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Love....... has it been good to you?
- Thread starter biteme
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Ahem. My middle name is "Mr. Right Now", good enough?MILF69 said:So far all I've been is hurt in some way...some worse than others. I hope that at some point "Mr. Right" will come along, if there is such a thing, and I will be happy. Until then the only love that's goin on is the love between me and my three fingers!
MILF69 said:So far all I've been is hurt in some way...some worse than others. I hope that at some point "Mr. Right" will come along, if there is such a thing, and I will be happy. Until then the only love that's goin on is the love between me and my three fingers!
I'm sorry about that. Btw, women are not capable of loving the way men are. A woman's love is superficial and dependent on many circumstances, a man's love is from deep within and will often last forever. Just one of the differences between the sexes I have learned from years of living and reading. I have no feelings about this, other than to accept it. You cannot help what you are.
hamstershaver
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the ones i loved before i never even think about anymore, never dream about them either
i have my true love now
i have my true love now
hamstershaver
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SoKlueles said:awww
i have mine too
and hes the greatest
M
*MissFit*
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stop obsessing.. they should always hold a specila place in ur heart, but not your soul
M
*MissFit*
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Surviving on the past or striving for a future?biteme said:
Not sure how u can do that living in a dream
biteme said:
Same here.
Wow ... was I a jerk and a fool more than once!
The Bigdawg
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Love has been great to me, it has provided me with the best and worst times of my life and I don't have any regrets at all!
biteme said:
Since I've been hanging out in the EF boards, and C&C in particular, I've heard some dreadfully sad generalizations made. Bite, gotta tell ya, this is one of them.
Working on your logic, let's see, men ... well, up until 11 years ago, if I were to operate purely from my own personal experience, from my father forward, every single male I had any type of relationship was not only incapable of healthy love, but extremely emotionally immature and unpredictably volatile, crazy and in need of institutionalization, pedophiles, or just brutally violent (or some interesting combination of all of the characteristics above).
Heck, if I wasn't an optimist I'd have hit my teens and turned lesbian.
I eventually realized it wasn't ALL men though ... just the ones around me. I couldn't do a thing about my father except duck when he swung and carry his casket when he had the decency to finally die ... I left the first crazy one ... got crapped on by the next few, and then went and married one who seemed decent and honest but turned out to be crazy on a whole different level from any I had seen before. I was in my late 20 when I realized I was seeing a serious pattern and reassed what my criteria for a MATE was ...
Y'see, I wouldn't have SEEN my current husband (literally, I would have looked right past/through him) a good, honorable and loving man, if I hadn't realized that I was fulfilling the promise of some perverse little seed my father planted while stomping on my mother's head or when he decked me or bounced my head against a wall ... I had to convince myself that I had the RIGHT to be involved with a good, decent, loving human being.
So, Bite, while your love may be deep and lasting, there are legions of men who love you until they orgasm. The evolutionary fact is that for our species to survive it is more important that a woman be devoted, primarily to her child, but also to "the tribe" as a whole. Women generally have more life long bonds of love and friendship, not men.
On the whole, generalizations are very stupid things to make, right up there with reading your horoscope. Scientists who have studied it have concluded that overall men and women have equivalent EQs and IQs, maybe stronger is different areas (like women for fine detail, men for spacial relationships) but to say that men love more or better than women is very limited. No different than saying all polish people are stupid, all mexicans are lazy, all irish are drunkards, and all asians are industrious.
DannoMight
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There are always a few that I miss but when I think back I wasn't in love just temporary infatuated. There wasn't a bigger picture past the love/infatuation.
