind is telling her it is "dirty", cum is like snot, she'll be a bad girl ... and what ever other negative thought is there.
Demanding will not help, nor any other witholding tactic. She has to want to do it ... hunger to do it! The passion level must be raised to where she allows herself to go there.
I'm recommending you loosen up her inhibitions with recreational substances ... whatever she'll do with you. Once she gets crazy with you and has FUN, she'll trust you and herself to go farther.
he should take 500mg of clomid 2 days before, then whack off and cum all over her face while she's sleeping. She'll wake up all wet the next day licking man power. After that, she will become addicted to Peter North movies and will be sucking every single cock on the streets.