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Me and my girl were going at it and she said the BIG L word.
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no prob..let me clarify-- i just meant that if he doesnt love her why has he stayed w/ her for 7 months andddd... if he doesnt luv her... why stress over what to do or say about the situation. he seems like a nice guy who really does have feeling for his girl.. just got a lil freaked out for a min.
u are the same guy who posted the original thread.. just noticed that now.. sorry.... i was referring to "he."Yes I do care for her, it just bothers me when people throw those words around. My last serious relationship, the girl used those same words with no true meaning to it and it sucked me in deeper. After all was said and done with me and my Ex it took me a long time to recover from that. If I never would of said it back to my Ex (but I did stupid me) I never would of gotten as involved as I did and think about the stupid shit that I did think about. It would of been a hell of a lot easier to leave my Ex like I should of long before I did if I would of just stuck to my guns and said it when I was really ready. Instead she would say it all of the time and when I would not say it back she would whine" I can say I love you, but you can't say you love me, we've been together for almost 2yrs yada yada yada.
I just don't want to feel obligated to have to say it back to her, if I say it I'll do it when the time is right when I'm ready. Also I don't want her saying shit like that if she dosen't mean it,,, its not cool for guys to tell girls they love them when they don't (example: I THOUGHT HE LOVED ME!!! He said he loved me and never talked to me after he got what he wanted) so why is it ok for a girl? Its not.
I just don't want to feel obligated to have to say it back to her, if I say it I'll do it when the time is right when I'm ready. Also I don't want her saying shit like that if she dosen't mean it,,, its not cool for guys to tell girls they love them when they don't (example: I THOUGHT HE LOVED ME!!! He said he loved me and never talked to me after he got what he wanted) so why is it ok for a girl? Its not.
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Maybe...I've got a problem.
I don't see how an experienced person can put much stock in words. It is so easy to say them and many people are easily manipulated by them. On the other hand I can easily see the authors point, especially considering the past relationship. As I have aged, I have grown less sensitive to both words and "signs" like smiles or "looks." I probably have a problem...I pretty much go by chemistry and actions.
I don't see how an experienced person can put much stock in words. It is so easy to say them and many people are easily manipulated by them. On the other hand I can easily see the authors point, especially considering the past relationship. As I have aged, I have grown less sensitive to both words and "signs" like smiles or "looks." I probably have a problem...I pretty much go by chemistry and actions.
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