no, i'm holding it against her that she felt the need to swing him into a shelf when all he wanted to do was get by her and get some beer. i don't see him getting in her face at all initially. it's not her job to use physical force; that's the bouncer's job. His initial contact is him slamming her against the wall and throwing her down. Before any punches are thrown, she gets back up and grabs him like she thinks she can take him. get past the fact that she's a woman, she basically initiated and then continued a fight. The real beatdown including the face stomping, which i agree is way out of line, doesn't occur until after this happens