ALRIGHT ENDPOINT HERE WE GO--got a few minutes
pl jay and juice junkie are a couple of my best friends--we have a group of about 7 dudes and are wives and kids ---we all hang out,eat,train ,watch pljay drink beer and fuss about your question.
i went to jay in the begining of 1997 and told him i found a ju jitsu school and he went the next night so yes he was first. he stopped after a few months and i have kept going. i got juice into it and he is learning at a genius pace. WE TALKED TONIGHT AND I AM GOING TO START ROLLING 1 X PER WEEK AGAIN
ju jitsu is by far the best martial art. i have been involved in martial arts since i was 10 years old i'm 34 now . within 3 months of ju jitsu it made me realize all others are obsolete. we do 80% ground and 20% or less striking and throws. i have used it about 12 x in fights(work) and easly won each time using a submission on a person(i try to warn them they just dont listen) ---martial arts dont make you unbeatable it just gives you an edge and with jujitsu it gives a major edge--people expect punching and kicking--i dont, i get a lock or choke and suprise the person.pljay would rather ground and pound.i just hope i dont get the shit knocked out of me before i grab them, but i does give you great confidence because it keeps you in any fight and the average person dont stand much of a chance.
i have been weight training for 15 years and 12 seriously and i love it a little more--i am 244 at 5-10 and i like being big and what comes with it. i like the respect and the fact i dont get tried much because my size but when i do i'm ready(its my job-i dont go out and get into street fights but my job calls for fighting sometimes)
so this was a history to answer your question
pljay is right--you have to choose 1 to put more into to you cant put 50-50 . i am already a brown belt and at this time no desire for a black or to open a school so i chose power lifting. for these reasons
1)my wife and sons likes to lift weights and we can do weights together she does not like ju jitsu-so i can spend more time with family (2)class is 30-35 minute drive then 1 hr class and 30-35 minute drive back--i'm not into that right now if i can train at home,i got my own mats ,and go to class sometimes i will ALREADY TOLD JUICE ONCE A WEEK AT HOUSE SO NOW I AM TRAINING AGAIN(3)did it 3 x per week for years got burned out (4)last but not least INJURIES ju jitsu hurts and takes a lot out of you espically if your big-- with all the hits you take, joint locks ,throws ,shoots and falls,i had more injuries and pains then ever in lifting and did more drugs(pain stuff) then elvis presley.
so basically ju jitsu is great and i would recomend it to any one wanting to do martial arts and i fell you can do both (i'm 34 recovery makes it harder)but 1 has to get more attention than the other-you have to choose which 1 would be most important
hope this helps good luck bro