two groups of people in this world.....
male or female are the following:
group 1: those who think with their pelvis
group2: those who think with their heart
group 1 is into "get in, get off", recreational, good fun, good feelin' sex, with no complications or involvements 30 minutes after it's all over.
group 2 is into warmth, tenderness, warm and fuzzy feelings for their lovers, they have to feel in in their heart/brain before they can feel it below the waist.
group 1 equates sex with pleasure
group 2 equates sex with love.
if group 1 links up with group 1 fine and fun for both.
if group 1 links up with group 2, it's emotional misery for all involved. they just can't comprehend the others' view point.
i have arrived at this theory through my own life experiences and close observation of others.