dude. you are mistaken. I'm muslim and I have a lot of muslim friends. It all depends on how you're raised and whether or not you are open minded. I dont force the hijab on my sister or mom or wife and non of the women in my family wear it either. Wouldnt mind of they did...wouldnt mind either way.
I agree with you that it is personal choice for some.
But all these religions are archaic and they cause more trouble then good. Having ten wives and they all they all need to wear their hoodies, lol. The equality in this culture is fuct. I am sure my ancestors were fucked up a thousand years ago or whatever, doesn't mean I am going to partake in stuff they did during the dark ages.